I am not the most seasoned lover out there, so I didn,t had the chance to use lube... Are you going for anal intercourse or is it because you don't get wet enough?

The old standbys of K-Y and Surgilube are water based and no one reacts to them. While you are at it, why not use spermicidal vaginal jelly (Koromex, Gynol II or K-Y+). They are essentially water-based lube with sprmicide added. That is more protection. Very few, but some, women react to the spermicide.

I agree that water based is the way to go. There are so many choices out there you really need to read the ingredients. I like Astroglide. Its water based, unscented, and very slippery. I find only a drop or two is needed. It is available at any pharmacy here and probably most other places as well.