> Last month I was amazed to meet a lady 32years old when she said that she is still virgin.
She may well be--saving herself for just the right man
She may well have never come across the right man
In western societies we take a woman (and a man) at their word on the matter.
She may well be--then, again.... Because it is not always possible to determine the truth from a physical exam, it is possible for a woman to state that she is a "virgin" and "please" her man, first, without ever having to divulge her history.
Well... the term is not used that much nowadays; however, in days gone by and for decades past, never married women were referred to as "old maids".
> I want to know how she can live virgin for a long time. Don't she have any feelings?
But of course; however, it is important to understand that what you know and feel as a typical male of the species is not the same as what women feel. It is a common mistake for young men to "assume" that girls act, react, and have the same emotions as they. WRONG. Yes, girls do have raging hormones in their teens. Yes, women do have a healthy sex drive. What is different is how that drive manifests itself. What is different is in how women channel their sexual desires and cope. Women have other outlets, and, without the intense "need" that a high level of testosterone creates, can live quite well on their own.
Orgasms are not the biological imperative for women that they are for men. While enjoyable, desired, and, perhaps wanted, making love can be very satisfying without having had the Big "O"--if all the other ingredients of their love making session have been enjoyable, pleasurable, and satisfying. Meeting her emotional needs, first, is what is important and unfortunately men are often never taught about this and how to go about meeting these needs. Broadcasting this important difference to boys and men is a major reason this site exists.
Everybody knows that guys are good to go at the mere thought of having an orgasm. If not already ^"UP", it won't take much preparation or time. Once erect, an orgasm can follow in a matter of minutes.
What most teens and young adults often do not know is that women are not the same in this respect. Orgasms are sometimes time consuming and difficult to achieve. Much of how orgasms are brought about is thru emotional preparation {setting the mood!), first. This can often be accomplished hours earlier with a card, a note to be discovered later, a quick phone call, a whisper in her ear in the morning before leaving for work, etc. The mood can also be set by frequently reminding her of your love for her, how beautiful and attractive she is, how desirable, etc. Time spent on these aspects of love making will help with the finale. GOT IT?
If or when a woman learns to masturbate, she then has the same outlet available to her as do men. Because there is not the "need" to have orgasms, desirable as they are, and, because emotional satisfaction is higher on the list than it is for men, a woman can go thru life very well as a virgin and/or leading a celibate life.
Now, having said that, we only have her word that she is a virgin, don't we???
I also thought that she may saving herself for just the right man or never come across the right man.
I want to know how she can live virgin for a long time.
Don't she have any feelings?
Well,I am 38 and feel like I am so tighly wound sexually that I need a release badly.I want a guy who will take me all night long and show me slowly how to achieve incredible orgasms.:)
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;257260]> Last month I was amazed to meet a lady 32years old when she said that she is still virgin.
She may well be--saving herself for just the right man
She may well have never come across the right man
In western societies we take a woman (and a man) at their word on the matter.
She may well be--then, again.... Because it is not always possible to determine the truth from a physical exam, it is possible for a woman to state that she is a "virgin" and "please" her man, first, without ever having to divulge her history.[/QUOTE]
I know 2 women in their 40's still virgin and they are from Brazil
issue is religion
and they may ruin that rule if they like someone seriously
Well, it wouldn't be me. I lost my virginity at a relatively young age and yes, it was willingly too.
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I lost my virginity when I was 20. Last month I was amazed to meet a lady 32years old when she said that she is still virgin.
> Last month I was amazed to meet a lady 32years old when she said that she is still virgin.
She may well be--saving herself for just the right man
She may well have never come across the right man
In western societies we take a woman (and a man) at their word on the matter.
She may well be--then, again.... Because it is not always possible to determine the truth from a physical exam, it is possible for a woman to state that she is a "virgin" and "please" her man, first, without ever having to divulge her history.
What does this matter?
Well... the term is not used that much nowadays; however, in days gone by and for decades past, never married women were referred to as "old maids".
> I want to know how she can live virgin for a long time. Don't she have any feelings?
But of course; however, it is important to understand that what you know and feel as a typical male of the species is not the same as what women feel. It is a common mistake for young men to "assume" that girls act, react, and have the same emotions as they. WRONG. Yes, girls do have raging hormones in their teens. Yes, women do have a healthy sex drive. What is different is how that drive manifests itself. What is different is in how women channel their sexual desires and cope. Women have other outlets, and, without the intense "need" that a high level of testosterone creates, can live quite well on their own.
Orgasms are not the biological imperative for women that they are for men. While enjoyable, desired, and, perhaps wanted, making love can be very satisfying without having had the Big "O"--if all the other ingredients of their love making session have been enjoyable, pleasurable, and satisfying. Meeting her emotional needs, first, is what is important and unfortunately men are often never taught about this and how to go about meeting these needs. Broadcasting this important difference to boys and men is a major reason this site exists.
Everybody knows that guys are good to go at the mere thought of having an orgasm. If not already ^"UP", it won't take much preparation or time. Once erect, an orgasm can follow in a matter of minutes.
What most teens and young adults often do not know is that women are not the same in this respect. Orgasms are sometimes time consuming and difficult to achieve. Much of how orgasms are brought about is thru emotional preparation {setting the mood!), first. This can often be accomplished hours earlier with a card, a note to be discovered later, a quick phone call, a whisper in her ear in the morning before leaving for work, etc. The mood can also be set by frequently reminding her of your love for her, how beautiful and attractive she is, how desirable, etc. Time spent on these aspects of love making will help with the finale. GOT IT?
If or when a woman learns to masturbate, she then has the same outlet available to her as do men. Because there is not the "need" to have orgasms, desirable as they are, and, because emotional satisfaction is higher on the list than it is for men, a woman can go thru life very well as a virgin and/or leading a celibate life.
Now, having said that, we only have her word that she is a virgin, don't we???
I also thought that she may saving herself for just the right man or never come across the right man.
I want to know how she can live virgin for a long time.
Don't she have any feelings?
Well,I am 38 and feel like I am so tighly wound sexually that I need a release badly.I want a guy who will take me all night long and show me slowly how to achieve incredible orgasms.:)
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;257260]> Last month I was amazed to meet a lady 32years old when she said that she is still virgin.
She may well be--saving herself for just the right man
She may well have never come across the right man
In western societies we take a woman (and a man) at their word on the matter.
She may well be--then, again.... Because it is not always possible to determine the truth from a physical exam, it is possible for a woman to state that she is a "virgin" and "please" her man, first, without ever having to divulge her history.[/QUOTE]
I know 2 women in their 40's still virgin and they are from Brazil
issue is religion
and they may ruin that rule if they like someone seriously
err, sort of lost it at 25 but I've not done anything since at 27 and have not really had a good time "at it" so yea i sort of got it out of the way.
Hello all,
As Tacitascott said about 32years old virgin. So I want to know how a woman can live virtin till that age?
Don't she have any expactations?
im 32 years old and a virgin