Hello everyone,
Me and my girl have been in a long-distance relationship for a while, and she suggested to me that we should try phone sex. I'm guessing that she's going to masturbate while we talk. My question is, what kind of words do women get stimulated from? I'm not very good when it comes to talking dirty, in fact, I think I sound terrible! But I wanna make my girl happy, and help her out in getting an orgasm while I'm not next to her. I'm sure she could get an orgasm on her own, but I would like to help her out as much as possible. ;)
Any tips would be greatly appreciated.
nt 2nite i hav a headache said it well, but I'll add something: If you are thinking on choosing specific words or phrases she could arouse on, for example, some girls like to hear "You're beautiful, just keep on doing that" and some boys like to hear "**** me harder", you can't get it right. From my experience there are lots of types of girls (no, not all are unique) who react to specific things, and to other don't. Your best shot is to "study" what kind of girl is she. It's a matter of knowing what she likes, and learning new. If you think she is somewhat shy, or if you, for example, know she thinks she's not pretty and, for example, you know she likes touching her breasts while masturbating, sentences like "You know, I get very aroused when I think of you touching your breasts...why don't you slowly slide your pretty fingers beneath your shirt and play with them some more for me...?" can move her. Girls usually like to know you are aroused to them.
Eg., here's something I used once that made one of my former girls arouse and gasp (more or less, can't really remember the exact words):
"Yes, that's what I like, I can sense the pulsing when I think of you doing that. Circle around it more, don't touch it, just circle, tease yourself like I tease myself. Use your nails to slide over her lips, lightly, push them a little, wet yourself..I so love when you're playing with your pretty pussy, masturbating for me...relax... Let me hear your enjoyment..."
HAHA! great thread.
Phone sex is good. If you're horny & confident enough the words will come right out. Talk about how hard & bulging your cock is & how you like it when she rubs the head, talk about what you like to do & what you want to do to her.
phone sex is stupid
[QUOTE=unknown11;155097]phone sex is stupid[/QUOTE]
Lemmie guess, you're frustrated because [URL=http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/18691-tlking_dirty_sum1-wha... have no idea how to do it?
To the original poster: No need to spam your topic in several forums. I responded to you in another thread.
try not to worry chances are shes pretty nervous too.Phone sex is immensly horny and women in particular respond to words well. tell her that u cant wait to touch her and explain what ud liek her to do while your talkin to her, try something like " now slide your fingers inside slowly, imagine me there doing this to you etc" she'll soon imagine the rest herself. Oh abd its probably just me but use teh dirtiest words you can find! "wet" "slide" "hard" "deep" "fast" hope that helps u some how!
the tormentor got taht spot on!
[quote]What words turn women on?[/quote]
Hmm. How about:
"Tiffany"
"Cartier"
"Mercedes"
"Manolo Blahnik" ?
Those can work ....
Phone sex, like "real sex", can be a great deal of fun with the right partner. And, with the advent of online cameras and internet phone systems, multi-media sex is quite easy to set up. People (like me) who find mutual masturbation a real turn-on, find the sites and sounds of computer and/or phone sex a pretty amazing activitiy.
start jacking off.
mutual works too.
uh...horny...
moan like (uhhhhhh....UHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!)
[QUOTE=SexTherapy;156226]start jacking off.
mutual works too.
uh...horny...
moan like (uhhhhhh....UHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!)[/QUOTE]
lmao good one
[QUOTE=SexTherapy;156226]start jacking off.
mutual works too.
uh...horny...
moan like (uhhhhhh....UHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!)[/QUOTE]
Yeah that's not obvious.. Anyway, yeah tormentor covered that really well lol. Just use words that you know turns her on and what turns you on. The thing with phone sex is that you can't see,(duh) so you have to say what you are doing, how everything makes you react, its like narrating a porno.. or an idea that just popped in my head, read some magazine articles or erotic books. See what they use along with their pictures if they have any. I know in all my magazines, in the pages of pictures they always have a little narration along with the pictures, and I almost get off just reading that then even looking at the picture because it is in such detail.
Cleveland had a good idea. I would imagine sending each other pictures that are progressively sexier would help get the words flowing. You're not grasping at thin air, you actually have something to work with. Plus it sounds fun:)
ok me and my boyfriend also have a long distance thing goin on and when he sugest phone sex i kinda freaked but i still did it. now i love it and we do it all the time. what seems to turn my on the most is when he moans. also we talk about what we would be doing if we were together which what he always says turns me on sooooo much. so just try maybe moaning a little if you feel comfortable with that or just talk with her about sex and crap.
One thing I've noticed is that women love detail. I know that all women are, of course, different, but I think it's a common thing that women love to hear everything down to the detail.
To men, this will mean visually what is happening. However, to a woman this would mean everything down to what you hear, how fast your heart's beating, what you smell, how her skin feels. Details like that including visually what's happening would be a great combination.
Paint a picture in her head with more than what meets the eye. This will put her in the action and if you do it right then she'll love it more than likely!
I hope this helps.