;) I am very interested in anal/ass play and want to get a toy to help me......Should I start with a butt plug or dildo? Any pointers.....? I'm a bi guy so my experiences will be with other guys........not my lady at this point......thanks.
Fri, 01/27/2006 - 14:44
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what toy should I start with?
Hey Fenceguy, sorry for the delay. I did not see this post until now. I'm curious why no one else has replied before now.
Begin with a finger. Male or female, the anus and sphincters need both lubrication and some conditioning in order to relax and and accept something going in the "wrong way". Once a very well lubricated finger has spread around the lube, you can then use it to stimulate the many nerves by applying a stroking as well as a wiggling or wobbling action.
Before going out and buying expensive toys, why not graduate from fingering to suitable items around the home like:
* a carrot stick
* a candle stick
* an English cuccumber or a small diameter regular cuccumber
If you want to use commerical toys, then get whatever interests you. If you want a penis substitute or butt plug or some other dildo, just make sure it is not too big. You do not want to stretch the anus.
For a wider selection, please have a look at this site: http://ww1.bestsextoyreview.com.
I started with a small glass dildo toy. These glass toys are gorgeous nowadays.
You could also try a beginners toy. Something like this http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2583 :)