Of course yall know that from my last thread that I cant orgasm vaginally only by clit stimulation. So when I orgasm I never feel this explostion thing that everyone on here is talking about I never have felt the need to ejaculate or have done it but I have orgasmed. Just nothing ever comes out. Some one please tell me if that is normal or is there something im not doing or what?
Sat, 10/30/2010 - 02:13
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When I orgasm nothing comes out...
Sounds perfectly normal to me.
Women that can ejaculate are actually in the minority, most do not. If I remember correctly, most women are capable of doing it, they just don't for one reason or another. Evolution is a funny thing...
It is my experience though, as a male, that women tend to get at least slightly more slippery when they orgasm, although it's so "slightly" that it's easy to miss, or to even care about. Maybe it's entirely in my head.
Nothing coming out is typical, and is what's usually expected. You sound perfectly normal to me. Keep up the good work :P
I think all you need is to relax and not over-think it. Just go with whatever happens.
Spaced is right, women who squirt are in the minority and not having a ton of fluid is normal. Heck, there's times where T has brought me to (non-squirting) orgasm by hand, then I play with him a few minutes to get him hard, and try to put him in, and I'm dry as a bone by then.
You are functioning as about 90% of all women. We all have the basic equipment but some of us do and some do not and some do sometimes. To read many of the G-Spot and female ejaculation sites, it sounds as though we can learn. Not so. Perhaps we can relax a bit and something will be produced but there is no magic, including G-Spot stimulation that can "make" us squirt.
Int, do not confuse ejaculatory fluid, form the peri-uerthral glands, roughly analogous tot he prostate in men, with vaginal lubrication which is a plasma exuded through the vaginal walls.
No, I know. I'm saying, the NON-ejaculate natural lube will dry up in a couple minutes of non-stimulation and I have trouble getting him in because the entry gets dry as a bone.
With the last 4 women I've been with (all in their 40s and 50s, having had multiple partners, and none had ever squirted before), one did with me just a couple of times, one surprised us both when she first did it and then could do it a lot, over and over whenever we wanted, and the other 2 never did. Make your own conclusions from this admittedly limited sample...
Michael
[QUOTE=spaced;261112]It is my experience though, as a male, that women tend to get at least slightly more slippery when they orgasm, although it's so "slightly" that it's easy to miss, or to even care about. Maybe it's entirely in my head.[/QUOTE]
[color=green]I'm not the only one.......I use that as my key to the big O....whatever i am doing, keep doing it cause it's helping[/color]
Sounds to me like you'll just simply have to start using a lube.
I've ejaculated on some occasions (soaked the top comforter all the way to the mattress, lol!) but I kinda forced it a couple of those times...most of the time though I don't ejaculate.
Int and Stef... I'm the same way. When I am with my husband and I orgasm, I can notice little to nothing in the way of natural lubrication (squirting aside). I have noticed that if I plan ahead a drink A LOT of water that day then it gets wetter when the moment comes - - no pun intended.