I've been with really large guys too that didn't know the first thing about pleasuring me. They were soo impressed with how big they were that they thought I should be excited too. Actually, since I'm a shortie, it more hurt than anything.

I've also been with guys on the "smaller" side. The woman on top worked best for us. Since i have a substantial bootie, doggie didn't work for us, but anal in the doggie position sure did work nice!

Listen, I'm in the same boat as you. My penis is about 5 inches erect, and trust me, it isn't size. I'm still able to give my girlfriend orgasm after orgasm, usually about 3-5 for every time I orgasm. You just have to find what positions work for you.

Ok its official I measured myself and found I'm just a shade under 5" but that has not affected my current relationship at all, actually she was afraid I was going to be one of those "human bulldozers" and was very relieved that I was smaller than most 13 year-olds!

Its what you want to make of it really and also the physical dimensions of your partner.

JR

I am a woman with an extreme sex drive and personally, size has nothing to do with it. I've been with a guy who was probably no longer than 3" and he was one of the best partners I've ever had. Maybe it had something to do with the fact that he was only 26 (I'm 43), but he was so excited he just shoved my panties to the side and pushed right in.

I'm very athletic and therefore, very tight. We both just savored that experience and saw each other regularly for a couple of months.

He never had to look for my g spot, as my legs were spread so wide, that he was rubbing right against it.

If I ever break it off with my current b/f, he'll be the first to know.

S.

I'm about 5 to 5 1/2 inches. My g/f was with a guy that was big, she says really big. (yea, we talked about this) And this guy never gave her an orgasm. I give her one just about everytime. It's all about how you work it. Learn what she likes and hit those spots, and she'll be happy.

I'd say her on top. For me I am not usually jumping up and down on him, lol... its more of a grinding motion... so he's less likely to fall out.

[QUOTE=Quote (jello2 @ Mar. 16 2005,21:59)]It seems younger and older have bigger penises is it possible to be just too small. I'm 25 and 4.75" erect 4.5 girth and have been dumped because of it yes she said that was why and I have had a couple of other comments about being small from others.[/QUOTE]
I'm in the same boat as you are jello2. I'm 20, 5.75" length and 4" girth. My girlfriend makes comments too, but she is also reassuring, and tells me that she loves me for who I am. I think the bigger question is "how was the sex?" As everyone else is pointing out, that's what really matters. In my relationship it is admittedly not that great, but I'm putting in effort, researching and trying to do everything in my power to make it better. You should probably do the same...

iamawesum69420, where can I read more about these penis extenders?

AsianKid

[QUOTE=Quote (jello2 @ Mar. 28 2005,23:06)]Thanks I guess I shouldn't let it get me down too much but just wanted to see if anyone thought she was right I'm too small or not.  Has anyone been with a small guy good or bad??[/QUOTE]
it's not size that matters...it's the way u use it!

if a girl dumped u for that reason then is that really the kinda girl u wanted as a gf? wait for a nice girly instead

Well first of all it's very shallow to dump someone over dick size and the girls that did that to you weren't even worth your time. My main issue isn't with size as long as they know how to work what they have so you shouldn't have any problems. But if you really think you're not big enough to get the job done with penetration they do make penis extenders that just slide down on your dick. And remember you've always got your fingers and your tongue to work with to get her off that way.