Dear ladies of pleasure, I (male) recently had the enormous pleasure of taking my girlfriend to the upper strata of cunning heaven. I really like a little outro massage around the gland in the tail off moments after I cum, so... I was just wondering what kind of after care is just so lovely after a female orgasm?
Mon, 08/18/2003 - 22:16
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What to do when you've reached the moon?
just laying close together.
i myself dont really want anymore sexual touches on the breasts or downstairs.
Just laying there.....in each others arms and no more touching on sesative parts cuz you get all ansy. Well.....yeah
Sounds about right. I myself experienced what I can only describe as an emotional orgasm after she came back to our earthly environs. I was quite tired and she just lay on top of me, gently carressing me. Maybe that's what the Karma Sutra gurus refer to as a male (multiple) orgasm, without actually cumming?!
Back to my lady friend... and what are the prospects for starting up again for round 2, 3 etc. ? Is there a sort of golden window, in which one either strikes out for the count, gets on with the practicalities of the day or can actually go back down for another dive?
I can go for a little while after I cum, prob about 20 mins. After that don't touch me at all.... sorry
I need to just relax and lay there for a while. After about 30 mins I would be able to go again, but for that 30 mins just let me get my energy back.
I love laying against him with my head on his chest and his arm around me. after having an orgasm, for me, there is nothing better then just being with him, listening to his heart beat, having him hold me... ok, I am done being mushy...
I go a little insane when I have really intense orgasms from sex. It's unbelievably emotional and leaves me feeling incredibly vulnerable. To me the "snuggling" afterwards isn't just a sentimental preference, it's a real need, and if a guy just wants to roll over and go to sleep, I know our relationship isn't going to last.