Okay, I'm kind of new to sex....actually I've only had sex once and I don't beleive that counted because it was horrible and didn't feel much like anything really. Anyways I really really only think about sex and it's been that way since way before my first time. I'm ready to get back in there and try it again but the person that I really want (he wants me too) is a self proclaimed sex addict. I really want to please him as much as I wanna be pleased but I don't know if it will work. My first time was very....dry..shall we say and I do not want a repeat of that situation. What do I do?? Please don't give me any "no sex before marriage" advice because I've already heard it and have weighed my options.
Sat, 01/17/2009 - 02:15
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What would you do??
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do whatever you need to in order to be comfortable with it. accept that the first 5 times or so you might not enjoy it but may be required to break you in - use lube that doesn't hurt when involved in cuts. eventually you'll start enjoying it. just don't leave it too long afterwards again.
Start with a visit to your gyn for an exam and a discussion of contraception.
Ignore Crackbaby, "break you in" HAH! Also use a lubricant.
wow eek really seams to have it out for crackbaby.