with regard to the 2nd part of your question, a good place to start is by reading the sections on this web-site. From the "Home" link at the top of this page, check out "Sexual Information - Pleasing Women"; I am assuming you have read the rest of the topics here in this forum.

you then need to be more specific about an aspect of what you want help with once you have read what is here, otherwise we all end up having to repeat ourselves and write a book to answer a question. I'm not being critical of your post - just trying to help you (and other "newbies") get help.

btw ... what is "skipped to 2nd"?

final thought - I am not a prude, and this IS a sex-site - but you might want to consider changing your nick to something more appropriate out of respect for other members - just my point of view.

... also see the post by Guido in "Kissing Techniques" in the "New to Sex" forum. if you get through all those suggestions, you will be an expert!

it's hard to teach someone how to kiss....try VitualKiss.com. as for pleasing the rest of her, read posts in this section, no need to repeat ourselves, it's in the newer posts under 'pleasing her' so it shouldnt be hard to find. try to make future posts somewhat neater and clearer

Why don't you just cuddle and hug and see what happens from there. And change your name. You have never touched one.

umm dude..no disrespect but if u havent frenched her yet...then i think its a lil too early to think about her "pussy/clit/tits"

[QUOTE=Quote (NewbieDude @ April 22 2003,19:40)]but if u havent frenched her yet...then i think its a lil too early to think about her "pussy/clit/tits"  [/QUOTE]
I agree with him, start off with the french kissing then move on from there. Look around the message board there is a lot on this topic.

My girlfriend LOVES it when I put my mouth completely over one of her nipples, and have my mouth as wide as possible, and with my tounge just lick her nipples, run circles around it, if alls well you should feel her nipple getting harder and bigger after a while, do that till its nice and hard and then move on to the other one, works a treat, try it some time

hey, i was in this predicament just last year.. i am quite young too but i can try and give you a few pointers....

#1 communicate alot... dont be afraid to ask
#2 take it slooooowww.. and i mean sloow... when your young.. like me (not even 16) you shouldnt just rush into things..
#3 about french kissing, take it slow and try to relax... if you really dont know how to at all just mimic waht she does.. but try to get a rythm goinging with both your toungues.. and just loosen up a bit.. i was horrible at first but seriously and no joke practise makes perfect.. now my gf actually commments on how good i'm a kisser, when before the first girl i kissed told me straight up taht i was horrible...

bu anyways about going straight to second.. nuh uh.. take it back to 1st and then when you to are startign to get the hang of the whole passionate kiss go onto 2nd but theres no need to rush... and last thought, about how to please her "pussy/tits/clit" i'm just gettign there my self and i've been going out form a bit over 6 months with my gf so no need to worry about that if you're just gettign started... especially if you havent kissed her alot

i hope this is helpful info from one virgin to another

I used honesty and humour with her to break the ice. The key is to make sure she's totally at ease and relaxed. Don't just go for the kill, take it easy and slowly. If you trust her then tell her you've never done it before - If she cares for you she'll understand. I was 21 the first time I kissed, that doesn't make me a loser (I had plenty of offers) but I wanted to wait for the right girl.

As for other parts of the body, don't even attempt it until you are both comfortable with the relationship - as I said, you have to always consider her feelings and if you can't then you ain't ready. We waited for nearly 2 months (and I let her make the decision) Don't be in a hurry to throw your virginity away, because it's the only thing in your life that you can only ever give once - and personnally I'm very happy that I saved it for a very special lady.

I know it sounds wussy, but believe me in my experience girls are nothing like most people think they are (well the ones worth spending time with anyway) It's not a contest, however much it might seem like it. Ultimately it's your and her decisions that count.

Oh and the girl in question? She's gonna be my bride in August!

Good luck man.

RS