i dont really have a thing that my gf could do to turn me on. i get turned on by turning her on, because i enjoy making her happy. but.
(none of these things was done in the nude, certain variables restrict that.)
i enjoy it when i message my girlfriend's back, neck, and feet.
i enjoy fondling her breasts (of course, in the privacy of my room)
i also enjoy it when she moans while i fondle them. when she moans it tells me im doing the right thing, and it turns me on because her moan is really uh...hot.
and finally...i enjoy just being with her.
maybe im the only one, but i just like making her feel good.
oh, and im not sure about the kissing part. my girlfriend never has the chance to kiss me anywhere "special"
Just as some pleasure spots to try out, as in kissing, licking and blowing on, the ears and neck are pretty big spots for me, so you might try them out on him.
Champloo also made a good point in his last post. I also get a good deal of my pleasure from pleasuring my girlfriend. I do quite a bit, and don't expect much in return.
The last thing i want to say in my brief post is that only he can tell you what he wants. He could want a blowjob but is afraid to ask. he could want absolutely nothing, the sex being enough to satisfy him. The best thing to do is ask him. It's not embarrassing or silly, it's practical. Mind reading is a rare ability, and i'm willing to bet none or hardly any of us on here can do it. So the next best thing besides direct mental communication is verbal communication. If you're worried about how to phrase it, say something like this: "Is there anything I can do for you now?"
if there's something he's been wanting but is afraid to ask, this might be a welcome relief to him to hear that. trust me, i've been in similar situations where that question gave me the ability to request something i wouldn't do without that question. I have to know she's willing to do something for me before I request it of her.
First of all everyone is diffrent so no one can really give you the end all answer for your question.
My biggest hot spot is my neck, my partner knows this (because I told her) so to turn me on she will kiss/lick/suck/nibble my neck.
The most common hot spots for men appear to be the neck and ears (at least from my gathering).
I don't see why you can't just ask him. After all didn't you have to tell him you wanted a massage?
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i dont really have a thing that my gf could do to turn me on. i get turned on by turning her on, because i enjoy making her happy. but.
(none of these things was done in the nude, certain variables restrict that.)
i enjoy it when i message my girlfriend's back, neck, and feet.
i enjoy fondling her breasts (of course, in the privacy of my room)
i also enjoy it when she moans while i fondle them. when she moans it tells me im doing the right thing, and it turns me on because her moan is really uh...hot.
and finally...i enjoy just being with her.
maybe im the only one, but i just like making her feel good.
oh, and im not sure about the kissing part. my girlfriend never has the chance to kiss me anywhere "special"
Just as some pleasure spots to try out, as in kissing, licking and blowing on, the ears and neck are pretty big spots for me, so you might try them out on him.
Champloo also made a good point in his last post. I also get a good deal of my pleasure from pleasuring my girlfriend. I do quite a bit, and don't expect much in return.
The last thing i want to say in my brief post is that only he can tell you what he wants. He could want a blowjob but is afraid to ask. he could want absolutely nothing, the sex being enough to satisfy him. The best thing to do is ask him. It's not embarrassing or silly, it's practical. Mind reading is a rare ability, and i'm willing to bet none or hardly any of us on here can do it. So the next best thing besides direct mental communication is verbal communication. If you're worried about how to phrase it, say something like this: "Is there anything I can do for you now?"
if there's something he's been wanting but is afraid to ask, this might be a welcome relief to him to hear that. trust me, i've been in similar situations where that question gave me the ability to request something i wouldn't do without that question. I have to know she's willing to do something for me before I request it of her.
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