Hi, I am just wondering why I go dry as soon as we use a condom during sex? It don't matter what brand or type we use I still go dry. Also we always use lube prior and after a little while I will go dry again. If we do not use a condom then I will stay wet the whole time without lube. Just curious, why does this happen?
Sat, 07/24/2010 - 10:09
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Why do I go dry?
Yes I have tried every lube you can find and also every condom. Maybe I just know i hate condoms so dry up straight away.
Have you tried using a different lube? Some lubes dry out faster than others.
Different lube or different condom. Latex is quite abrasive at a microscopic level and will tend to dry you out faster. Try poly. Another idea is to use an applicator for vaginal jelly to insert water based lube. It fits the tube and will put more in there to draw out keeping your entrance wet.
So, now try the technique I suggest.
Condoms can give "rug burns" for females, it is after all rubber against sensitive skin. Also the natural wetness does not adhere to the rubber like it does to your skin. This is why they come with its own lube. Best for you is to use some more lubrication when you use a condom. Also a female can go dry if it doesnt feel nice. She might tell you that it feels nice because she doesn't want to disappoint you. Condoms can be nasty and destroy your sex life. But sometimes you are forced to use it or no sex at all.