Here is a question for the guys on the board -
What turns you on? (Not just in the bedroom)
Question 1 -
Say you see this hot girl at a dance/club/wedding,whatever....
Would it be something she's wearing? Her face and hair? Her dancing? The way she smells?
Question 2 -
You ask her to dance and a song like Hot in Herre or Sir-Mix-a-Lots' "Baby Got Back" starts.
Do you 1 : Dance behind her. Molding your body to hers and moving the same way.
2 : Dance a few inchs from her (behind or to the side) hardly touching her
3 : Dance with her but not touching at all.
Question 3 -
A slow song like Ushers "U Got It Bad" or Boyz II Men "I'll make love to you" starts .
Do you 'A' - Face her and put your arms around her lower back and she puts her arms around your neck.
'B' - Dance with her like you were at a Whitehouse Ball in the early 1900s.
'C' - You don't slow dance with her
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My question :
Do you like it when you slow dance with a girl who puts her arms around you neck?
When answering these remember - you've never met these girl that you're dancing with.
Peace out - 
Hey kissable,
Hope I can help you!
1)If I saw a girl for the first time at a club, her dancing would get my attention. I would then look at her more closely, hair and eyes for example, her general figure. Then I would look at the way she shows her emotions, smiling is good..smiling is very good!!
2)Game on if one of those songs came on. I would make my way over to her, maybe making a few dance moves on the way, but make sure she notices me. Now infront of her, I have her attention. Then sliding behind her I dance very close to her "moulding my body to hers", but hardly touching yet.
3)Ah yes the slow song. I move infront of her and get a bit closer, more intimate. If she gives "the signal", depending on how confident I am feeling, I would brush her hair off one side of her face then put my head really close to hers and whisper in her ear some affectionate words. Whilst doing this I would hold her sides or put my hands on her hips. If I wasn't feeling particularly confident I would bottle out as soon as the slow song came on and ask her if she would like a drink!
Finally your question. When slow dancing I would like it if she put her arms around my neck, I would hold her sides or lower back. However when slow dancing I like to get really close so maybe it would be better if she put her arms around my back and held me.
I think the most attractive thing though is a girls smile, when I look at her and she smiles..its very good!
Hope this is the kind of answer you require! If not sorry, but tell me where I went wrong!
Cheers.