at your age, penis size should not be of any concern. (yes this is my opinion) Sex is not a small thing, The responsibilities involved are much higher, and bring a much much higher risk of changing your life forever. A certain maturity level must be reached, and a good amount of education should be followed before even thinking about sex and all its attributes. To answer your question though, he is just entering puberty; therefore it could be anywhere at all. There is no specific size to age at this point.

For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)

The information in the Sticky post, above, will answer your question.

I also agree with the information Lovemonky has offered you. While Mother Nature gives us the ability to reproduce and/or to experience sexual release, she does this several years before providing us with the emotional maturity to manage the physical maturity. Sex in all its various forms, is an adult activity having adult ramifications and responsibilities attached. What will get a person into trouble faster than anything is thinking that just because you have the physical ability to have sex, you also have all the other qualifications, and, this is simply not true. All too often kids discover this the hard way whether the activity results in a pregnancy or simply not being as good as you imagined it to be.

At 13 or 14, you are emerging from childhood into adulthood. The process takes a few years to accomplish which is why the teen years are a decade long! All too often boys are not interested in girls yet, and girls socialize in clicks with girlfriends. The next stage is for boys and girls to include each other in their circle of friends, and then much later to narrow the circle of friends to just a few close and more relevant relationships.

At this end of the age spectrum, I do not see why a girl would want to have sex when she probably has yet to learn how to masturbate and experience orgasms. If she is looking to sex in hopes of finding love and/or emotional clossness that may be missing from her family unit, then this probably won't happen. Boys simply are not on the same "page".

Regardless of age, boys will say and do about anything in order to get into a girls panties and once this has been accomplished, leave her emotionally unsatisfied once he has gotten his rocks off. Sex for a guy is quite a different experience than sex for a girl until much much later in life. Even then, the male of the species can have sex without necessarily having an emotional involvement or attachment; not so the typical girl, and therein lies a major difference between the sexes and what can often get a girl into trouble.

As a girl, you absolutely must take responsibility for your own protection. You should not be having intercourse unless and until you are using some form of highly reliable birth control method. Moreover, you should be insisting that he take responsibility for his own protection by wearing a condom. It is extremely easy to become pregnant the younger a girl is. The reason this is true hinges on irresponsibility and a cavalier attitude.

It is important to know and understand that regardless of age, you are playing a version of Russian Roulette--only instead of having a six-shooter with five empty chambers, you have what essentially amounts to a fully loaded cannon that has live ammo ready to fire each and every time!

> My best friend and i are thinking of dateing

I think you should continue and develop the friendship further, participate in social activities together yet not exclusively. Involve yourself with activities that include others, also. Give yourself time to mature mentally and emotionally and to acquire the skills and mindset that have yet to develop. Moreover, even when you reach the other end of the teen years, dating exclusively is often not a good choice because of all the drama, turmoil, and unyielding differences of opinion that teenagers place upon each other and the relationship. Better to date lots of other people, have a wide circle of friends, and do things as a foursome or small group during the early years and with just each other when older. When you take the exclusivity out of the equation, you are free to date and have fun and establish close ties with others without the neediness and clinginess that also is part of drama that can raise havock with a person's wellbeing.

A person can have two "best" friends, one male and one female. These people are special indeed and are much closer to each of us than just casual friends or simply someone who is an acquaintence. I believe it is best to nurture these freindships because they more often than not will endure a lifetime. As soon as you introduce sex into the mix, things change dramatically and often not for the better. It is better to wait until you have achieved some additional life experiences. Now, having said that, girls typically evolve and mature sooner than guys for whatever their age. So, if you are 13 or 14, you are probably way ahead of where he is. This will continue to be the case for the next few years.

> i don't want a really small penis but i don't want a large penis either...i don't know how big his is but i don't want it to be tiny

Truth be told, it probably will be! On average, a penis does not begin to grow in circumference and length much before the first quarter of a boy's 14th year. It and body hair will continue to evolve up to the time he is 19; what's more, chest hair sometimes does not make a showing until a fella is well into his twenties.

Regardless of how a fella eventually turns out, what most girls consider important is not necessarily its size but that it is large enough for them to grasp. Why? Because women view the penis as a sort of lever over which they can control their man's speed and level of arousal. It therefore becomes a combination throttle and brake over which she commands complete control.

Lastly, if you are otherwise a healthy, happy, well balanced girl, who is simply curious about the male body and his equipment, then rather than get yourself into an emotional entanglement for which you are as yet unprepared, why not do what a lot of kids your age do, and that is to play nurse or doctor and to look each other over in the buff. This is a common curiosity and passing phase of growing up and is generally harmless. If you are curious about erections and orgasms, then you might consider asking him for a demonstration. Once your curiosity and questions have been satisfied and answered, you are more likely to get on with your life and allow Mother Nature to work her magic on both of you as well as your other friends over the next few years. Enjoy being a kid; you have the whole rest of your life to be an adult.

[QUOTE=Nicky;173934]My best friend and i are thinking of dateing and i'm just curious well i don't want a really small penis but i don't want a large penis either so if anybody can anwser what's the average penis length of a 13 year old male that would be great i mean i don't know how big his is but i don't want it to be tiny thank's![/QUOTE]
The best way to approach this situation is just to say to him...Iam BORAT from Uzbekistan,may I see your penis YES?:)

good lord have all the boys that worry about size run out and the "am I big enough" fever got to the girls too ?

Look at your age the most you should do is make out and perhaps some fingering but make that the boundary and only after some time of seeing the guy. His size at the moment has nothing to do with his future size and his size should only be an issue in no less than 3 years and hopefully a couple more than that.

a mans penis starts to grow various amounts during puberty and stops when they reach about 25 years of age. so i have heard anyway.

anyway size doesn't matter it's how u use it...

but like others i wouldn't think about intercoarse in your state.. i mean your 13... if something unexpected happens and u end up pregnant... well... lets just say i hope you have been practicing on your baby born dolls.

provided you have already gotten your period of coarse.

[quote=Newtolove;174031]good lord have all the boys that worry about size run out and the "am I big enough" fever got to the girls too ?.[/quote]

I have to agree here 100%! AT 13 I did not even know they came in different sizes! Now at 13 the ladies are worry if their potential b/f might be too small? Perhaps the new approach to dating should first be; "drop your pants so I can see what you have?"

Geez, just try to go out and spend some time with him, date him, hold hands, kiss, see if you really like him as a b/f, & don't concern yourself with this stuff yet. Your are putting the cart before the horse!

3.724333333 inches :rolleyes:

[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;174072]3.724333333 inches :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]

mine was 3.98765 inches hey i was big for my age LOL :D

I also forgot to mention at your age you are not really developed enough for sex (phusically and mentally) and neither is he you risk permanently damaging yourself and he is just going to cum as soon as his penis grazes against your vulva,

When I was 15 I could ejaculate from masturbation in 5-10 seconds (yes I timed myself) and only after many years gained enough control to say ok now I will consider sex

Oh jeez... stop thinkg about sex you 13 year-old kids!! Go outside and just play something :O You're too young for being worried about size pennis...

I'm curious as to where is says it's for teens...

But if you look around, the majority of active posters range from finishing high school to married with children. We aren't "teens", we're all practically adults here.

The others are right. Neither you or your best friend are mature biologically anyway, so worrying about penis size shouldn't matter.

Nicky.. you are saying you're turning 13, that meens that you're 12! That isn't teen yet ... anyway :O what roxypuppy just mentioned is important... sexual activity it's seen more often by people finishing high school or married ones, etc... 13 year old kids arent' that prepared for sex, nor phisically nor mentally...

ok im a teen and it is stupid for you to be thinking of sex, when i was 12 and 13 all i did was go out and play spin the bottle....what ever happened to that

I was 14 when I played spin the bottle. (I learnt a lot at that party.)

ok well 13 is very young and if you havnt gotten your period yet then your definately not ready. he will still be growing and trust me your not ready to make that commitment your not even dating yet