he means orgasm. it seems he is not to well up on things either as he should know that intercourse alone is not always enough to make a woman cum or orgasm. some women when they orgsm ejaculate a transparent fluid. bear in mind that not all women can orgasm.

> my bf said how many times did he make me cum?? what does he mean by that, and if I release it?

I do not know what he means by "release it"; you will have to ask him. If he is referring to ejaculating, then he has to understand that very few women do this and then not all the time. So, for the most part it unimportant.

Men and women are often capable of having more than one orgasm in a row. Guys can usually have a total of three (maybe more if a young teen), spread out over perhaps an hour. Women can often have many many more, often within a minute or so of the previous one. I believe it is about this information that he is seeking an answer.

The female orgasm is much more internalized than those of men. More often than not a woman's orgasm is undetectable by us guys. Because it is, this causes guys to often ask the question "did you cum yet"? Personally, I think having to ask the question ruins the moment and is completely unnecessary. Feedback is all that is required in order to quietly and unobtrusively convey the information. An expression like "whew", "WHEW", "wow", etc., or a non-verbal indication like a squeeze of the hand or some other form of body language that the two of you work out to convey this information. Providing the feedback coveys much more than "I had an orgasm"; it also conveys pleasure, satisfaction, happiness, and contentment, to name just a few.

Not everyone can achieve multiple orgasms; however, having and enjoying them is very common. It is important to know that we do not give orgasms away; each of us is responsible for our own. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help our partner have his/hers. If we provide our partner with the feedback that informs him/her that we have just climaxed, then you can begin laying the foundation for the second or third or fourth, etc., in a row.

There is a refractory (recovery) period between any two that is different for men and women. Men take between ten and twenty minutes, give or take, before being able to have another orgasm. Women, on the other hand, can have many more and often within minutes of the previous. So, if you want to try for more, just inform him of the previous, relax for a moment and let your body recover, then try for the next one in the series. How you space yours and his out is up to the two of you and your ongoing lovemaking.

I hope this is of help.

ah you came at last doc (no not in that sense hehe)