Oh yeah I hear ya mmparks, I got a 32 yr old like that.. damn thing can go off without little warning..funny little story
we got a nice hotel room at christmas, right in the middle of it he says stop for a min..ya know so he can last longer, wellllllllllll lets just say he was at the point of no return...lol errr umm lets just say the cleaning ladies will be puzzled at how it ended up in some places ... we couldn't stop laughing.. we did clean up as much as we could find but ya know were not CSI and don't have the proper equipment for finding seminal fluid...LOLLLLLLL
sometimes the warnings are there but were just so involved with what were doing we might just miss them...
Some of the responses puzzle me. When dealing with younger men, as I remember, that thing could go off at any time. I have been surprised but usually the signs are clear. When giving head, I always press on the rear of the scrotum or keep a thumb lightly on the base of the penis. If you miss all the other signs, you can feel the ejaculate and do whatever. I press the back of my tongue against the roof of my mouth to protect the gag reflex. Usually works.
I respect your wanting to warn her and saying that you are close would be appreciated by any woman. It does not take much experience to observe the change in tension in the body, the engorgement of the glans penis and the change in color of the glans just before ejaculation.
Thanks for being considerate. Girls, always be ready to be surprised. We have all had a hadful of what we wanted elsewhere. But it only takes a few minutes to reload.
Yeah thats a great thread! ANd Id also like to point out that even if she doesnt want to swallow or take it in her mouth.. doesnt mean anything negative. Just personal preference.
I like it when he says Im cumming or here I cum.. if you get suprised with a load.. sometimes it isnt pleasant
I agree with buttercup... just say omg im gonna cum.. then she will be warned and then she can decide what to do..either take it in her mouth, or on her.. there is nothing worse than giving ur hunny a blow job and ur sucking and licking and getting into it..then all of a sudden ur being drowned by cum shooting down ur throat when ur not expecting it.. and sometimes when it hits the gag reflex, wellllllllllllll that might not be to pretty..lol
also coming from a girl, don't get all upset if she dosen't swallow the first time.. it takes getting use to, i remember the first time i gave a blow job i wasn't too keen on swallowing anything that moved and looked like tadpoles it made me want to gag..
oh yeah and if its a handjob, and u tell her your about to cum and she dosen't look like she is gonna put her mouth on it..make sure its pointed away from your face ..I hear it stings if ya get it in your eyes
I would let her know, its not nice to just blow your load and assume she wants it in her mouth, etc.
Just say, I'm about to cum. That way she is forewarned lol.
Shoot.... Im dealing with a 34 yr old and that thing can go off at any time and can go 3 or 4 times in a short period of time. Ive gotten suprised several times by him and we've been together for a very long time. Either he gives little warning physically, or Im just plain not paying attention!
Oh yeah I hear ya mmparks, I got a 32 yr old like that.. damn thing can go off without little warning..funny little story
... we couldn't stop laughing.. we did clean up as much as we could find but ya know were not CSI and don't have the proper equipment for finding seminal fluid...LOLLLLLLL
we got a nice hotel room at christmas, right in the middle of it he says stop for a min..ya know so he can last longer, wellllllllllll lets just say he was at the point of no return...lol errr umm lets just say the cleaning ladies will be puzzled at how it ended up in some places
sometimes the warnings are there but were just so involved with what were doing we might just miss them...
Some of the responses puzzle me. When dealing with younger men, as I remember, that thing could go off at any time. I have been surprised but usually the signs are clear. When giving head, I always press on the rear of the scrotum or keep a thumb lightly on the base of the penis. If you miss all the other signs, you can feel the ejaculate and do whatever. I press the back of my tongue against the roof of my mouth to protect the gag reflex. Usually works.
I respect your wanting to warn her and saying that you are close would be appreciated by any woman. It does not take much experience to observe the change in tension in the body, the engorgement of the glans penis and the change in color of the glans just before ejaculation.
Thanks for being considerate. Girls, always be ready to be surprised. We have all had a hadful of what we wanted elsewhere. But it only takes a few minutes to reload.
HAHAHAHA!! You guys got me chuckling
Yeah thats a great thread! ANd Id also like to point out that even if she doesnt want to swallow or take it in her mouth.. doesnt mean anything negative. Just personal preference.
I like it when he says Im cumming or here I cum.. if you get suprised with a load.. sometimes it isnt pleasant
You could always just ask her next time..
There is a big thread on this subject
Cumming on her 101
tons of opinions from men and women!
I agree with buttercup... just say omg im gonna cum.. then she will be warned and then she can decide what to do..either take it in her mouth, or on her.. there is nothing worse than giving ur hunny a blow job and ur sucking and licking and getting into it..then all of a sudden ur being drowned by cum shooting down ur throat when ur not expecting it.. and sometimes when it hits the gag reflex, wellllllllllllll that might not be to pretty..lol
also coming from a girl, don't get all upset if she dosen't swallow the first time.. it takes getting use to, i remember the first time i gave a blow job i wasn't too keen on swallowing anything that moved and looked like tadpoles
it made me want to gag..
oh yeah and if its a handjob, and u tell her your about to cum and she dosen't look like she is gonna put her mouth on it..make sure its pointed away from your face ..I hear it stings if ya get it in your eyes
I would let her know, its not nice to just blow your load and assume she wants it in her mouth, etc.
Just say, I'm about to cum. That way she is forewarned lol.
Shoot.... Im dealing with a 34 yr old and that thing can go off at any time and can go 3 or 4 times in a short period of time.
Ive gotten suprised several times by him and we've been together for a very long time. Either he gives little warning physically, or Im just plain not paying attention! 