This is the precurser to an orgasm, so don't let him stop there! I always get this feeling in my hands and feet right before an orgasm comes on, and then it will spread and encompass my body. Have him keep going and you'll get over that bump! Good luck :)

First of all, relax. These symptoms are common in younger women especially. As long as the "pins and needles" aren't painful, they're usually a good sign that orgasm is approaching.

Try multiple forms of stimulation to increase or decrease sensation. My feelings is that you are being under-stimulated. If your partner stimulates only the clitoris during oral sex, try both vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

If this doesn't work, you may be being over-stimulated. In this case, prepare your partner for more foreplay and a longer arousal time. Ready him to be down there for a while, and if you both relax, you will eventally get over the mountain.

I am not a virgin but my girl is, We have not had sex and probably wont. We dont have sex but we try other things and on multiple occasions i have taken my gf to a point where other girls would b having an orgasm but she wont let me go any further cause she says it "tickles" really bad. Ive nvr heard it explained in this way and since she is unexperienced she doesnt know how to explain what she is feeling to me and she is shy so its hard for her to talk about these things but she tries. To explain it better, i only stimulate her clit, i have not fingered inside her yet but i have fingered her clit, given oral, and humped w/o penetration and have brought her to this point. She says it "tickles" so bad that she wont let me go near her genitals after and the rest of her body is very sensitive and receptive to touch, especially her breasts and upper thighs. So...im not sure what to do, if im bringing her to orgasm and then she cannot handle it yet, or if she has already gone through it like a guy and she is just sensitive after, or if this is something else? At these points in time her breathing has increased a lot, and an otherwise quiet girl she will be moaning. One other thing is that she explains when i lick on her nipples or kiss her ears and neck that it "tickles" so i have thought maybe this is how she explains the feeling, but i kno that feeling is very much different to how the feeling of being tickled under the armpits, which she says her vagina feels like after we play around.

ufl45 - she's close and her body is waiting for the orgasm - and you both just leave her hanging there?!?! Of course she's sensitive - here she is all ready to go and - nothing's happening.

Tickles is the way an inexperienced girl would explain it, yes but it is a precursor to an orgasm not the orgasm itself.

ok thats wat i figured thanks a lot, seeing as how this would b my first experience w/ that i wasnt sure. Now to get her to let me push her over the edge:D

Have you inquired about where the ticklishness happens? Is it with her clitoris, hood, labia, surrounding area, etc.?

One case and point is that a person can become quite ticklish between the belly button and pubic bone. When caressing this area my wife often cannot stand it when she becomes extremely aroused. The cure is to use a bit more pressure. You might try this tactic and see if it works in your girlfriend's case with those area(s) she says have now become too ticklish.

Another possible fix is to stimulate the clitoris indirectly as you would do if she indicated that the clitoris has become too sensitive to touch directly.** You do this by folding the two inner Labia over the clitoris and rubbing, massaging, fingering through them.

> she says it "tickles" really bad. Ive nvr heard it explained in this way and since she is unexperienced she doesnt know how to explain what she is feeling to me and she is shy so its hard for her to talk about these things but she tries. To explain it better, i only stimulate her clit,

I believe she is describing the sensations she is experiencing quite accurately.

So in addition to stimulating her clitoris directly, and indirectly as noted, also stimulate the surrounding pieces-parts to include the inner and outer labia separately. Massaging and gently tugging on the inner labia will also involve the clitoris.***

> i have not fingered inside her yet

You do not have to. It is important to know that the most sensitive part of the vagina is the entrance. The outside surrounding the opening and just inside are rich with sensitive nerve endings. Try involving these two areas while also doing things just above! Wait until she is very very aroused for maximum benefit.

As an aside, just let me say that it is more of a guy thing to want to insert something into a vagina in order to maximize pleasure. Many women do not involve their vagina when masturbating. Now, having said this, it is a gal thing to want the sensation of fullness that having a penis, dildo, or fingers, inside create. The vault does not contain any nerves that directly increase her ardor like when the entrance is caressed. The sense of fullness involves a different set of dynamics. So, while having something inside her can be very satisfying, for the time being and until the two of you are ready for this stage, you can do much more for her pleasure by just letting your fingers or tongue play around at the entrance.

> One other thing is that she explains when i lick on her nipples or kiss her ears and neck that it "tickles" so i have thought maybe this is how she explains the feeling

Asked an answered. Use a bit more pressure. The ticklishnes she is experiencing comes from being very very turned on. The nerves have become hyper sensitive and this is why a light touch that worked very well early in the game is becoming annoying later.

As has been stated by others, she is nearing the trigger point of an orgasm so just keep on keeping on.

**Try both a bit more pressure and/or stimulating the clitoris (tip and hood) indirectly. ***You can also involve the shaft that is located between the folds of the upper vulva and buried beneath. Very often a woman will complain just before an orgasm is triggered that the clitoris has become much too sensitive and painful to touch. If or when this happens, switch to indirect stimulation.

Gals become hyper sensitive just before achieving an orgasm whereas guys experience this immediately after and cannot stand to have the penis touched for several minutes. This is caused by the release of a hormone by the brain and is a natural albeit temporary phenomenon. You will probably not experience this when masturbating because we do not become as turned on when alone as we become when in the throws of passion with a partner.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

Thanx a lot, i will try the things u mentioned. It is hard to get anywhere near her when she is in this state and i am using a light touch so this is welcomed advice.

Try holding her within your arms firmly when the 'tickling' comes on and then just gently follow through until she does have an orgasm - which should be very shortly therafter. The cuddling does help especially if the orgasm is a big one!