Ok, there was this girl, we both liked each other, traded looks, comments, you know the deal. When there is a school dance type thing, and we were all over each other, and now, when I talk to her, which hasnt been often since, it seems...weird. I really like this girl, and would definately like to make this a relationship, any hints/tips how to go about re-igniting what we may or may not have had, or if someone else has been in this situation, howd you take it to the next step. I usually dont have this problem, I guess its the fact that I know i like this girl, and dont want to screw it up. Thanks for any help.
Wed, 11/05/2003 - 03:52
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What Happened?
the notion that 'u dont want to screw it up' sums up how much you like her, but it could be interfering with wat is real and taking you away from your target. Be honest with yourself and be honest to her and tell her everything that you feel and if she feels different at least you had a go and had the balls to come out with your feelings. in the end she can take heed of ur feelings and continue with the relationship or lose wat might turn out to be something that is worthwhile, but at least you had a go. but dont just go up to her and say it out loud tomorrow, slowly get back in touch with her and re-affirm how much u like her.
hope this helps you...that's wat i would do anyhow
you've only got one life....go for it!! make sure your comfortable with your feelings for her as well, and make sure ur comfortable around her (pretty damn important)
Unsung, could simply be that the lady is a little embarrassed about what happened at the school dance. Talk to her and let her know that you like her and that you're sorry that you may have made her feel uncomfortable. See if you can start all over again.