I'm going to have sex with my bf for the first time, in about a month, and was wondering what I should wear as in normal clothes not sexy lingerie since we'll be in normal clothes first.
He wanted to buy me lingerie but we couldn't figure out a way for me to wear it with my clothes on and he didn't wanna wait for me to change into it.
Ideas!
i would want clothes that i could easily take off.. the faster they are off, the better.
Try a skirt with a tank top or something similar... easy access.
I doubt it will make much difference what you wear.
What he wears will.
Large Band Shirt, if it's his it's better. Some normal panties, nothing special and a skirt.
for me...the best clothes is a little frumpled pile beside the bed!!:D
Wear a long skirt with thong panties(easy access for 4play, and a very sesy bra under a cleavage showing top. Also wear plenty of mascerra, eyeshadow, and put you hair up.
what u wear doesnt really matter! what matters is 2 take it off slowly!!
Tear off velcro clothes like basketball players wear when they're on the bench.
[QUOTE=ensekofti]what u wear doesnt really matter! what matters is 2 take it off slowly!![/QUOTE]
I agree, simple but sexy works wonders.
personally i like dresses just long enough 2 hide her pants, and her bosom.. its not something u can take off slowly (like a shirt) but i like it!!
black thong and bra with a soft paints ,and the rest is urs
[QUOTE=ensekofti;151006]personally i like dresses just long enough 2 hide her pants, and her bosom.. its not something u can take off slowly (like a shirt) but i like it!![/QUOTE]
I heard this described once this way: "It should be short enough to cover the subject and long enough to make it interesting."
Either way, point taken.
I like to see thong panties and a lacy type bra under her clothes. Something low cut to show some cleavage and a semi-transparent blouse. Then some real short shorts or a skirt. The skirt works nice to flash him your panties like when you climb into the car and let the skirt climb and leave you legs slightly open as you swing your legs in. It is also nice to tease him with a quick flash of your ass with the thong on. Or just skip the panties and go without so when you flash, he gets to see that sweet area. The thing I like to see is when I remove the panties to see a nice shaved and trimmed area. I love it totally bare but my wife like to leave a small patch which she keeps trimmed which is the next best thing. This may be too much for a first time though.
Doesn't really matter what you wear. Strip tease! (Well, things easy to get off). Or have him undress you! Slowly, gently, all that jazz.
i was never into lingerie when i was younger (and quite frankly now in in my mid-twenties (gulp , slowly approaching 30 lol... nothing wrong with thirty, just i mean i dunno lol)... anyway... like others have been saying i think regular simple but nice clothes will be just fine for a first time.... it can be ackward enough for a multitude of other reasons (not implying it will be ackward, but i mean its a first time, why worry about lingerie, start with the basics ya know)... thats my opinion anyway
my bf bought me lingerie for my 18th bday and i made him return it to the store lol (i dunno see its something we hadnt discussed and it took me off guard i guess... oh man almost ten years later and what i wouldnt do to be able to fit into that again hehe)
if ure gonna go for lingerie, maybe find something u both will like, try to involve him in the process, or just surprise the hell outta him hehe
i dunno bout you, but i was embarrassed to shop for that kind of stuff when i was younger... and dont own a whole lot today actually,
i think ill start a new topic on lingerie cuz i dont use any but wonder what guys think about it...but thats not the topic here... best of luck to you