The short answer is that you cannot make her orgasm.
The long answer is that each person, male and female, is responsible for his or her orgasm, all any of us can do is to help his/her partner to climax.
Key is that every girl/woman must first teach herself how to masturbate and learn how to regularly and consistently climax beforehand.* Once she has learned, then you can help her. If she is relatively new to sexual intimacy, she may be shy when it comes to showing you what she needs now/next and how to touch her; however, this is the ideal way. If you can get her to show you how she masturbates and/or to communicate how she is responding to your caresses then the two of you will be working together in partnership.
* It is not unusual for some girls to have the misconception that her boyfriend can make her orgasm. While this may happen, it is extremely rare. As explained in one or more articles and thread replies, boys learn to masturbate matter of factly; not so for girls. Girls usually learn later in life if at all. For them it requires determination and a conscious effort. If your girlfriend has yet to learn, you can encourage her to learn; yet I would not press the matter or be hurt if she as yet cannot. Orgasms for the female of the species are not the be-all end all that they are for males. She can enjoy love making regardless, so my recommendation to you and every other male reading this is to learn to be a great lover by learning what turns on a woman emotionally as well as physically.
Making love is not what we do to one another, it is what we do with and for each other. As such we work together, explore and learn together.
Please browse the Index, found at the top of the main screen. It contains links to many helpful informative insightful and how-to articles including some that discuss the various aspects of the female "O" that both of you should know. There is another article that discusses hand jobs and blow jobs for both of you. Please read this one.
When it comes to having intercourse, the two of you must understand that very few sexual positions place her pieces-parts in constant contact with your pieces-parts sufficient to generate the required friction. What a loving, caring, considerate, knowledgeable, skilled, lover will do is to reach around and finger her clitoris and associated areas while stroking.
While the two of you learn, concentrate on her clitoris and do not worry about G-spot orgasms, etc. until you gain plenty of experience.
So, start reading most if not all of the articles listed in the Index. Read together or individually in order to gain the knowledge you need.
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The short answer is that you cannot make her orgasm.
The long answer is that each person, male and female, is responsible for his or her orgasm, all any of us can do is to help his/her partner to climax.
Key is that every girl/woman must first teach herself how to masturbate and learn how to regularly and consistently climax beforehand.* Once she has learned, then you can help her. If she is relatively new to sexual intimacy, she may be shy when it comes to showing you what she needs now/next and how to touch her; however, this is the ideal way. If you can get her to show you how she masturbates and/or to communicate how she is responding to your caresses then the two of you will be working together in partnership.
* It is not unusual for some girls to have the misconception that her boyfriend can make her orgasm. While this may happen, it is extremely rare. As explained in one or more articles and thread replies, boys learn to masturbate matter of factly; not so for girls. Girls usually learn later in life if at all. For them it requires determination and a conscious effort. If your girlfriend has yet to learn, you can encourage her to learn; yet I would not press the matter or be hurt if she as yet cannot. Orgasms for the female of the species are not the be-all end all that they are for males. She can enjoy love making regardless, so my recommendation to you and every other male reading this is to learn to be a great lover by learning what turns on a woman emotionally as well as physically.
Making love is not what we do to one another, it is what we do with and for each other. As such we work together, explore and learn together.
Please browse the Index, found at the top of the main screen. It contains links to many helpful informative insightful and how-to articles including some that discuss the various aspects of the female "O" that both of you should know. There is another article that discusses hand jobs and blow jobs for both of you. Please read this one.
When it comes to having intercourse, the two of you must understand that very few sexual positions place her pieces-parts in constant contact with your pieces-parts sufficient to generate the required friction. What a loving, caring, considerate, knowledgeable, skilled, lover will do is to reach around and finger her clitoris and associated areas while stroking.
While the two of you learn, concentrate on her clitoris and do not worry about G-spot orgasms, etc. until you gain plenty of experience.
So, start reading most if not all of the articles listed in the Index. Read together or individually in order to gain the knowledge you need.