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When is casual sex to casual?

My story is probably a but timid and somewhat embarrassing when it comes to sex stories, but I would appreciate some advice.
Ok. So, a few years ago I met a guy who I adored completely. We got along amazingly well *some stuff happened* then he moved. Then we didn't talk. Then we talked a bit. At this time we are friends with benefits, but then things get weird.
A few days ago we got together and out of boredom we ended up having sex. It was almost the worst sex of my life and I don’t believe its because he’s a bad lay. In fact, I’m quite sure he’s a good lay. We were just so comfortable. A complete lack of physical and emotional passion. It's amazing how much of a difference passion makes. You're not having good sex when you're still joking or talking while pounding. We were in regular missionary possition when he fell out and hurt himself. It worries me that maybe I was doing something completely wrong. He’s much more experienced than I am, so I wonder if maybe I’m a terrible lay? I went on top for the second try and shortly after he feel out again but this time we noticed it was because he had gone limp we were both confused and disappointed with ourselves. I sucked him off and he took me home. Still, I don’t understand how two people who are physically attracted to each other, enjoy each others company, and once even had honest feelings for be so horrible together on an intimate level? Is their any way I could go about getting that passion back? Or at least something to help with the sex? That’s if we even try it again.

Well it could have just been a bad day....I mean there are many reasons why he could have gone limp....perhaps he hurt himself more that he thought....the pain could cause it to go away....really just try again....but dont due it out of boredom....that could also be the reason.

You stated that the two of you are currently friends with benefits, so what's the ratio of benifits to friends?

There was a time when me and this girlfriend of mine got to a point to where the only thing that we did together was fool around with each other. It became irritating because in the back of my mind I wanted us to be out doing other things as well.

Perhaps the two of you aren't hanging out as friends enough, to make sex more or less the pinnacle instead of the fall back plan.

Casual sex is too casual when you begin to think it is.

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