Maybe... it depends
How much time do you guys spend together?
even the most in love people can get on eachother's nerves if they spend too much time together?
what things does she do that annoy you?
It happens. If you know how badly my boyfriend and I annoyed each other you'd think your relationship was cherry. The reason "We" fight and argue over stupid stuff and get mad easily is because we hardly ever get to see each other. I get to see him AT MOST once a week; if even.
Maybe you're not spending as much time together as you'd like and then when you two speak you're really annoyed (whether you know it or not) at the lack of time you two have together.
it sounds to me like your attractions are based alot more on the physical apperance rather than personality. A good personality is very important if you want the relationship to work. I know you probably dont want to hear it, but i suggest you move on.
well we used to be really good talk for hours and all that, then i guess we got a little bit too serious, i just get tired of her saying "whats wrong?" when nothing is wrong or "i saw you looking at that girl'
[QUOTE=curious Al]it sounds to me like your attractions are based alot more on the physical apperance rather than personality. A good personality is very important if you want the relationship to work. I know you probably dont want to hear it, but i suggest you move on.[/QUOTE]
Well an attraction to someone is, to an extent, going to be based on a physical attraction. I mean, you know for a fact that no one is going to see an ugly man/woman in a bar and go up and flirt. You've got to have a physical attraction. It's selfish-sounding, but it's the truth. I first saw my boyfriend standing in the hall at school and thought he was handesome and at the time I was shy so I got a friend to bring him over to me and he was even more gorgeous close up. And then from there on we got to know each other and it turns out our personalities matched perfectly. Though I DO see where you're coming from, a relationship DOES have to be based on some amount of attractiveness physically and not so much..personality wise.
[QUOTE=badguy1999]well we used to be really good talk for hours and all that, then i guess we got a little bit too serious, i just get tired of her saying "whats wrong?" when nothing is wrong or "i saw you looking at that girl'[/QUOTE]
We were the same way. Though it can be quite annoying for someone to ask a question repeatedly over a small amount of time, asking you what's wrong is her way of showing affection and concern for you. Can you honestly say that you could sit there and be (for instance) raging mad over something she knows nothing about and she just sits there like nothing's happening? As far as telling you that you're looking at another girl, whether you were or not, every girl does it to their boyfriends. Try your best not to get mad because she really likes you and doesn't want to see you checking out other women if she's your own. Could you honestly say that you wouldn't mind if you were walking through the mall with your girlfriend and she totally body-checks another man? It's not a nice feeling is it. Sometimes a girls' eyes deceive her and she may be thinking 'Oh my god, he's looking at another girl.' and it's hurtful, so that's what we ask it.
okay but look today at school she comes up to me to say whats wrong and tehn i say nothing and then she says whatever **** you and walks away infront of alot of people
That's ****ed up. Maybe you should talk to her about it. There's no reason for someone to act like that unless you did something really wrong to her or she's majorly PMSing.
by the sounds of it she thinks your being off with her! And her thinking your being off with her will make her be off with you! I say, when you speak to her tomorow, say sorry for being "moody" yesturday and say you were just in a bit of a mood ( even if you werent) then start everything all over again. Just talk to her how you used to etc. Dont let the sexual relationship ruin the whole relationship. :)
Because you are arguing all the time--irritating and annoying each other. Wouldn't you rather be in a relationship with someone who makes you happy? You're WAY too young to stay in a relationship where you're not happy. Your life should be all about experiencing new things... You've experienced a relationship with this girl and it is not working out, now move on.
Maybe... it depends
How much time do you guys spend together?
even the most in love people can get on eachother's nerves if they spend too much time together?
what things does she do that annoy you?
It is over. Move on.
if it's almost all the time, then i would say that things have pretty much gone south for you two.
brandy... we didnt break up
well im not on her as much as i was and she makes me mad when she asks questions that i've answered many times before
we see each other at school, not the same class cuz its summer school but she comes over or i go to her house like once or twice a week
It happens. If you know how badly my boyfriend and I annoyed each other you'd think your relationship was cherry. The reason "We" fight and argue over stupid stuff and get mad easily is because we hardly ever get to see each other. I get to see him AT MOST once a week; if even.
Maybe you're not spending as much time together as you'd like and then when you two speak you're really annoyed (whether you know it or not) at the lack of time you two have together.
it sounds to me like your attractions are based alot more on the physical apperance rather than personality. A good personality is very important if you want the relationship to work. I know you probably dont want to hear it, but i suggest you move on.
well we used to be really good talk for hours and all that, then i guess we got a little bit too serious, i just get tired of her saying "whats wrong?" when nothing is wrong or "i saw you looking at that girl'
[QUOTE=curious Al]it sounds to me like your attractions are based alot more on the physical apperance rather than personality. A good personality is very important if you want the relationship to work. I know you probably dont want to hear it, but i suggest you move on.[/QUOTE]
Well an attraction to someone is, to an extent, going to be based on a physical attraction. I mean, you know for a fact that no one is going to see an ugly man/woman in a bar and go up and flirt. You've got to have a physical attraction. It's selfish-sounding, but it's the truth. I first saw my boyfriend standing in the hall at school and thought he was handesome and at the time I was shy so I got a friend to bring him over to me and he was even more gorgeous close up. And then from there on we got to know each other and it turns out our personalities matched perfectly. Though I DO see where you're coming from, a relationship DOES have to be based on some amount of attractiveness physically and not so much..personality wise.
[QUOTE=badguy1999]well we used to be really good talk for hours and all that, then i guess we got a little bit too serious, i just get tired of her saying "whats wrong?" when nothing is wrong or "i saw you looking at that girl'[/QUOTE]
We were the same way. Though it can be quite annoying for someone to ask a question repeatedly over a small amount of time, asking you what's wrong is her way of showing affection and concern for you. Can you honestly say that you could sit there and be (for instance) raging mad over something she knows nothing about and she just sits there like nothing's happening? As far as telling you that you're looking at another girl, whether you were or not, every girl does it to their boyfriends. Try your best not to get mad because she really likes you and doesn't want to see you checking out other women if she's your own. Could you honestly say that you wouldn't mind if you were walking through the mall with your girlfriend and she totally body-checks another man? It's not a nice feeling is it. Sometimes a girls' eyes deceive her and she may be thinking 'Oh my god, he's looking at another girl.' and it's hurtful, so that's what we ask it.
okay but look today at school she comes up to me to say whats wrong and tehn i say nothing and then she says whatever **** you and walks away infront of alot of people
That's ****ed up. Maybe you should talk to her about it. There's no reason for someone to act like that unless you did something really wrong to her or she's majorly PMSing.
by the sounds of it she thinks your being off with her! And her thinking your being off with her will make her be off with you! I say, when you speak to her tomorow, say sorry for being "moody" yesturday and say you were just in a bit of a mood ( even if you werent) then start everything all over again. Just talk to her how you used to etc. Dont let the sexual relationship ruin the whole relationship. :)
i wouls say you are in one of two extreme cases, she really loves you a lot or wants to be dumped but does not want to do it herself
It's over. Done. Gone.
Move on.
[QUOTE=Browser]It's over. Done. Gone.
Move on.[/QUOTE]
why would you say that
Because you are arguing all the time--irritating and annoying each other. Wouldn't you rather be in a relationship with someone who makes you happy? You're WAY too young to stay in a relationship where you're not happy. Your life should be all about experiencing new things... You've experienced a relationship with this girl and it is not working out, now move on.
Exactly, Fluffer. Thanks.