There are several threds dealing with exactly this question. To see all the considerations that have been discussed, do a search. For me, a man pounding away will find himself on the floor at about twenty minutes, maximum.
Please explain what you define as "sex".
* do you mean intercourse
* do you mean the whole thing from fooling around and making out to the finale
People take the word to mean different things.
If intercourse, then many women report becoming bored, sore, and tired after about ten minutes.
If you mean the entire episode then thirty is minimum and sixty is average. It can be less and often much longer, depending upon time and inclination.
I'm sad that the o/p did not provide additional information. It is too bad when a person wants information yet will not provide any.
[QUOTE=the_man;252789]Is 60min to much?[/QUOTE]
"Sex" as in making love from A-Z and ending with an orgasm by whatever means is not too long.
"Sex" as in enjoying an orgasm from Foreplay {genital stimulation) is probably a bit too long for comfort.
"Sex" as in enjoying a climax from lots and Lots of stroking and simply remaining coupled for that long is no doubt tool long for comfort. As for stroking, if it takes this long to build yourself to the brink of an orgasm, then, yes, often women report becoming bored, sore, and, tired when intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes. For prolonged enjoyment, take periodic breaks and return to the action.
If it includes the fondling and foreplay, why not? But I can't last that long getting pounded. Since you're a man (obviously), just imagine yourself getting pounded for that long. :(
The act itself was recently polled in Hustler and Playboy magazines with approx. 2500 surveys. Believe it or not, the answer is a mere 7 1/2 minutes! It's the foreplay that preps the act. Lots of foreplay is key! I love foreplay and honestly, I have gone past the 45 minute mark and it becomes work. If it doesn't last that long its all good! As long as you and your parnter are satisfied, who cares? Lick that thing bubba!!
err well it usually takes me an hour from when i enter to climax, and i usually can keep going for quite a while. though im fairly gentle so its not like a jackhammer going that entire time =P
I've gone up to 3 hours with my fiance on a number of occasions but found that can be a little long sometimes. Sometimes it's not enough! But usually I would say the average for me and her is an hour and a half to 2 hours.
I don't think there is a right amount of time to have sex. I guess as long as both parties are satisfied then that's how long you should go.
I take great pride in making sure my female partners are given all of the caring attention they need, want, and desire for her complete satisfaction, be it oral, manual, a sex toy, a good long licking and sticking, whatever she wants or needs from me, I want to make sure she gets it.
Personally, I feel that any sexual encounter that lasts less than 2 hours should be classified as a quickie, and a good, long session of sex needs to be budgeted with at least 2, preferably 4 or more hours to make sure her needs are met first and foremost before I even think about my own pleasure. That's why I almost always spend the first hour or so with my lips and tongue firmly planted in her pussy, between the cheeks of her ass, and glued to her swollen little clit. She usually has to drag me off her pussy by the hair when she has had enough of my tongue and is ready for my cock, because I will keep my mouth and tongue busy between her thighs all night long if I am given a choice, or if she let me tie her up so I can make her beg me to stop licking her tasty little trembling treat.
I can agree with "as long as it needs to" but there is more to it than just time as Doc has said and Brandye's quite right "pounding away" doesn't do it and will result in GBH to the male.
Actual penetrative intercourse should last about 10 to 20 minutes (depending upon your application) BUT that doesn't mean that in 15 to 30 minutes you two can't do it all over again beginning from scratch if necessary
(see The Program). I usually engage him in sex for 45 minutes and then let him rest up for the next 15 minutes and then repeat.
In this way, a woman can usually get 4 to 5 hours of fun out of the average male before he's exhausted.
There are several threds dealing with exactly this question. To see all the considerations that have been discussed, do a search. For me, a man pounding away will find himself on the floor at about twenty minutes, maximum.
Please explain what you define as "sex".
* do you mean intercourse
* do you mean the whole thing from fooling around and making out to the finale
People take the word to mean different things.
If intercourse, then many women report becoming bored, sore, and tired after about ten minutes.
If you mean the entire episode then thirty is minimum and sixty is average. It can be less and often much longer, depending upon time and inclination.
60min is more, i think 15-20min is enough.
Sex should last as long as your partner wants it to. Ask them.
I'm sad that the o/p did not provide additional information. It is too bad when a person wants information yet will not provide any.
[QUOTE=the_man;252789]Is 60min to much?[/QUOTE]
"Sex" as in making love from A-Z and ending with an orgasm by whatever means is not too long.
"Sex" as in enjoying an orgasm from Foreplay {genital stimulation) is probably a bit too long for comfort.
"Sex" as in enjoying a climax from lots and Lots of stroking and simply remaining coupled for that long is no doubt tool long for comfort. As for stroking, if it takes this long to build yourself to the brink of an orgasm, then, yes, often women report becoming bored, sore, and, tired when intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes. For prolonged enjoyment, take periodic breaks and return to the action.
If it includes the fondling and foreplay, why not? But I can't last that long getting pounded. Since you're a man (obviously), just imagine yourself getting pounded for that long. :(
The act itself was recently polled in Hustler and Playboy magazines with approx. 2500 surveys. Believe it or not, the answer is a mere 7 1/2 minutes! It's the foreplay that preps the act. Lots of foreplay is key! I love foreplay and honestly, I have gone past the 45 minute mark and it becomes work. If it doesn't last that long its all good! As long as you and your parnter are satisfied, who cares? Lick that thing bubba!!
err well it usually takes me an hour from when i enter to climax, and i usually can keep going for quite a while. though im fairly gentle so its not like a jackhammer going that entire time =P
I don't think there is or should be a time limit to sex or the act of it, or everything leading up to the big sha-bang.
Time is time, and all you have to do is be in that moment.
Don't time it, there are some things better left unsolved.
This is one of them, just relish being in the moment
If it's long,then good, if it's short, then good as long as you both get gratification from this, then time does not matter...
as long as both partners are into it.
I get the feeling this was more of a fake show-off question though. Just like the penis threads.
I've gone up to 3 hours with my fiance on a number of occasions but found that can be a little long sometimes. Sometimes it's not enough! But usually I would say the average for me and her is an hour and a half to 2 hours.
I don't think there is a right amount of time to have sex. I guess as long as both parties are satisfied then that's how long you should go.
I take great pride in making sure my female partners are given all of the caring attention they need, want, and desire for her complete satisfaction, be it oral, manual, a sex toy, a good long licking and sticking, whatever she wants or needs from me, I want to make sure she gets it.
Personally, I feel that any sexual encounter that lasts less than 2 hours should be classified as a quickie, and a good, long session of sex needs to be budgeted with at least 2, preferably 4 or more hours to make sure her needs are met first and foremost before I even think about my own pleasure. That's why I almost always spend the first hour or so with my lips and tongue firmly planted in her pussy, between the cheeks of her ass, and glued to her swollen little clit. She usually has to drag me off her pussy by the hair when she has had enough of my tongue and is ready for my cock, because I will keep my mouth and tongue busy between her thighs all night long if I am given a choice, or if she let me tie her up so I can make her beg me to stop licking her tasty little trembling treat.
I can agree with "as long as it needs to" but there is more to it than just time as Doc has said and Brandye's quite right "pounding away" doesn't do it and will result in GBH to the male.
Actual penetrative intercourse should last about 10 to 20 minutes (depending upon your application) BUT that doesn't mean that in 15 to 30 minutes you two can't do it all over again beginning from scratch if necessary
(see The Program). I usually engage him in sex for 45 minutes and then let him rest up for the next 15 minutes and then repeat.
In this way, a woman can usually get 4 to 5 hours of fun out of the average male before he's exhausted.