Often I come accross this term "All depends how to you use it" so it begs the question. In what context does a man use his penis the right way?
Numerous articles describe feelings of arousal by both parties or foreplay as very important (once I was married) my wife never complained although she said that foreplay was little too short for her but I could never get her to perform oral she did not liked giving or receiving oral after marriage even when I went down on her she would only take it for a minute or so before closing her legs I guess she never liked her vaginal look.
Although we kissed, hugged, rubbed,talk etc she would get aroused before sex tried a number of positions to spice up our session even anal was on the cards.
Now is different I have a number of bed partners younger and eager to please me and I want to please them as well but my knowledge of sex outside marriage is limited even when I have a good size tool I do not know how to exactly use it I am afraid to say.
Some girls said I was OK but they either don't want to hurt your feelings or blunt. I know I can change sex positions and give oral and engage in a conversation, be gentle or a little rough (personally I like it a bit rough) but penis thrust and the like I am not too sure of myself here.
Anyway sex with my wife was a lot simpler that with other geirls I meet these days.