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The term "Foreplay" actually refers to the specific acts of manual and oral stimulation and not a substitute for what is commonly referred to as "making out". Please read this article:

FOREPLAY: The Prequel and Sequel

> Where does foreplay start for you? Does it start in the bedroom or does it start through the loving interaction between husband and wife on an every day basis?

I believe and have counseled others to the notion that "variety is the spice of life".

* One or the other of you can plant the idea a day ahead for what you'd like to do
+ the idea of what you'd like to do tonight can be suggested the morning of
* Send or give or plant a greeting card with a suggestive message inside to be found sometime during the day
* As you suggested, you can "make your move" in the bedroom
+ you can talk suggestively during breakfast, lunch, and/or dinner
* Sometimes, and especially with children and busy lives, a "play date" can be prearranged or marked on the calendar as a regularly scheduled event (but even so, it is always good to flirt ahead of time so this doesn't seem so contrived)

So, just mix up and vary your approach. Both of you can initiate.

-doc

Everyday interaction with husband and when the 'date' has been made with others.

Um....."yes". As opposed to "either/or". Mostly because it depends on the session. It never seems to start the same way twice in a row.

whats the difference between foreplay for a man and for a woman?
I'm curious about opinions on this.

well my understanding of foreplay is anything that hightens your partner's arousal. so that could be the basic 1st 2nd and 3rd base. using EEK's body worship and the program. it could be a man doing the laundry and he texts or calls his lady that he loves the smell of her panties, that gets her thinking about sex the whole time she is gone. then when she gets home she is ready to go!!

starts first thing in the morning. Think of it like this: Women are like croc pots. They have to simmer for awhile before they are ready to go. Men, however, are like microwaves. Ready to go in just minutes.

Gee, doesn't anybody read the top of a thread. The answer to what and when is up there.

Please do not confuse "Foreplay" with the art of fooling around, making out, and planting suggestions early in the day for later in the day.