Hi hi,
I recently starting seeing someone, he is really nice but i havn't told him i am a virgin, he has had a few sexual partners, i was wondering if guys are disappointed when they find out their g/f is a virgin? because they don't have 'experience'. or doesnt it really bother them?
also do guys prefer brazillian wax? or just 'maintaining' whats there hahahahaha. ;) i got a booking at the beautician later this week, i was just wondering.......
who u talking to?
thankfully i havnt been with the majority of guys otherwise i would b worried. but i do live up to my end of the bargain ;) lets just say nobody knows!!!! it personal preference. like tease said before it was changed
On second thought, some people aren't worth my time.
I will simple say that you that YOU haven't "been with the majority of guys" so you can't know either. Don't throw something in my face when you can't live up to it either.
fair enough most guys do, i like to be all waxed but it just annoyes me that men expect it n get so narky about when they don't do it themselves! so go sharde because we like to see a bit of effort to!
[QUOTE=Quote (Sharde @ Nov. 01 2005,22:50)]Maxim magazine was the last large scale poll I saw on this and the percentage of guys who liked a naturally bushy look on women was very, very small...[/QUOTE]
Well there you go....look at the kind of people who read Maxim...
Actually there is quite a bit of statistical info on this lately and it does show that the majority of guys do prefer some form of either trimming or completely shaven as a prference for their partners... Maxim magazine was the last large scale poll I saw on this and the percentage of guys who liked a naturally bushy look on women was very, very small...
I personally prefer the completely shaven look as well as it simply looks much cleaner, more feminine, and a great deal more sexy... As it does with all other female body hair grooming... And as a side note, I shave and trim as well...
[QUOTE=Quote (Rosie @ Nov. 01 2005,21:30)]hahahahahaahha then u guys trim to cause it def aint the most attractive look either ;)[/QUOTE]
Sorry to be stereotypically gay for a moment, but...
YOU GO, GIRL!
hahahahahaahha then u guys trim to cause it def aint the most attractive look either ;)
[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Oct. 31 2005,22:29)][QUOTE=Quote (selgae81 @ Oct. 28 2005,18:53)][QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Oct. 27 2005,14:16)]That may be your preference, but you can't say "most guys", because there are plenty of guys out there that don't mine hair down there at all. Some don't mind the "big bush", some like it trimmed, some like it with just a strip, and yes, some like it bald. It's all to each their own preference.[/QUOTE]
unless you r a guy, then you cant really have an idea about the way guys think. BEing a guy, i know that that is my preferance, and just about every guy I talked to as well. Yes, there are some who dont like it shaved, but I know the majority do.[/QUOTE]
That's right, I'm not a guy, so therefore, I don't think like a guy.
But you know what? I've had many a friend in my life that is a guy and lets just say most of our conversations aren't clean. I know that some like it clean and others like some form of hair. Again, it's all a personal preference.
So you know what? The "majority" of your friends may want it all clean shaven, but your friends are not the majority of the planet, so you can't tell me that "most guys" what it your way. Your way is not everyone's way. Remember that.[/QUOTE]
so you're telling me that most of your guy friends say they like hair?? I find that VERY hard to believe. And you may have had many friends, but you haven'
t been friends with the majority of guysk, so YOU can't know. And everything is relative. If i ask 10 guys if they like it shaved or hairy, and 8 say shaved, then that's only 2 for every 10 guys on the planet who don't. It's relative. So I would say yeah, most guy's like it shaved. IM not saying all, but most.
[QUOTE=Quote (Rosie @ Nov. 01 2005,01:08)]well sadly some guys r that shallow, i knew a guy that broke upwith his g/f because she was too 'bushy'......hmmmm tisk tisk. but then there is the difference between guys just wanting sex n guys that actually want a relationship...[/QUOTE]
Well, a guy likes what a guy likes. Yeah, its shallow. But a hairy bush is not the most attractive look. Is it so hard to trim it up a bit?
well sadly some guys r that shallow, i knew a guy that broke upwith his g/f because she was too 'bushy'......hmmmm tisk tisk. but then there is the difference between guys just wanting sex n guys that actually want a relationship...
I'm putting my vote in for "what difference does it make". You'd have to be really shallow to dislike a girl for something as trivial as whether or not she's clean shaven. There's an old saying, "It's more fun going to a picnic if you have to go through the bushes to get there."...
I also sincerely doubt that the majority of guys prefer it clean shaven...
[QUOTE=Quote (selgae81 @ Oct. 28 2005,18:53)][QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Oct. 27 2005,14:16)]That may be your preference, but you can't say "most guys", because there are plenty of guys out there that don't mine hair down there at all. Some don't mind the "big bush", some like it trimmed, some like it with just a strip, and yes, some like it bald. It's all to each their own preference.[/QUOTE]
unless you r a guy, then you cant really have an idea about the way guys think. BEing a guy, i know that that is my preferance, and just about every guy I talked to as well. Yes, there are some who dont like it shaved, but I know the majority do.[/QUOTE]
That's right, I'm not a guy, so therefore, I don't think like a guy.
But you know what? I've had many a friend in my life that is a guy and lets just say most of our conversations aren't clean. I know that some like it clean and others like some form of hair. Again, it's all a personal preference.
So you know what? The "majority" of your friends may want it all clean shaven, but your friends are not the majority of the planet, so you can't tell me that "most guys" what it your way. Your way is not everyone's way. Remember that.
Personally I would prefer both a virgin and Brazillian (landing strip) or Hollywood wax (completely smooth)... Although the Hollywood wax is my preference for both look and feel, and i simply find it to be a more sexy and feminine look as with any body shaving...
And being a person who is the commited type... I would prefer someone who is a virgin... Or has been around very little... To me it shows self control and knowing what you want... And that you are worth waiting for...
i didnt care when i found out my gf was a virgin
[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Oct. 27 2005,14:16)]That may be your preference, but you can't say "most guys", because there are plenty of guys out there that don't mine hair down there at all. Some don't mind the "big bush", some like it trimmed, some like it with just a strip, and yes, some like it bald. It's all to each their own preference.[/QUOTE]
unless you r a guy, then you cant really have an idea about the way guys think. BEing a guy, i know that that is my preferance, and just about every guy I talked to as well. Yes, there are some who dont like it shaved, but I know the majority do.
well i had it all waxed n for those who say it hurts like hell so untrue. yeh it hurt but it was nothing bad. now i have been buying all these nice knickers they so pretty. anyway... i ended it with the guy after finding out some awful truths. so i am gald i didn't sleep with him because i would feel like a real idiot...no offence to the nice guys on this site, but i have learnt, even though i am only 19, most guys around my age r jerks and sweet talkers! only interested in one thing! and it disappointing, anyway thats my winge.
That may be your preference, but you can't say "most guys", because there are plenty of guys out there that don't mine hair down there at all. Some don't mind the "big bush", some like it trimmed, some like it with just a strip, and yes, some like it bald. It's all to each their own preference.
as a guy, i really wouldn't mind if my girlfriend was a virgin. however, i would be a little hesitant than normal in having sex for the first time because i wouldn't know what her views are being a virgin. but if i knew she wanted to, it would be a great thing. even better actually.
as for shaving, i recommend it. most of us guys like the girl bald down there.for one, it doesn't look pretty, and two, that shit tastes nasty.
hmmmm "deflowering" thats an interesting context to put it in........ohhhh well now i even more worried that it is all about "deflowering", i've told him but his attitude hasn't changed too much in anyway so i don't think it is just to get into my pants.....
my guess as a guy..
He will stay happy
Dont be shy about it, just tell him. It will be better for both and for the sex.
About shaving, up to u, but for me 100% shaved sux..
My guy didn't mind. He was far from being a virgin but he was honored I chose him as my first. (Although somewhat shocked because he asked why I chose him.)
He's helped me through a lot and taught me a few things.
But I really think you should tell him, just in case you're wondering if you should or not. I don't think you're really want him to be somewhat rough with you your first time. It doesn't hurt for everyone, but it's better to be on the safe side of things.
As for waxing/shaving, read over some of the shaving topics throughout this forum. You will see that different people like different things. My guy likes it cleanly shaven, and so I keep it that way for him.
well im a virgin so iv never given oral though i realy want to.... but any way my feelings on the hair situation is basicly what ever the girl is comfertable with, now all natural is defenatly not plesant so you shold defanlt keep it short but if you dont want to be bald you dont have to.
First of all, virgin or not a virgin: I personally prefer a woman who isn't a virgin because they know what they are doing. I have had both virgins and none virgins and the virgins usually just lay there and cry and woman who have been in sexual relationships before know different positions and differnt tactits that will please a man more; however, I don't think any guy would turn down a girl simply because shes a virgin. If he genuinly likes you it shouldn't matter and he should feel honored to teach you the tricks of the trade.
Secondly, hair or no hair: I'm a guy and I disagree with the statement that most guys like it shaven. I personally don't care: clean shaven is nice because it looks nice and everything but having a bush or anything between emits something primitivly sexual that cannot be helped. I know many men that feel the same way as I do and like the first topic, if the guy really likes you it really shouldn't matter to him and if you two develope a sexual relationship together you should ask him what is preferance is.
I was very honored to be the first for my lady love.
okay, I just have to weigh in on this. Guys that I have met who feel strongly about a girl being clean shaven also tend to like tiny girls, flat girls. As a guy friend of mine put it, they like their girls to look like ten year old boys. Hair is the difference between a little girl and a woman and it eeks me out a little bit when a guy needs it to be clean shaven, it's like one step from pedophilia. I refuse to shave all of it (but I do keep it neatly trimmed and only a couple centimeters long) because I don't want to look like a little girl, and I know a LOT of guys who feel te same way.
As for the virgin question, 2 of my closest friends have the same policy, they will not have sex with a virgin. They have dated virgins but won't have sex with them unless they are REALLY committed (one says married) to them. Because they say girls get really attatched to their firsts and they don't want to hurt the girl by not returning the strong affections. I see it as a gentlemanly thing to do.