my girlfriend and i arent to the point of sex yet really. on thursday she will be coming over after school and it is our anniversary. i asked if she would like to smoke bc shes always wondered what its like to smoke weed and have a crazy sexual experience.
Hearing that is just amazing. those are two things that i really enjoy haha. so what i was wondering is since she wants to get dirty bc she hears its 10x better how can i make it amazing for her.
I was thinking she would like to b manhandeled bc she is little like 90 lbs and 5 ft tall. she likes that bc thats what i usually do with her b4 anything sexual happens. Like usually we will play around and shell slap me and say that i dont have the balls to hit her back and i do but not in a hard way lol then she seems to get rough by really trying to hurt me by pushing or punching me and then i get to picking her up and throwing her around usually on my bed or couch.
Anyway she also likes it fast bc i was fingering her fast and she was trying so hard to keep all the moaning in bc my parents were in the next room. This was the first time i did this to her anyway and she was worried bc she didnt know how good it would be. But the whole time she was like u werent kidding u are really good at this.
She also really likes dry humping. Thats usually what gets her off not the fingering bc the fingering never has ever even with other guys she needs the humping.
So im thinking man handle, then fast fingering and mayb a little eating out, then to the dry humping to get her off.
WHAT I REALLY WANT TO KNOW IS... how do i make it great? Thats the whole point of smoking because she was saying she wants to smoke and have some kind of crazy sexual experience bc its supposed to be really good.
Please help i only have 5 days!!!!!!!!!!!
I haven't had sex under the influence so I don't know... But then, I can act totally drunk just by being ppl who are drinking, as though I'm picking up sexual cues subliminally.
Personally, what you have in mind sounds pretty good =) I'd save the fingering until she gets very wet and turned on. Don't start with that. I gather that, since she's been getting off on dry humping, that she's been experiencing mainly clitoral orgasms. Instead of just fingering real fast, try combining it with a bit of pressure on her clit with your thumb and a come hither motion of the finger inside her. If she's fully aroused you might be able to hit her g-spot and she'll be in heaven :D
Other things I can think of are: dirty talk, combining the manhandling with some light bondage (like tying her to the bedpost with a scarf), and making her pleasure you a little too.
how do i bring about the light bondage? im intrigued ;). i mean i dont want to seem weird we have only been dating 3 months ya know? i think she would like that. but i mean i usually suck on her nipples and kiss her all over then i get into her pants. but this will be the first time that shes really into it bc my parents wont be around so i want to make it the best sexual experience ever.
Just communicate. Say, "I think you're a bad girl and you need to be tied down." If she gives you a weird look, you can tuck that idea away. If she moans "Oh please, punish me", you can probably whip out the prop and get to work.
Or, you can always talk about it ahead of time. Establish some safety words. For instance, every time she says "spinach", you know she wants you to stop for real.
im not going to beat her up im just going to tie her up and make crazy shit happen. lol. I mean tie her up and blindfold her and thats about it.
i think instead of tieing her up just kind of hold her arms down..
this is what my boyfriend does with me as i think it would be slightly intimidating being actualy tied up! although he has spoken about a little very mild bondage..
just test the waters little by little shel tell you when shes not comfotablt anymore x
yea i guess but i need both hands lol it would be nice if i could but we arent actually having sex. im just going to be either fingering her or going down on her. so i mean tying her up is the only way to get her to stay down
There's just something about the tone and choice of words that just turns me off about all this.
While sex can have some roughness to it, these are usually mock actions and not really hurtful or harmful. I believe you should go to the Index and begin reading all the articles on the how-to's of making out, kissing, and all that in order to learn what making love is generally all about before moving on to tying arms and legs to the bedposts, slapping people around, tossing them to and fro, manhandling, and whatever else you mentioned.
If you are about to explore sex with her for the first time, I would urge you to man up and take the gentle caring loving approach, first.
If you are about to explore romance with her regardless of how far you have gone to this point, I urge you to learn what is involved in becoming a knowledgeable, skilled, caring, compassionate, lover, first. Please read everything in the Index and then decide how you want your love life and her experience with you to proceed.
What makes great sex is learning all you can beforehand - READ, as Doc has said, articles in the Index.
FORGET BONDAGE, SMOKING WEED, ETC - DO NOT RUN BEFORE YOU CAN WALK.