For guys and girls....
What is that one thing that you want your partner to do more of in bed? Whether it is oral, fingering, anal, or just licking your ears, there is always something that you want more of. What is it???
I would LOVE more oral. I don't think it is fair he gets to orgasm every time and doesn't always go down on me.
please refer to "what an ass" lol
Some people just don't like doing things. I personally don't see how that makes them an ass or anything. If they don't wanna do something, they don't wanna do it. I'm sure there are things you won't do that he would love you to do.
u have never had oral,canoe?? who have u been dating?? we need to hook u up, u r missin out!!!
[QUOTE=thetease13]Some people just don't like doing things. I personally don't see how that makes them an ass or anything. If they don't wanna do something, they don't wanna do it. I'm sure there are things you won't do that he would love you to do.[/QUOTE]
just cus somebody doesn't like doing anything doesn't mean that they shouldn't do it, if we all had that attitude we would never get any work done or of the likes.
i would pretty much do anything if it gave the other pleasure or got off on it.
[QUOTE=thetease13]What's missing? Sex in general. [/QUOTE]
Agreed. But one thing I cant get enough of is talking dirty. That and kissing and licking my ears is such a huge turn-on, I just wish my girl did more of it...
i agree. especially if it was the only way to make someone orgasm.
Because I've never had oral, it's a big fantasy of mine. At this point I'm almost afraid of liking it too much if I ever do get it. LOL But on the whole, that's the only thing I'd say was missing.
[QUOTE=Jm33]
I would LOVE more oral. I don't think it is fair he gets to orgasm every time and doesn't always go down on me.[/QUOTE]
I've actually been thinking about that for awhile. Like, any given day, let's say he would give me oral, and I would do it for him, then we have sex one or two times. That's three for him and one for me.
what an ass!!! sorry to say there is nothing more enjoyable than giving oral, love the smell the taste, the clinching just seeing the other get off, its so brilliant that i can do that to somebody else.
Whats missing? The sex! And a partner! hahaha :p
u would think that would make him want to do it more but no....
What's missing? Sex in general. It's been like 5 months. lol.
But, anyways, I'd like more oral from him but I'm not gonna make him do anything he doesn't want to do. He doesn't make me do stuff I don't want to do and he stops when somethings hurts, so I'm not gonna force anything upon him.
I'm definitely missing some oral, and I know he doesn't mind it. I always go down on him but he gets off and he's done. So, he gets a lot more satisfaction each time than I do.
Well, since I recently discovered how good oral can be with our learning of new techniques...i want more oral. but it's just a lack of time, cuz we make it all last so long...What I really want is sex though.
Of course, sex! Also that special guy to have sex with! Mostly my fault since my weight loss surgery a while back along with adjusting to being 180 lbs. less and learning to appreciate all the better and larger amount of male attention while I have to keep reminding myself that it's due my having more energy and feeling more attractive that flows out of me psychically which men are picking up. Now if that positive energy flow would translate some of this attention (especially from the less flakier, more intelligent, forward-thinking of attentive men) into more one-on-one social interaction over coffee or during happy hour drinks which if all goes well, dating and ultimately those "one thing leading to another" moments... ;-)
Meanwhile I've been mooning and having sexual fantasies involving several members of some favorite alternative bands I listen to. This is actually making me feel strange as I'm in my forties yet here I am carrying on like a teenager
by spending too much free time on my computer downloading videos and perusing photo galleries for some eye candy (LMBO!)...
All I can say is that I'm refreshing my dating, flirting, and brushing up on sexual techniques for when the nookie gods will finally smile upon me :)) . Just as long as it's not someone like an old boyfriend I still stay platonically friendly with--the magic totally died after the one and only time we had sex where I soon learned said old boyfriend wasn't into oral sex, including *me* doing it to him--never mind that he hated doing *me* in the first place. :P Oral sex is definitely a must in my sex life, and if I can't even indulge in my favorite pastime, fellatio, with my honey, fugetaboutit!!!!
Definitely more oral. Also, I would like a little more kissing during actual intercourse. Just trying to get as close as possible to her.
[QUOTE=canoestripper]Because I've never had oral, it's a big fantasy of mine. At this point I'm almost afraid of liking it too much if I ever do get it. LOL But on the whole, that's the only thing I'd say was missing.[/QUOTE]
It is impossible to like oral "too much". :p You could never have enough oral to be satisfied.
I'd like her to realise how wonderful she is and feel confident about taking the lead now and again. Plus I want her to tease me more (she goes straight for the kill - my fault for being so sexy I guess :p )
RS