It is hard to say. I think clinging to routine is the major issues I've seen in my relationships where the sex wasn't stellar. One woman I dated only wanted sex and by that I mean intercourse. No foreplay, oral or anything else.
Things like lack of confidence can be overcome. Fear can be overcome. Lack of imagination... maybe.
Every couple is different. Different body geometry means different things will be better and others worse for that couple. I have a large circumference so I pose a challenge for most to give a BJ to and I am hard to get off that way too. So in my relationships, fewer BJs is not a problem.
I think the problem of boring sex is shared between both sides. An interest in exploring new things and new ways of pleasing each other is important. Also, stick to what works most of the time. Its not like sex has to be different every time to be good. Emotions are really important for long term enjoyment.
Stop trying to appease him by giving him what he wants and POUNCE on him demanding what you want every once in a while. Forget blowing his doors off - rip them off their hinges! Give him 4 or more orgasms in 45 minutes. Bored? *snickering* HAH!!! The men really don't stand a chance when it comes to an unbridled woman who embraces and enjoys her sexualiy. Like being bored in the middle of a raging forest fire - just doesn't happen, honey.
It is hard to say. I think clinging to routine is the major issues I've seen in my relationships where the sex wasn't stellar. One woman I dated only wanted sex and by that I mean intercourse. No foreplay, oral or anything else.
Things like lack of confidence can be overcome. Fear can be overcome. Lack of imagination... maybe.
Every couple is different. Different body geometry means different things will be better and others worse for that couple. I have a large circumference so I pose a challenge for most to give a BJ to and I am hard to get off that way too. So in my relationships, fewer BJs is not a problem.
I think the problem of boring sex is shared between both sides. An interest in exploring new things and new ways of pleasing each other is important. Also, stick to what works most of the time. Its not like sex has to be different every time to be good. Emotions are really important for long term enjoyment.
Keep our men from getting bored?
Stop trying to appease him by giving him what he wants and POUNCE on him demanding what you want every once in a while. Forget blowing his doors off - rip them off their hinges! Give him 4 or more orgasms in 45 minutes. Bored? *snickering* HAH!!! The men really don't stand a chance when it comes to an unbridled woman who embraces and enjoys her sexualiy. Like being bored in the middle of a raging forest fire - just doesn't happen, honey.