This is going to sound a little...strange, but I had sex one time and I felt like I had no idea what I was doing. I'm a girl, and as far as my movement while being on the bottom- I think I was a little out of control..I don't want to lay there like a corpse, but I don't want to make things weird again. Any help?
Tue, 11/06/2007 - 02:12
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What do I do in bed?
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> I felt like I had no idea what I was doing. I'm a girl, and as far as my movement while being on the bottom- I think I was a little out of control..I don't want to lay there like a corpse, but I don't want to make things weird again. Any help?
Try matching his stroking by raising your bottom or elevating your hips.
You may feel more comfortable with a pillow under you. Give it a try, pro or con.
Finger one or both nipples. If you know which one is more reactive, then concentrate on that one.
Caress his chest, back, buttocks.
Hold and steady his scrotum to keep it from bouncing.
Kneed it
Scratch it
Fondle one or both testicles
If you need some clitoral stimulation, finger yourself. (When in another position that frees his hand(s) encourage him to finger you.)
These should get you started.
Most women feel the same way until they learn a little about what is happening. Masturbation teaches you what your body is wanting to do and playing with him and watching the response teaches you what his body is doing. Practice. Most young men will be happy to be training aids!
Usually when I am having sex with my girlfriend, I will be doing pretty much most of the work and then she starts to move her hips towards me as I move mines towards her which is good, she wraps her legs around me sometimes which is another good thing, just dont lie there without moving the whole time, kiss during sex as well.
I used to feel the same. As BBoy01 said, moving the hips up to meet his when his come down is a good way. I usually wrap my legs around his waist which also allows him to get deeper and it feels better.
Kissing, is always good, but if no kissing, then nuzzle into his neck, this also allows him to hear your breathing etc... and it apparently is a really big turn on for the guys.
I generally don't touch the testicles during intercourse because it is awkward to have your hands down there when he his on top, but if you manage to do it and he likes it then carry on.
My boyfriend also likes me 'pulling him in', use your hands and pull on his back to try and get him a close to you as possible.
Also, ask him what he would like you to do, as others have said don't lay as a corpse, but little is sometimes more in these situations =)
And most of all, relax and enjoy yourself!
As LoveGems said, guys, well I do anyway, find it a turn on when I hear my girlfriends heavy breathing and when she tightens her grip on my back during sex.
Do what feels normal...nothing like screwing a corpse...the more you have fun the more he will be turned on; let it roll! Do what feels natural and uninhibited!
I echo the breathing comment and also the tightening of the grip, i think it's an ego thing, reassures the inexperienced little boy that something must be going right!
[COLOR="Navy">[FONT="Book Antiqua">[SIZE="3">Ew no!
Don't rely on pornos to show you what you're "supposed to do" because they're so fake!
Pornography features actors playing out staged scenes. That is in no way good sex and I am sure that your partner would rather you find out what you like and are comfortable doing rather than having you plaster on some fake "sexy" look and make fake noises.
Honest and genuine sex is so much better when you're open with your partner about the fact that you're trying to make it more enjoyable for both of you. And experimentation's fun! Try out some of the Doc and Brandye's suggestions. They both know their stuff and offered some good starting points. [/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]
Good luck and happy humping!
Caress him back! Reciprocating during sex is one of the desires I hear from men all of the time. Nuzzle, lick, kiss, bite, touch, fondle, stroke - whatever - just touch him back whereever you can reach. Do not be hesitant to explore his body.
yayay..
Ask for his opinion about your perfume, take him to get closer to you. praise him on his hair, lips, etc.
Or can ask him to scratch your back, then get to the buttocks. hey, sometimes a girl need to be more agressive.