Most believe it warms a woman up faster - that's why.
Give her a few orgasms via oral and she'll most likely say yes to vaginal sex.

Similarly, if he's slow to get an erection, a little oral sex from her helps.

Ah... I sometimes think my man is from another planet than the other guys :rolleyes: If he's in the mood for sex; he pays long slow attention to caressing my back, stroking my arms and stomach, circling over and across my breasts. Suddenly adding squeezes or suckling my nipples. Caressing my thighs, only to give me a quick tingle on my clit, and moves up again to my belly. Teasing me till I go nuts and ready to jump him! :eek::) And even then he sometimes holds my hips up so that I can't push him in and playfully fingers my clit and squeezes my thighs. Only rarely have we gotten to him eating me out before penetration.

[QUOTE=country chick;268520]i have always wondered what it is about a guy that makes him always want to eat a girl out before he even goes for the breasts. or even having hardcore sex[/QUOTE]

Three reasons:

R#1) He really really likes the idea of doing it to the degree that it becomes first and foremost on his to do list

R#2) He does not really understand how to arouse a woman

R#3) EEK's reply

For these "racy" fellas who have a tendency to race toward the finish line, his partner should whisper in his ear about proceeding slowly and deliberately. They should read RR's R)acy- rated novel, above! and get a clue about how to "drive" and steer a woman's passion.

LOL to the "racy novel" approach because sometimes that's WAAY too slow!
I am notorious for wrecking a man's foreplay skills unless you count the ability to pick up my negligently dropped bits of clothing (ala breadcrumbs) as he follows me to the bedroom as 'foreplay'.

Tsk @ Dancing Doc!! Steer?!?! Hun, they're just trying to keep up with me. Hah! Have at you fellow! No crying for mercy! Take it like a man!

Oh no! Breathe, baby, breathe! (insert CPR here) Where's the defib? (zap)!

EEK, you forgot the adrenaline (spelling?)

to answer the question, we men can be pretty blind about sex (so can women, but that isn't too relevant)

Interesting that you have found only men who want to go straight to eating. I usually spent ample time playing with her breasts then move to eating. In fact most of my lady friends think they're boyfriends are "cute" because they're almost hypnotized by their chests.

I didn't forget, I have an aversion to needles.

BTW - all sex begins somewhere along the line with CONVERSATION. No?

mmmmm idk EEK....I have had the days at the gym that leave me so amped up that I come home and attack my fwb's the moment I see them.

But then again my eyes say it all so I guess its a conversation with my eyes haha.

[QUOTE=RedRoses;268524]Ah... I sometimes think my man is from another planet than the other guys :rolleyes: If he's in the mood for sex; he pays long slow attention to caressing my back, stroking my arms and stomach, circling over and across my breasts. Suddenly adding squeezes or suckling my nipples. Caressing my thighs, only to give me a quick tingle on my clit, and moves up again to my belly. Teasing me till I go nuts and ready to jump him! :eek::) And even then he sometimes holds my hips up so that I can't push him in and playfully fingers my clit and squeezes my thighs. Only rarely have we gotten to him eating me out before penetration.[/QUOTE]

I'm with RR on this one. My beau spends ample time on my neck, fondling my breasts, sucking/squeezing on my nipples, squeezing my thighs, and placing kisses everywhere before he dives into oral sex.

Here's an answer no one else has given: he might love performing cunnilingus. Many men do.

i just love the fact my recent girlfiend had one sweet pussy and her love juices was to die for could have spent hours eating her out

as a guy I love eating my gf out, after ample foreplay of course, because of the enjoyment it gives her (my gf can orgasm many times) it is sooo exciting to feel her clit under my tongue and her juices flowing is such a turn on. maybe its just me but I like knowing that she is deriving such pleasure from my actions.