No one knows...

See here: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?_r=1&pagewant...

Of course, women are wired differently, but jeez, those results are positively odd to me as a man. Ah well, Vive la difference! I'll still be interested all the same. I'll just be less shy about the kink. :D