I am a woman and I want to be a guy. Not sex-change kinda guy, just for 24 hours. I want to know how and what it feels like to have that between their legs all day. I think women, think alot with their heart, what is it like to have a guys heart. Don't jump on me guys, there are wonderful men out there, but there are those few that make it very hard on you.
I want to know what it feels like when they are ready to cum. How do they know I'm going to do this and then this and then I will? There are a lot more things I want to know, that's why the 24 hours, am I alone?
Guys feel free to let us women know if you want to be one of us too.
Thu, 07/31/2008 - 16:08
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What is it like
Well first off there is the physical side. Most of are horny most of the time. We all have fantasies, but not all express them. When we have sex, we enjoy the entire act. When we are building up to cuming the blood rushes to the head, you can feel your balls throb and then it feels like a fire hose being turned onto full blast. This all builds up to rush of energy all over that slowly fades.
When single we will hunt, yes I said hunt, for the next romp in the hay and we do not care if they are single, attached or married.
When married we think about the days of the hunt. Unfortunately, some act on that instinct.
Now that it out of the way, we are not that different from you. If you have children and a spouse, we worry about their safety and security.
We worry if we are doing enough or have we failed our families. This drives us to do more and try harder.
Do not think just because we have a package that is all that counts. We may always be horny, but our priorities are most of the time in the right order.
I get most of that, and I was raised by an awesome dad. We came first, no matter what he thought of us first.
It's been a long time since I've had a period, total hysterectomy at 32 in 1993. But I still remember how much I hated to wear a pad. My periods were very heavy and well a tampon just wasn't enough. Not to compare a guys penis to a pad, but that is my closest thought. And yes you give a penis a glance and well, it's ready to go. So walking around all day it has to get some stimulation.
It just would be cool to be a guy for 24 hours, just to feel what it is like to be one.
I think lots of people wonder what it is like for the other sex, I would like to be female for 24 hours to see what that is like, its just impossible to imagine sex from the other perspective. But overall i am quite happy being a male.
As for walking around with a lump between your legs the whole time, you don't really even notice it for most of it unless you start getting horny and it starts bulging.
Now, this is an interesting twist to an old (male) train of thought. I've held off replying because I wanted to read what others had to say, first.
[QUOTE=goof'schik;220254]I am a woman and I want to be a guy. Not sex-change kinda guy, just for 24 hours. I want to know how and what it feels like to have that between their legs all day.
[COLOR="Navy">"That"? Well, most of the time we are unaware of our "package". You can get some idea of what it is like by wearing loose fitting shorts. These shorts can probably substitute for both a pair of boxers and briefs. Roll up a pair of socks and place them low in the front, next cut off a carrot stick or cuccumber to some length like six inches and orient it so that it rests on top of the roll of socks and points up toward your belly button. (Note, that the tip may poke out of the wate band!!) Doing this will give you a pretty realistic idea of what an erect penis feels like. Boys and young men will have erections several times a day. The rest of the time the penis is flaccid and can be any length from nearly that of a full erection to as small as an inch or so; although, generally a bit longer unless cold and wet. During these times we are not normally aware of either the penis or the scrotum.
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I think women, think a lot with their heart, what is it like to have a guys heart. Don't jump on me guys, there are wonderful men out there, but there are those few that make it very hard on you.
[COLOR="Navy">I know. Many of the posts that we answer are from one gender or the other asking in some way the age old question: "Wo/men, what is it that they want?" [/COLOR]
I want to know what it feels like when they are ready to cum.
[COLOR="Navy">Some or all of the following manifest themselves, although, not necessarily in this order:
* The penis has been moistened long before with precum
* The penis is erect and when the man is at the trigger point of an orgasm the shaft will feel like it is stuffed and about to burst out of its skin!
* The skin of the Shaft and on the Glans becomes sensitive to the touch and will twitch when touched.
* The torso will stiffen, the body will perspire, toes are likely to curl at the moment of orgasm, a person's breathing will become haulting, panting, and often alternating between the two.
* A person's awareness of what is happening around him narrows to what is happening with his genitals thus eliminating all awareness of what is happening around him and outside.
* At the moment, the penis will often begin to tingle.
* The Glans changes color becoming purple or beet red
* At the moment of climax, the penis feels like it will pop, the PC muscles will often be contracted, breathing will stop, and the pulsating will begin at the base of the shaft. Several contractions will happen--some strong, later, becoming weaker and weaker.[/COLOR]
How do they know I'm going to do this and then this and then I will?
[COLOR="Navy">Please clarify, what are you asking? If you are asking about what type of stimulation (stroking, rhythm, pressure, where & when) to apply, this is mostly a combination of prior experience (results of lots of masturbation) and what feels good in the moment.[/COLOR]
There are a lot more things I want to know, that's why the 24 hours, am I alone?
Guys feel free to let us women know if you want to be one of us too.[/QUOTE]
For all the concern boys have about the size and thus adequacy of their penises, girls often have a similar concern about breast size and perkiness. Do you feel them? What about when jogging/running? What about when nipples are erect? I believe these are questions many fellas have wondered about yet never asked their girlfriends.
I would imagine that it is difficult for the female of the species to comprehend what tumesence is like when it is localized in an organ as large as a penis. Perhaps a small scale similarity can be imagined when compared to the engorgement of the clitoris and labia.
What are the other things you would like to have information on?
-doc
Thanks everyone for your input, sorry doc not going to even think about trying
That"? Well, most of the time we are unaware of our "package". You can get some idea of what it is like by wearing loose fitting shorts. These shorts can probably substitute for both a pair of boxers and briefs. Roll up a pair of socks and place them low in the front, next cut off a carrot stick or cuccumber to some length like six inches and orient it so that it rests on top of the roll of socks and points up toward your belly button. (Note, that the tip may poke out of the wate band!!) Doing this will give you a pretty realistic idea of what an erect penis feels like. Boys and young men will have erections several times a day. The rest of the time the penis is flaccid and can be any length from nearly that of a full erection to as small as an inch or so; although, generally a bit longer unless cold and wet. During these times we are not normally aware of either the penis or the scrotum.
I don't know that I could get thru the check out line without totally blushing.
Even though I come from a family with large breasted women, I can almost walk around without ever wearing a bra. I have first cousins that had breast reductions and are still bigger than me. So I never had that issue with them even thinking of giving me a black eye while running. All the women on both sides were never not a D cup.
And as all of us women are turned on by different things I get the man part. Sometimes feeling like you are a pancake, front to back to side to other side, with legs going in all kinds of directions depends on the guy and what he "knows" pleasures him. As all men are not exactly the same then I can guess to say that neither are all women. If one man is 6" and another 7" can mean that we women have differences as well.
Alot of the "how do they walk around with that thing" isn't even sexual. I've wondered for a long time. It's like a loose thread, that bothers me. I guess that's why there are boxers and briefs. But guys we women do wonder, don't let us fool you.
Yes when you are with 5 women who are let us say large chested and your not you do feel odd.
My dad told me that men love bums or boobs, I needed to find one that loved bums?????????? I did love my dad. He also gave me a curfew and not my brothers cause I could come home pregnant. It was altered to the car having a curfew, wish I had seen his face when I pulled in the drive then ran back down it and jumped into a friends car.
I have been told that for having such small breast I have large nipples, they are very sensitive during sex and are often ignored.
I did have to laugh though one of the first times I gave a man oral, I gave his penis what he called a hickey. He told me to suck on it.
> I don't know that I could get thru the check out line without totally blushing.
Now, that is funny. I wasn't suggesting you go out in public. Because you expressed an interest in what we felt when erect and flaccid while going about our normal day, I gave you the "tools" to try it around the house.
Get a carrot and cut it to size, and, also get a hotdog and cut it to a couple of inches. These and a small roll of socks will provide a pretty realistic idea. Just substitute one for the other. Other than "feeling what a swollen shaft is like, you will be able to feel what a penis is like when it is against the lower abdomen. The shorts should bulge with the carrot and especially a small/medium size cucumber. If it peaks out the top of your shorts or panties if you stick it in them, then you'll experience some of the same embarrassment we might especially when wearing a bathing suit.
Speaking of which, I suppose guys who wear bikinis and have an erection prominently displayed running diagonally through the material have a big ego or at least a carefree attitude. Beats me.
I am enjoying this thread. Thanks for posting it.
Hey Doc, what I ment was going to the store and getting carrots, cucumbers and now hot dogs. I can't buy them for a month without laughing and turning red at the register. I have to go shopping tomorrow I'll let you know how I do just in the produce area.
I think most people want to be what they are not, even if it is for only 24 hours. I'm a brunette and short so even tall and blond some times intrigues me. To me anyways they are the girls guys notice first. Guys might feel that about the guy on the football team that scores the winning touchdown. From the stories I heard 29 + years ago that wasn't the only touchdown he scored that night??????
But it is funny, never liked back hair, now it's not so bad as long as it's trimmed up at the shoulders. It seems to clump up there for some reason. And yes the 60 year old, i'm 47 and he's just to dang cute, is bald. he keeps it neat and every winter he grows a beard, white looks like santa, kinda. and yes he has back hair, but it's funny it's more like he's furry than hairy.
There are alot of things about, boys, that I didn't like 30+ years ago but I think alot of it had to be that I shared a bathroom with two brothers. I'm the only girl. wet towels on the floor, briefs with hardly any waistbands (they were 5 years apart) and loved to give snuggies???? also on the floor and well this could go on all night, I'm sure I wasn't all that cool to them either.
Doc is correct in saying that is a very interesting thread. Chik, I did the football
thing for a long time and sometimes the stories you hear aren't always true...LOL
Egos get involved at times and then subsquently stories are inflated if you know
what I mean. I don't think that my tastes have necessarily changed as the years
have passed by but more like expanded I would say. No experience with the baldness,
back hair or gray thus far but if that is what you like that is simply what you like.
I suspect it's the person behind these characteristics that you are smitten with which
in the end is GOOD.
interestingly enough my english professor had that as a writing prompt one semester..."What would you do if you were the opposite sex for a day?". yeah, most people said that they would masterbate. i chose to skip that one. but i do wonder what it would be like sometimes.
as for having something dangling between our legs, like everyone else says, it goes unnoticed...accept when they get itchy. i've been in discussions about whether or not the testicles will evolve to function internally, just to eliminate the minor inconvinience. huh.
I stayed out of the veggies today and just got fruit, maybe I'll run up to the 24 hour store in the middle of the night. They also have self check outs.
I may need a week, as the guy I mean, I know I have a lot more questions. I have this picture, from an email, of three these little kids two boys and a girl I think they are running thru a sprinkler or something as the part of the pavement they are standing on looks like it may be wet 1st little boy is just standing there, the 2nd little boy (he's in the middle) has his suit below his knees and even thought the first little boy blocks your view you know he has his penis in his hand going potty onto the grass the 3rd child is just looking at that penis and you can tell she like what is that. Now the only reason you know it's a little girl is her bottoms are pink (no Top) and she has a little pony tail up off the top of her head.
Just shows ya we wonder first.
Well, goof'schik, most of the time it feels great having that thing between your legs, although there are times when it can get in the way. (But I can live with that!)
One thing that I think some women don't really understand about men is that we have a physical need to ejaculate from time to time. We are constantly producing semen, and if we don't release it from time to time it builds up, and the need for release becomes quite intense. I guess its hard to describe to a woman what it feels like. When we are having sex, or masturbating, there is a very pleasurable build up of sexual feeling, until we reach the point of no return where orgasm and ejaculation becomes inevitable. Ejaculation brings a release of tension, and is a deeply satisfying experience, especially whene the build-up has been quite intense.
> Ejaculation brings a release of tension, and is a deeply satisfying experience, especially when the build-up has been quite intense.
Now, this is the most profound and true statements I've seen in many months!
May I quote you when I reply to others when it appears that the guy believes that lots and lots of thrusting is the way to build an orgasm and not all the fooling around that should be focused on before?
so doc are you saying that when we women hear he wants to do it all night we should get the idea that it's the thrusting for the release he really wants?
or wait maybe it's thrust and then let go, it's that release that is the pleasure?
When you hear he wants to do it all night, you should assume he means breaks in between and lots of foreplay as well...
Though one time, after sex when we were both about to go to sleep, we got into the spooning position, and I went inside her then we went to sleep like that. It was quite nice.
no he wanted to thrust all night.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Chiky.
[QUOTE=cyclefreak;220769]Well, goof'schik, most of the time it feels great having that thing between your legs, although there are times when it can get in the way. (But I can live with that!)
One thing that I think some women don't really understand about men is that we have a physical need to ejaculate from time to time. We are constantly producing semen, and if we don't release it from time to time it builds up, and the need for release becomes quite intense. I guess its hard to describe to a woman what it feels like. When we are having sex, or masturbating, there is a very pleasurable build up of sexual feeling, until we reach the point of no return where orgasm and ejaculation becomes inevitable. Ejaculation brings a release of tension, and is a deeply satisfying experience, especially whene the build-up has been quite intense.[/QUOTE]
I don't see why that would be hard to understand as a woman. Sounds pretty much like an orgasm to me. Obviously the need to ejaculate isn't an issue, but the build up due to stimulation and then the release of tension doesn't sound much different to anything I'm used to. During stimulation, the need to 'finish' can become pretty intense too, and we may not feel as much of a 'need' away from sex, but even that happens.
But hey, maybe that's not the same for every woman. They do say women enjoy sex without orgasms, after all.. and tbh, I kinda think that's crap, so maybe I am a minority. Sure it can still feel nice, but it just isn't the same if you're left with an annoying twitch due to nothing happening, rather than the satisfaction of finishing the job. Just like a woman can stay excited for quite a time after, she can, for quite a time, feel like she just has to bloody finish already...
I keep telling you CL he's 60. ha ha ha. No he rarely has any issue on performance, and well chiky doesn't make a major issue of it and see's to his needs in a timely manner.. I do wish he did not have his commitment fears, but I knew what I was getting when I started and well maybe one day he'll GET OVER IT.
When I was in middle school, my mom told me that guys have to move their penis around along because it flops over to where it shouldn't be. 0_o