I am a virgin but have been having crazy horrible urges.. They are really starting to be annoying and... Painful. I'm only 14 years old. I don't know what to do. I don't really know how to masturbate... I'm having a hard time. Can someone please help me?
Sun, 11/28/2010 - 09:17
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What should I do?? Please help..
Are you a girl or a boy?
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> I am a virgin but have been having crazy horrible urges.. They are really starting to be annoying
> I'm only 14 years old. I don't know what to do.
If you are a girl, then continue reading. If you are a guy, please let us know and I'll give you some specific information.
I am presuming you are a girl, however, male or female, the teen years can be challenging because of "raging hormones" that require a few years to equalize and settle down. The new catch phrase "just deal with it" seems to be the age old recommendation for all teens throughout the ages. Another age old recommendation that used to be more popular than nowadays is "keep busy and occupy your mind in other ways." This of course is easier said than done yet there is some truth to it.
> I don't really know how to masturbate... I'm having a hard time. Can someone please help me?
Boys pretty much learn how to masturbate right out of puberty.
It is almost as if it is instinctual; not so for females of the species. Girls/women must make a concerted conscious effort to learn and then do it much less frequently than males. That said, the fairer gender can enjoy many more orgasms in a row than guys can. For most of our life most of us are limited to a maximum of three or four in any 24 hour period. Girls/women can often have many many more (and in succession) if they choose.
Here is some helpful reading material. Please read the section that describes an exercise that you can repeat in order to connect all the dots so to speak and make the change into becoming an orgasmic woman.
The Anatomy of the Female "O"
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
Benefits of Masturbating for Boys and for Girls
Female Sexual Response ….
Why Women's Orgasms?
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
-doc
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