Now that my blunt statement is there, what makes women boring in bed? I'll be honest. It is the stream of responses I asked when I first learned about sex....
"Sex is dirty"
"Masturbation is a sin"
"indulging in sex is a sin"
"good girls, don't do that"
...and then you have the verbal psychological abuse that brainwash women into the idealization of what it means to be pure.
If I wanted to be pure than I would be a diamond. Ha!
From a personal view, it's what I've been told about sex not being about pleasure but for the sole purpose of procreation. If you ask women in general about sex, you know firsthand how so ashamed they are to talk about, because it's still taboo...
Call it cultural brainwashing, but the mind can interpret a lot, and when women belove that embracing sexuality is bad, they believe it, and live it.
But then again, the idea of women being bad in bed will also do that damage too. So before you go about asking this question, is there something you are not doing? Like for instance, helping to encourage a woman's sexual side??
I'm not blaming you, I just look at these issues from a lot of angles...
I don't know, but I can tell you want I find boring about a man in bed:
---won't try new things; sticks to a few old tried and true things (while fun, a bit of creativity and change would be nice)
---being too wussy to say "let's try this".....I'm not a prude, I will experiment with you, I won't get angry, the worst I would say is I don't think I would be interested; more likely I will say, let's try it, but if you never offer ......don't leave it up to me! :mad:
---going ahead with their orgasm with no thought to mine (remember, ladies take more time)
---having an orgasm well before I do, and then saying, "oh sorry," and then trying to go on where they left off. Ug, too late! Your having an orgasm was supposed to be part of MY experience too.
---when I say I don't like something a certain way, DON'T do it again. It is annoying. Please try to remember what I like, and I will return the favour.
Oh, er, I guess what I meant was "what makes a man annoying in bed", but you get the drift. LOL
What makes a woman bad in bed is a man who is bad in bed.
IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.
BTW I must protest Mrs G-Spot's statement that "ladies take longer". Not necessarily true. SOME women take longer; SOME women orgasm upon seeing 'that look' in his eye.
In conversations with various persons over more than a few years, the consensus of what makes ANYONE bad in bed is:
1. nonparticipation - "just lying there" aka "the dead fish"
2. selfishness - "I got mine now get the hell out." also "My way or no way"
3. heartlessness - the 'wham bam' without a 'thank you'.
What a man wants is a woman who desires him; a woman who has no hang ups; who is excited and eager in bed; who wants it as bad as he does; wants to do all the same things he does, none of the things he doesn't and who maybe even has some "let's try this" type ideas of her own that he never even thought of. Men who like passive non-sexual women are called rapists. Just my opinion.
[QUOTE=tinyclit;256191]What a man wants is a woman who desires him; a woman who has no hang ups; who is excited and eager in bed; who wants it as bad as he does; wants to do all the same things he does, none of the things he doesn't and who maybe even has some "let's try this" type ideas of her own that he never even thought of. Men who like passive non-sexual women are called rapists. Just my opinion.[/QUOTE]
I have to say I completely agree. especially about the "let's try this" ideas.
[QUOTE=tinyclit;256191]What a man wants is a woman who desires him; a woman who has no hang ups; who is excited and eager in bed; who wants it as bad as he does; wants to do all the same things he does, none of the things he doesn't and who maybe even has some "let's try this" type ideas of her own that he never even thought of. Men who like passive non-sexual women are called rapists. Just my opinion.[/QUOTE]
This thread was about what makes a girl boring in bed, not perfect. However if you flipped the switch, that's also the perfect guy in bed as well! A man who desires her, excited and eager, wants it bad, wants to do all the same things she does and none of things she doesn't. And definitely not passive.. Only in dreams, eh? :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=ravishing;256694]This thread was about what makes a girl boring in bed, not perfect. However if you flipped the switch, that's also the perfect guy in bed as well! A man who desires her, excited and eager, wants it bad, wants to do all the same things she does and none of things she doesn't. And definitely not passive.. Only in dreams, eh? :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
I think if girl is not getting fun with her boyfriend so she may be feel boring in bed.
THE PATRIARCHAL VIEWS ON SEX.
Now that my blunt statement is there, what makes women boring in bed? I'll be honest. It is the stream of responses I asked when I first learned about sex....
"Sex is dirty"
"Masturbation is a sin"
"indulging in sex is a sin"
"good girls, don't do that"
...and then you have the verbal psychological abuse that brainwash women into the idealization of what it means to be pure.
If I wanted to be pure than I would be a diamond. Ha!
From a personal view, it's what I've been told about sex not being about pleasure but for the sole purpose of procreation. If you ask women in general about sex, you know firsthand how so ashamed they are to talk about, because it's still taboo...
Call it cultural brainwashing, but the mind can interpret a lot, and when women belove that embracing sexuality is bad, they believe it, and live it.
But then again, the idea of women being bad in bed will also do that damage too. So before you go about asking this question, is there something you are not doing? Like for instance, helping to encourage a woman's sexual side??
I'm not blaming you, I just look at these issues from a lot of angles...
I don't know, but I can tell you want I find boring about a man in bed:
---won't try new things; sticks to a few old tried and true things (while fun, a bit of creativity and change would be nice)
---being too wussy to say "let's try this".....I'm not a prude, I will experiment with you, I won't get angry, the worst I would say is I don't think I would be interested; more likely I will say, let's try it, but if you never offer ......don't leave it up to me! :mad:
---going ahead with their orgasm with no thought to mine (remember, ladies take more time)
---having an orgasm well before I do, and then saying, "oh sorry," and then trying to go on where they left off. Ug, too late! Your having an orgasm was supposed to be part of MY experience too.
---when I say I don't like something a certain way, DON'T do it again. It is annoying. Please try to remember what I like, and I will return the favour.
Oh, er, I guess what I meant was "what makes a man annoying in bed", but you get the drift. LOL
UnSkilled Men :rolleyes::rolleyes:
Has long has ppl are both having fun no woman is boring...
and you can say it the other way too
What makes a man boring in bed?
when they lie their thinking of England - actually, with their poor performance in the World Cup.. would you want to think about them? lol
[QUOTE=nuttychick;255439]UnSkilled Men :rolleyes::rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
LOL!! AWESOME! (and true) ;)
What?! I'm supposed to be bad in bed!? HELP! Give me tips!!
What makes a woman bad in bed is a man who is bad in bed.
IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.
BTW I must protest Mrs G-Spot's statement that "ladies take longer". Not necessarily true. SOME women take longer; SOME women orgasm upon seeing 'that look' in his eye.
In conversations with various persons over more than a few years, the consensus of what makes ANYONE bad in bed is:
1. nonparticipation - "just lying there" aka "the dead fish"
2. selfishness - "I got mine now get the hell out." also "My way or no way"
3. heartlessness - the 'wham bam' without a 'thank you'.
What a man wants is a woman who desires him; a woman who has no hang ups; who is excited and eager in bed; who wants it as bad as he does; wants to do all the same things he does, none of the things he doesn't and who maybe even has some "let's try this" type ideas of her own that he never even thought of. Men who like passive non-sexual women are called rapists. Just my opinion.
What makes girls boring in bed? Usually, it's a boring guy... sorry!
[QUOTE=orgasmation;256623]What makes girls boring in bed? Usually, it's a boring guy... sorry![/QUOTE]
Ha what if the guy is boring cause the girl sucks? You're ignorant.
[QUOTE=tinyclit;256191]What a man wants is a woman who desires him; a woman who has no hang ups; who is excited and eager in bed; who wants it as bad as he does; wants to do all the same things he does, none of the things he doesn't and who maybe even has some "let's try this" type ideas of her own that he never even thought of. Men who like passive non-sexual women are called rapists. Just my opinion.[/QUOTE]
I have to say I completely agree. especially about the "let's try this" ideas.
[QUOTE=tinyclit;256191]What a man wants is a woman who desires him; a woman who has no hang ups; who is excited and eager in bed; who wants it as bad as he does; wants to do all the same things he does, none of the things he doesn't and who maybe even has some "let's try this" type ideas of her own that he never even thought of. Men who like passive non-sexual women are called rapists. Just my opinion.[/QUOTE]
This thread was about what makes a girl boring in bed, not perfect. However if you flipped the switch, that's also the perfect guy in bed as well! A man who desires her, excited and eager, wants it bad, wants to do all the same things she does and none of things she doesn't. And definitely not passive.. Only in dreams, eh? :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=ravishing;256694]This thread was about what makes a girl boring in bed, not perfect. However if you flipped the switch, that's also the perfect guy in bed as well! A man who desires her, excited and eager, wants it bad, wants to do all the same things she does and none of things she doesn't. And definitely not passive.. Only in dreams, eh? :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
Sounds like my partner, so not only in dreams :D!