Ok there are a few things i wanna know,
1)when you finger a girl, whats a good way to start off with it?
do you want to start making out then move your hand down her pants?
2)when you finger a girl, where is your face supposed to be and whats supposedto be the position?
3)when you finger a girl, and you supposed to move your finger in and out fast or slow or what?
4)and one last thing, would it make sence to be "ready" to go on and do stuff like finger a girl or eat her out?
Or can you not be "ready" and do that stuff??
thanks ALOT for whoever replies and helps me out.
Thu, 03/06/2003 - 01:15
#1
Where does a guy start?
If you read around the pleasing her section, there's already answers to your questions. Just look.
well ya i found that out, but the whole "ready" thing, would it make sense to you if someone said that they were NOT "ready" but yet they did stuff like finger?
Ok well school was canceled, so I have extra time to be here today.
#1) Yes, you start with making out. You know the whole baseball metaphor, (1st base, 2nd base, 3rd base…) so just follow that. Each base is more of a turn on and a step further as you move around the ‘diamond’. So, by the time you get to 3rd, or ‘hand sex’, fingering, or jerking off, both partners should be turned on pretty well. There’s nothing more important than taking your time. As for moving your hand down to her pants, work up to it. Or more like down to it. Most likely you’ll be feeling her up, so your hands will already be on her body. Just kind of move them all over the place, down to her legs and up the insides of her thighs. A good idea before fingering is to rub her outside of her pants, then undo her pants, and rub her outside of her underwear, and then finally rub her skin to skin. As for techniques on doing this, click here: Oral/Fingering Ladies
#2) When you finger a girl, there is no set position. It would be nice if your face was near hers so you could kiss, or so you can hear her breathing.
For more on that click here: Orgasm 101 and here: Sounds of Pleasure
#3) Like I said in #1, click here: Oral/Fingering Ladies and here: Sounds of Pleasure. Keep in mind that it's different for every girl.
#4) You may not even be ‘ready’ to just kiss. It’s all depending on who the partners are and how comfortable they are together. It does happen that if you’ve been fingered before, or done anything else before, and it comes up again, you may not want to do that, and you should respect that.
I was going to answer this question for you but xx22xx did a good job of it before I did. Good luck when you do it. Dont be scared and make sure that you are "ready" first.