When me and my boyfriend do things I'm not getting turned on one bit!
What is wrong with me?
He kisses me, kisses my neck, his hands are all over, he has poked me, and nothing is happning!
I am attracted to him, I think he's gorgeous but, seriously why?
thanks x
Sat, 05/26/2007 - 20:00
#1
Why am I not...?


Only you can answer that. It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, but perhaps the way he touches you isn't what you like. Try being more vocal on what feels good and what doesn't. Also, if you two fight alot or have problems outside of the bedroom, that will most definitely effect your sexual response.
try women...;)
[QUOTE=NigerianPrince;180058]try women...;)[/QUOTE]
No I'm not a lesbian!
Not that theres anything wrong with them, I'm just not attracted to girls
I had the same problem with my ex and you may think that your attracted to him but most of it is body chemistry, try telling him what you like and see if that works.
And in addition to all of the above, please read my various Sticky posts, particularly the one on how to make out. It might give you some ideas.
"Chemistry" plays a big part in how a person responds to another. Two people can be best friends, have a lot in common, share intimate thoughts, yet one or the other may not be sexually attracted to the other.
On the other hand, if there are "sparks" and the pheromones are indeed flying and affecting you, yet for whatever reason he just doesn't light your "fire", then perhaps you need to have a chat--after reading the recommended Sticky posts. He may just not have a touch or way of caressing that is what you need.
It's all about chemistry and the "fire" that goes on between you - not how attractive he is to you (or the other way around) The first time I met my bf I knew I had seen better but the more and more I got to know him I began to like his personality and seen a new beauty in him. This is how chemistry works (sorta lol) And if you don't have that between a couple - you two aren't ever going to mix