Being a single male with plenty of sexual appetite I watch my fair share of porn. I am however relatively selective and only like to watch stuff that I'd be doing myself. (Infact many homemade later found on the internet scenes are my favourite).
Personally I can't see the point of Anal but i do struggle to find stuff that does not include anal and people seem to seek it out specifically.
Can someone please enlighten me. What the hell is it with anal ???


I have never lived in Eastern Europe, but I have known Eastern European women who enjoy anal sex and living in Latin America I agree completely with kievan (from Kiev) about Latin American emphasis on female buttocks and the practice of anal sex in the region.
[QUOTE=RedRoses;275831]O my, I hope they don't :( From what I've seen of anal sex in mainstream-porn, you really really really do NOT want to do it like that![/QUOTE]
My limited experience with mainstream porn movies is that there is hardly anything I want to do like that. I am aware of more specialized pornography which depicts anal sex differently.
[QUOTE=RedRoses;275831]I'm not so sure if it's true anal sex is more common in Eastern Europe and Latin America... I would think a liking for buttocks doesn't automatically imply a fascination for anal sex. Do you have a resource?
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Sure I a Ukranian born and grew up in Paraguya, Argentina and southern Brazil
Ah, I see. I wonder; do you know the reason why it's popular? Is it about pleasure or more about birth control or vaginal virginity or other?
I wouldn't be able to even estimate how normal anal sex is in the Netherlands, if it weren't for statistics. Since people here do talk about sex, but are very picky on telling about themselves, esp while not anonymous. People here are open-minded and most Dutchies will say that everyone is entitled to express sexuality in any way they want among consenting adults, also vote for that and even praise role-models. But people tend to get much more judgmental when someone does add: "I do that and I love it", especially when this person happens to be friend/family. That's pretty sad really...
Anyways, I don't know when something becomes common. Estimates are that about 25-40% of Dutch heterosexuals have experience with anal sex. About 30% by the age of 24. It's why many sexual education websites also advice on anal sex, particularly because research has shown people are sloppy on protection, which is not good for STD/HIV-prevention. The main reason to practice anal sex seems to be curiosity about pleasure. It's not about virginity, as the average age for first time anal sex is 3 years later than vaginal. Anal sex is certainly not as common as say: oral sex. When about 90% of all 24-year olds has experience with that and that's just as many as those who have experienced vaginal intercourse.
[QUOTE=kievan;275817]For Eastern Europeans is anal sex is common perhaps stems from the days of Turkish/Mongol empire or the Golde Hordes that invaded those lands now part of Russia not sure of this though.
Anal is also very common in Brazil and Argentina where the ass shape is considered the most attractive feature of a woman they call it "a bunda" or ass cleavage you'll only have to look at the number of skimpy binkinis or tangas with G strings on any beach.
So basically the practice of anal sex may be a recent arrival or novelty in the English speaking world That may be true.[/QUOTE]
I'm not so sure if it's true anal sex is more common in Eastern Europe and Latin America... I would think a liking for buttocks doesn't automatically imply a fascination for anal sex. Do you have a resource?
Off course there's a long history to anal sex, depictions go back to Ancient Rome and Greece and Asia. In tantric instructions the anus is last to be involved in sexual activities, since activities are ordered in a way to built up momentum to create maximum pleasure. Anal sex is sometimes used as a type of birth control (not much reliable, btw) and that could be more common in some cultures than in others. I do know that in some cultures, particularly Middle East, anal sex is used by women to prevent them from losing their vaginal virginity. I do find it fascinating that these same cultures often think of the anus as a very tainted area they're not allowed to touch; quite a paradox is it not? :rolleyes: I guess when sex in itself is dirty, you can do it in a place you consider dirty too.
Often recent history is more interesting. In many cultures sex in itself is the (re)arrival of a novelty, since it has been repressed for centuries by religion. As western culture we are only 2 generations on our way of free sexual expression. The culture in itself is battling between holding back uptightly and giving in madly, not knowing what to do with this freedom that we love deeply, yet also desperately try to constrain, redefining our baselines of ethics and boundaries. I'm happy to live in quite a relaxed and open-minded country. It makes this whole tug-of-war a little less extreme.
[QUOTE=dlb;275825]Perhaps they pick up new ideas about how to have anal sex from watching it.[/QUOTE]
O my, I hope they don't :( From what I've seen of anal sex in mainstream-porn, you really really really do NOT want to do it like that!
In porn they basically push in and thrust away like mad men, often even cutting away the frames where they lubed themselves up prior. Porn is a fantasy created by acting and a lot of editing, cutting away all preparation, acts in between and the aftermath. The receiver in real life will guaranteed be in a lot of pain if you'd practice anal sex like that. Not to mention it could result in serious injury. Think: ripping a sphincter or rectum, rushing to the emergency-room.
Porn is a very bad educator.
For Eastern Europeans is anal sex is common perhaps stems from the days of Turkish/Mongol empire or the Golde Hordes that invaded those lands now part of Russia not sure of this though.
Anal is also very common in Brazil and Argentina where the ass shape is considered the most attractive feature of a woman they call it "a bunda" or ass cleavage you'll only have to look at the number of skimpy binkinis or tangas with G strings on any beach.
So basically the practice of anal sex may be a recent arrival or novelty in the English speaking world That may be true.
For a very long time, anal sex has been considered one of the "Greek Arts."
I don't watch pornographic movies much myself and what it do watch is much more exotic. I suppose people who enjoy watching anal porn movies like it because it is "taboo" for many people, it's dirty (on a level all it's own) and there are men and women who actually do it and aroused by it and enjoy seeing videos of it. Perhaps they pick up new ideas about how to have anal sex from watching it.
You must have a hard time finding stuff you like, esp when adding the post about how you don't like the cumshot on the woman's face.
Anal sex in itself can be a wonderful experience, also to a woman. It seems like a lot of men fancy it, whether it's because it's a tight feeling, because they want to have tried everything, because it's about doing something that's bad/dirty/taboo, or because they get sexual enjoyment from degrading a woman. The latter is what I see happening most in porn, also when it's vaginal or oral sex :(
I've made it my mission some time ago to get myself through all sorts of clips, because I wanted to know what the fancy on porn was all about. And also; because I considered myself far too sensitive about it and thought it would wear off if I'd dare to watch it more. But basically; I find it aggressive and degrading, it makes me feel frightened or plain scared, disgusted or even sick, not that many good feelings. The amateur homemade video's seem best; since through the terrible filming it sometimes expresses more passion and even in rare cases: loving. I've seen some I had to admit were kinda cute :) I just don't feel much good watching it, because there's this little voice in the back of my head asking whether both partners really did agree to this being all over the net...
[QUOTE=RedRoses;268517]The amateur homemade video's seem best; since through the terrible filming it sometimes expresses more passion and even in rare cases: loving. I've seen some I had to admit were kinda cute :) I just don't feel much good watching it, because there's this little voice in the back of my head asking whether both partners really did agree to this being all over the net...[/QUOTE]
Quite, I have to know or think that both partners are really engoying it and have come across the odd clip where the partner was not being very nice thinking he was imitating the pro's. Ijust delete those but yes sex is an expression of love between two people although I can accept it being between two peoplewho are comfortable with each other and want to enjoy each other. But I just can't see the fascination with anal and cuming on her face and sometimes it filters into amateur stuff and just looks stupid.
Yes I'm sure the young ladies in the amateur stuff would not have wanted it to be on the net and in that case should never have allowed the video to be made. If I ever met one of them I'dnot embaress them by telling them about it and to be honest wouldprobably never recognise them.
i once watch i documentary on the porn industry and i was shocked at how many films have racial stereotypes in the titles and what goes on in the film. what i really don't like is Ass To Mouth ATM because usually the guy is not wearing a condom. i find it degrading as well for these guys to cum on the woman's face because she really doesn't want it to happen.
i have found this site X-Art to have what i like in porn. i would recommend you check it out, including you RR. i find the content of the site female friendly. here is the first scene i saw of the site called Teenagers in Love. the scene has nice soft music in the beginning and the actors are very good. unfortunately they only have models that look like they came from an abercrombie and fitch shoot and not other types of beautiful people. nonetheless they are good videos to watch if you want.
if the mods delete the links because it is considered against the rules then you can send me a pm for the links:)
Not bad... She's cute with the freckles. I definitely like the kissing. Though she could have done with a little less looking in the camera; it clearly made her drop out of the mood at times, like: "O shoot, forgot; I'm on film! Uhm... let's go doggy droopy eyes now" ;) And I could have done with less genital close-ups. But it's definitely not the aggressive and degrading type; it's kinda sweet. I could watch this rather comfortably :)
Yeah thats a little odd her looking into the camera, but other videos I have seen with her she doesn't really do it that much. I definitely like this site because it is not all about what the guy gets out of it. Some of movements look involuntary when she orgasms so it seems she is enjoying it as well as the guy. And they have a variety from m/f, f/f, threesomes and all forms of sexual acts.
They are nicely done, top quality and well yes the site name is appropriate as they do seem to put thought into it. The length of the clip is not bad either, while "only" 12 minutes (looks like all of their clips are around this mark) it is a quality 12 minutes rather than 40 minutes of "lets try every possible position on you or just go at it mechanically until boredom".
I might actually join that website
another good website is "watch us fuck" from what I gather it is 2 couples that make their own clips and put them on their website. They are quite nice too and being actual couples you can see the chemistry there and they are often very nice
Good, I thought you would like the site. I will have to check out your suggestion some day. I do agree the quality in 12 minutes is far superior to films 2-3 times longer.
I think, f the guy is just seeking his own pleasure and does not take time to make sure very time you are touched anally you are pleasured then no it is not very enjoyable. However, if the guy is like I am and focused on the girl;s pleasure then anal not only can be comfortable but extremely enjoyable.
Hmm very nice and i have collected very unique serve. "Figures for prevalence can vary amongst different demographics, regions, and nationalities. A 2001 French survey of five hundred female respondents concluded that a total of 29% had engaged in this practice, with one third of these confirming to have enjoyed the experience.[51] In contrast, in a 1999 South Korean survey of 586 women, 3.5% of respondents reported having had this type of sex"
I do not think this is a ccompetition who is or was first in the practice of anal sex that would be pure trivia
Red Roses my explanation would be for Ukrainians and Russians may be goes back to the days of the foundation of Kievan Russ and their Viking rulers who settled and explored the rivers and finally settled and became rulers of the Slavic tribes (the only Viking that never fought a battle on Ukrainian-Russian soil) in around Kiev they accepted the Orthodox religion and baptised with Slavic names one of the kings was known as Vladimir The Fornicator 958–1015 so history tells us he had hundred of concubines he started the practice:)
More precisely Brazil and Argentina are Catholic countries not sure if that has bearing on the subject but women have always been fllirty very flirty they wear high heels for generations and men just can't resist the walking "balance" they exude when they walk past. So men developed a cult of around the ass the the prominence of many carnivals in both countries (Rio as most famous) has had a huge impact.
Ass showing rivalry and competitions in Ipanema beach and many other beaches is well known between visting and local beauties. Fashion shows too got into the subject especailly lingerie is famous for that and it is unbelievable to watch.
Cable TV makes it even more popular as cale TV is cheap in South America.
I do not know the reasons why girls have lest bust and more ass in these two countries but generally it is a fact so men are more attracted to look at bums more than breasts.
Mind you we are talking about people quite different racially from the normal Amerindians (Bolivians,Peruvians,Ecuadoreans and Central Americans) and or Latino person which is known in the USA for instance, Latin America but South Americans is preferably used as a term as local Spanish and Portuguese is spoken but the comparisons ends there because there is a very large component of Europeans, a minority Amerindians, Asians and Blacks .
LOL, there is a biologist called Midas Dekkers who wrote a humorous article few years back on high heels and I always think about this whenever high heels are mentioned as sexy. He describes in detail how she's destroying her ankles, calves, back, feet, etc. Then describes graphically how the men eagerly let her, because when she walks in those high heels her hips going from side to side is like a snake hypnotizing :rolleyes:
I find Brazilian people in general beautiful and in my experience with the Brazilian community out here, also pleasant people to socialize with. They certainly know how to throw a party :) I know that the jeans and underwear to give you extra ass comes from Brazil. It made it's way over here about a few years ago, but without much success. And truthfully; I think people should do with less padding stitched in their clothes instead of more, to become more stunning in their natural beauty.
I don't know how important the Catholic part is. I mean: most Italians are and they haven't got much of a don't-spill-your-seed-reputation for centuries till today ;) It becomes a problem when her daddy finds you two or an unwanted pregnancy is the result. I was pleased to hear that in Brazil condoms are very much accepted. Brazil is a rolemodel for developing countries on preventing HIV-transmission; 99,7% of the population is not infected. And that's wonderful! :) By comparison: in the Netherlands 0,2% of the population is HIV-positive. And we're doing very well compared to other European countries.
You know, it makes me wonder; since we've got the Brazilian wax out here, how come there isn't some amazing Brazilian anal lube on the market?
[QUOTE=dlb;275840]I am aware of more specialized pornography which depicts anal sex differently.[/QUOTE]
I'm curious: what is this "specialized pornography"?
Not sure about lube products I left those parts long ago RedRoses although I travel extensively in Brazil and make myself understood pretty well I grew up in Argentina. BTW Argentina has the largest popullation of Italian descent nearly 50% claim Italian descent represented by 12seats in the Italian parliament. Then again Buenos Aires was a New York rival one upon a time hosting the second largest Jewish population in The Americas. There is also a large contingent of Germans, Austraian, Swiss,Poles,Lithuanians, Swedish, Ukrainians,Hungarians Armenians (yes like Kardashian) Arabs and of course Spaniards.
Oh BTW my family surname means falcon in Ukranian:)
[QUOTE=RedRoses;275871] I'm curious: what is this "specialized pornography"?[/QUOTE]
I cannot give you titles, but believe me anal sex is an entire porn genre with a variety of subgenres.
Re: anal lube. As far as I know the companies that manufacture or hold the patents for sexual lubes are based in North America or Europe. This is not to say that products are not produced locally or sold with names in Portuguese or Spanish to make the purpose more obvious to the local population. Here in Mexico there has been an tremendous explosion of sex shops in less than a decade. Lubricants are one of the most sold items.