Hey, this quetion is for the guys out there, what has your girl done or what do you wish she would do that would just make you so horney you couldnt stand it? thx for all your replies.
Tue, 12/23/2003 - 23:16
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What turns a guy on?


White socks that go up to the knee, now for me thats a turn on!!!!!!!!!!
My man loves it when i tell him what im going to do to him before i do it. THe best times is when there's ppl there and he cant do anything about it.This is a good topic, i'm curious to hear what everyone has to say too, so come on everyone, WHAT TURNS YOU ON??
As many guys, i'm turned on by visual stimulation, i love seeing my g/f walking around the room after she toke a shower, wearing nothing but panties and one of my shirts. I just can't resist
and she knows that. Nothing more sexy than a woman that knows that she is hot to his man and wants to please him
. Grrrrrrrr i need to call her right know ... 
[QUOTE=Quote (tooleulogy @ Jan. 12 2004,14:37)]well we havent been having sex that long where i'd want to bring it up[/QUOTE]
I hope I didn't sound like I was judging. Everyone has to do what they feel comfortable with. As long as you are happy, that's all that is important.
In something like this, it is important that you are totally at ease with your partner. So I can certainly understand waiting. That can be the most fun in a new relationship- finding out what turns each other on.
Maybe I should add that to the list of things that turn a guy on- new stuff. Trying something I've never done before.
[QUOTE=Quote (oberon @ Jan. 11 2004,23:40)]It is good that you are comfortable enough with your body, tooleulogy, to have explored and found out that you enjoy this. It's too bad that you would let someone else's opinion stop you from something you enjoy. I certainly wouldn't say that this is something to break up over (if the girl wasn't interested in doing it) but I would at least put the idea out there.
Some women even enjoy this as a sort of turning the tables-being the one doing the penetrating. There are all sorts of ways to cut down on the "gross" factor: toys with condoms, condoms on the finger, even latex gloves.
As for being labeled gay, well, I'm not sure I can comment on that-actually being gay. To me it is a matter of being myself, no matter what other people might think.[/QUOTE]
well we havent been having sex that long where i'd want to bring it up
It is good that you are comfortable enough with your body, tooleulogy, to have explored and found out that you enjoy this. It's too bad that you would let someone else's opinion stop you from something you enjoy. I certainly wouldn't say that this is something to break up over (if the girl wasn't interested in doing it) but I would at least put the idea out there.
Some women even enjoy this as a sort of turning the tables-being the one doing the penetrating. There are all sorts of ways to cut down on the "gross" factor: toys with condoms, condoms on the finger, even latex gloves.
As for being labeled gay, well, I'm not sure I can comment on that-actually being gay. To me it is a matter of being myself, no matter what other people might think.
[QUOTE=Quote (oberon @ Dec. 28 2003,22:17)]I also like anal stimulation, but good luck on getting a straight guy to let you try that. I know some who have who love it. You just have to get them past the fear that it might "make them gay". Done correctly- slowly and gently at first- an orgasm while having the prostate massaged is wonderful.[/QUOTE]
I like it, im a straight male... but wouldnt dare asking my girlfriend in fear of being called gay or gross. (might not happen, but i dont want chance it)
Kissing and nibling on the ears is a major turn on for me, I love it when my girl gives me head but stops and teases me, kissing and rubbing really gets me hard and it is always a plus for her run her fingers all around my body. I hope that helps!
yeah, that works all the time for me.
school girl dress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
House to ourselves one night, calling the girl, then her showing up with a can of whipped cream and a jar of cherries. So very fun..... High heels usually work too.
O.k. I'll play. I don't know if my info will help, but here goes.
I love to have my nipples played with. The harder, the better. That includes pinching and biting. It's like there is a nerve straight from there to my groin. Wow!
I also like anal stimulation, but good luck on getting a straight guy to let you try that. I know some who have who love it. You just have to get them past the fear that it might "make them gay". Done correctly- slowly and gently at first- an orgasm while having the prostate massaged is wonderful.
everybody, just give all your favorites... i know you have some
come on guys, i know you know what turns you on... girls can help too, what do you do that you man loves?
Hmm ok ill put a post up here, ! i was lookin for some hints too :P, i duno, when having ex... what turns him on, is if you go like hard core :P well you just go, right? then instantly slow down, when hes about to cum, it makes him so.. laughs.. becuase i got him so close, but i can take it away. oh, laughs just sitting on a couch, and if he is lying down straddle him.. and when you talk move.. like your dry humping, then get up and go do what you were before, and make sure there is people in the next room, so then he can't really do much about it.. lol that gets mine all botherd :P
Jamie
For me there is nothing sexier than a set of lacy bra and panities. I love seeing them and taking it off. It is like opening a sexy gift. Oh ya, I love it when she wears some really flowery purfume too. That does it for me...
sucking and kissing on my neck is such a freakin turn on
alittle foreplay and maybe roleplay lol
[QUOTE=Tjdude;104367]As many guys, i'm turned on by visual stimulation, i love seeing my g/f walking around the room after she toke a shower, wearing nothing but panties and one of my shirts. I just can't resist
and she knows that. Nothing more sexy than a woman that knows that she is hot to his man and wants to please him
. Grrrrrrrr i need to call her right know ...
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Sounds like me TJdude. Mine wears those bikini cut panties and she has a gorgeous butt. I like to run my hand down the small of her back, right into the crack of her a** That gets me hard enough to cut diamonds.
UPS just delivered her V-day present a day late (got caught in the snow storm) Bet I'm gettin some tonight!! :D
ok besides the taboo anwers for this question i got an interesting one some of you ladies my not of heard of.
This is cited by two of the founders of female seductresses.Cleopatra and josephine bonapart (napoleons wife)
They specifically notice a heightened sense of attraction when they showed as much of their arms as possible.
I see a growing popularity in women covering up thier arms alot more these days. It has to do odviously with the insecurities of wearing an outfit that shows their waste line. So it seems like the new age awnswer to this is wear a cute top that shows cleavage but covers the arms.
The idea is if you cover the clevage but show the soft skin of your arms and a part of your shoulder line its more stimulating to the mans imagination.
When i read this it definitely caught my attention. I told my female friends to try it and see if it makes a difference on nights where they hope to develop attraction with someone or just hope for the opportunity of meeting some new guys. One friend said it made a huge difference on dates cause he wasnt staring at her chest and instead would follow the skin of her arms up to her eyes and showed showed a much more genuine attraction for her on that night.
So give it a shot.
oh and my thoughts personally is skirts. skirts drive me ****ing insane. its just the sexual tension of knowing how easily we could be ****ing every where and anywhere.
With her being willing to do some loving somewhere other than the bedroom. Being outside and making love is so nice and an absolute turn-on for me. Having her wear some sexy lingerie is a nice turn-on. Having her wear some nice sexy underwear and then removing her panties while we are out and flashing me when we get into the car. Makes it easy for her to reach under her skirt and play with herself while we drive home. Also to be out somewhere and have her give me a bj.
My boyfriend says that me tickling his bare back with my nails turns him on lots.
And tickling just below his belly button where his pubic hair has travelled up - that bit is soo cute on guys :)
Other than that its a mystery but i will find out!
xxxx
[QUOTE=JBClvrGirl;103607]just make you so horney you couldnt stand it?[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend once went to bed with me with nothing but a sexy, lace thong on....I get horny just from the memory/thought.
EDIT - I'm with the guy that mentioned skirts!
I have a friend who will take off her panties and put on a really short skirt, then she will bend over and pick something up In front of me, then come sit in my lap or rub up against me. That gets me really turned on.
Pantyhose and heels
One thing that would completely drive me wild would be.....
To be tied down for my girl to have her way with me. And for her to just go wild and have fun with it, being adventerous.
Also, I love being teased. As long as the tease is followed through eventually.
Also.... nice long nails scratching my back while making out.... feels too good.
A guy have his back tickle or scrathed seems to be a common thing hell my bf loves it! But what is with the school uniform? I am 18 and we are the only sixth form (yr 12/ 13) in the county to have a uniform and my bf loves it and it hidious! He upset I am buring it soon.
Seriously what is it with the uni eh??
Skirts, showing ample cleavage when the situation does not allow for anything but viewing.
Raking of long nails down my back.
Knowing she is going for a shower in preperation for "bed" time, especially when she makes it known that a little anal play is on the cards!!
Did I mention skirts??!!!!! Long or short....but i do prefer long!!
Watching my wife touch herself.....drives me nuts....especially when restrained and can do nothing but watch!!
[QUOTE=Tjdude;104367]As many guys, i'm turned on by visual stimulation, i love seeing my g/f walking around the room after she toke a shower, wearing nothing but panties and one of my shirts. I just can't resist
and she knows that. Nothing more sexy than a woman that knows that she is hot to his man and wants to please him
. Grrrrrrrr i need to call her right know ...
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Well said
I love it when my wife is dressed sexy when we go out (Commando does not hurt either)
I love it when she get something sexy from the shop or sends me a sexy text message on my phone. Once she called me during a board meeting to say sexy things to me it drove me crazy and wanted to climbed the walls.
Talked dirty to me in public
Skirts, aye!
Fresh sweat can be sexy, especially if she'll let you lick some of it off...
Alot of the things that turn girls on also work on guys, such as kissing/licking/nibbling on the neck and ears.
The spine can be somewhat sensitive.
Another MAJOR turn on: Your reactions to things we do. If your guy does or says something and it brings out an involuntary whimper, squeak, or moan, that's the most arousing sound on the face of the earth. Keep in mind, this only really works well if it's an involuntary action, doing it deliberately isn't as arousing.
Along those lines, ANY behavior that appears involuntary is very arousing. As with the noises, it's important that you not be doing it deliberately. Trembling limbs, back arches, twitches, all of these things tell a male that he's driving her wild. As you've probably noticed, I consider anything that tells a male that he's driving his partner so wild that she can't control herself to be the most potent turn-on in existence.
This doesn't just apply to things that his partner says in response to physical stimulation, or during sex.
Tone of voice, for the same reasons cited above, is a very major potential turn-on. Telling him you love him, when you're either so full of emotion or so aroused that it's playing tricks with your voice, is a double whammy. When my girlfriend tells me she loves me, with her voice going all funny, it's both very arousing AND makes me feel my love for her so strongly I think my heart might burst. It is, in my un-humble opinion, more wonderful than orgasm.
If you can muster the vocal control to tell him you love him, at one of those moments when both of you are weak at the knees, he may never feel anything more wonderful in his life, and he'll do anything for you.
Well that last responce pretty much somes it up :D
I like, well for oral when my girl is about to give me head, but she kisses my chest and all the way down but she stops, and kisses the area above my dick, I love it for some reason.
When she says she want to give me oral sex. I know I just get to sit back and watch and enjoy the whole experience without trying to pleasure her. It usually ends up in a great time of sex because I can't stop from touching her and she gets so turned on from giving me oral, she then wants more done to her.
When she tells me how much she wants to please me.
Chauvinistic? Yes.
Sexy? Very much so.
well, blowing in my ear and nibbling, just dont stick your whole tongue in there like my ex...
my lady running her nails down my back, my butt, and my legs, it makes me crazy and gives me chills all over.
the way she talks about how much she loves me down there, that drives me loco.
and oh, when my lady says she wants to have her way with me, and i know there's nothing i can to do to stop her!
Just being random turns me on. like in the middle of a show or in the middle of a run she just jumps on me. then she strips me a fcuks the **** out of me! Being random always wins!