Ok first a little bit of info about me. I'm 21 years old and male. I've been sexually active since like a week before my 18th birthday. Also I used to be a member of this forum several years ago, but I forgot my screen name so I had to make a new one.
Something amazing happened today... well tonight rather.
My girlfriend and I were having sex, and for various reasons we haven't been able to relations as often as we would like. Sooo it had been a while since the last time we had sex.
Well we ended up having sex for about an hour and 15 minutes. It was amazing...
but I had this sensation I had never had before. When this happened she was on top. Cowgirl position.
I first described it as my body was vibrating.
After thinking about it, i think i can describe it better. You know when your foot falls asleep, and the feeling you get when it comes back? It felt like that only ALL over my ENTIRE body. It felt incredible. All of my other senses felt really dull. My vision was duller and kind of blurry, I couldn't hear as well, I completely forgot I had a sense of smell. My arms felt heavy I could hardly raise them up. I almost passed out. I felt like I was going to pass out. This lasted for about 30-40 minutes non stop.
I've been completely off drugs for 8 1/2 months now... but this feeling I had was like a full body high, only ten times more intense.
It was amazing.
The weird part is, I didn't cum at all during this, but it was amazing.
WOW!
so what the heck was that?
(sorry if there are a ton of spelling and grammatical mistakes. I dont have word to check it on my laptop.)
I gather much of the hour plus was devoted to necking and petting and then foreplay. If the latter was much of that time and it was oral or the dynamic duo of oral stimulation and a hand job then what was likely happening was a different path toward Nirvana. Shortly after a guy learns to masturbate he develops a set pattern or routine of rhythm, pressure, and tempo that he pretty much relies upon for the rest of his life. Oh, sure, this can vary somewhat, yet if he strays too far from what his norm is either the orgasm will not happen or it will be less than anticipated. This is what happens with oral stimulation. Visualize a letter "Y". One branch takes you to an orgasm the other branch with lots of oral and/or manual stimulation takes the other fork most often taking the person to a much greater level of intensity. This path can although usually does not end in a climax because as pleasurable as it it it is the wrong stimulation to trigger an orgasm. This is most likely what you experienced.
Sometimes a guy can experience a dry climax in which he orgasms yet does not ejaculate. This can be very pleasing yet an altogether different experience than a regular orgasm. If you want one of these at her hands then you must show her how you masturbate and then take her hand and guide her movements over the course of several sessions until she learns to mimic your unique method. Key to this is feedback. You must provide feedback on how you are responding to her caresses and for what you need next. When we masturbate we benefit from built in feedback that allows us to modulate our movements and make any midcourse corrections necessary as we proceed. This is missing when we turn the reins over to our partner. What is necessary is to provide verbal or non-verbal feedback. These can be words or other utterances, a squeeze of the hand or a rapid hand movement or some other cues that the two of you work out to convey specific meanings. The same holds true for her with you.
Your "high" is the result of a combination of emotions, pheromones, and intense stimulation that took you on a different path that circumvents the usual path toward a climax.
Enjoy.
Welcome to total body orgasm which does not have to include ejaculation. The first time something like this happens you want every time to be like this. If you practice you can have this or similar experiences again and again.
Thanks for the replies!!!
Actually dancing doc, almost of all that was vaginal penetration. I felt bad because she could hardly walk afterwards. =[. Although she says it was worth it. =]
Thanks for the great explanation. That makes a lot of sense, our rhythm wasn't anywhere near what I normally do when I masturbate. If I am masturbating I usually try to get it done as quickly as possible. During sex I like to take it slower and enjoy the moment. It definitely paid off that was an entirely new level of intensity for me.
Thanks dlb. Yeah I definitely want every time to be like that. HAHA!
Thanks again for the replies and the great information! =]]
when i was 17 my X gave me the same feeling , lol yea it was amazing but i was like ok that was insaine why didnt i cum lol amen