Yea thats pretty normal. Thats what I had when I was in middle school. Well if you aggressive and hard stuff you may want to do cowgirl and doggy style positions because you get a lot of force and intensity with those. Just go with that you're comfortable with ans what you enjoy and just have fun
Just don't be like that one story on here of the kids having sex in class :rolleyes:
You won't know EVERYTHING when you start... you can't really make a schedule of what's first then second... you just go w/ the flow.. and see where it takes you.
Keep communication open... say what feels good and what doesn't. You'll never learn to be a good lover if you don't listen and learn from experiences.
Id never do anything liek that ibn class. Its just hes really getting egarr to to do it, and im just nervous, I need tips. and he is a virgin, but he has stuff like "make out sex" and ive givin a hj in class b4, so he knows wut he wants, and hes gunna b hard to please.
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183499]Id never do anything liek that ibn class. Its just hes really getting egarr to to do it, and im just nervous, I need tips. and he is a virgin, but he has stuff like "make out sex" and ive givin a hj in class b4, so he knows wut he wants, and hes gunna b hard to please.[/quote]
It will be good for him, worry about you. Women are harder to please. Read the one by doc. about the art of humping...I put the link up for you...that will work.
Since you're a virgin and he is too, you should understand each other's skill level pretty well. Just make sure this is the person you want to have your first time with.
if it's your first time, you might want to read the new to sex forum. some good stuff there.
personally, i like about 10-15 minutes of foreplay on average. sometimes i like to dive right in, others we really take our time to enjoy each other. then we usually do a bit of oral on each other and start having sex.
for first time, here's my advice. first, make sure you're in a place that's both comfortable and private. your room with no one else in the house works great. take foreplay long and slow. by the time you actually go to have sex, you should have put your hands on every inch of each other's bodies. when you do it, it might be uncomfortable, even painful the first few times, so take it slow and easy. if he's a virgin too, it'll be a real bonding experience, and it's the emotions you'll remember, not the physical experience, so take your time
i hope your not rushing into anything mind? by the sounds of it your bothe really young, before even thinking of havong sex think of the important things like, are you both serious about each other enough to want to get dragged into a very adult relationship?, are you well protected?, and are you willing to be able to deal with the conciquenses if anything goes wrong?, i mean i cant really say much i was about your age when i lost my virginity, but you dont want to regret it like i did believe me so you really have to think about it. also you need to make sure your not being presured into anything and it is something you really want to do, it sounds to me like it might just be something he wants, also you really need to think about the maturity of your boyfriend, some guys at a young age really cant cope well with being thrown into and adult environment and if anything goes wrong they do horrible things like make things uo about you to his friends and make your life a living hell.
i think you really should think about things carefully.
[quote=lustforlove;183708]i hope your not rushing into anything mind? by the sounds of it your bothe really young, before even thinking of havong sex think of the important things like, are you both serious about each other enough to want to get dragged into a very adult relationship?,[/quote]
Yes, about 12. They began "dating" at 10, Demon & I asked this last night....emphasizing Birth Control!
First of all. Birth control. You absolutely need condoms and whatever else you can get your hands on. Don't and I repeat DON'T take any risks!! Especially at that age. If you guys aren't "old enough" to use contraceptives then don't have sex.
Ok, now that that's over with.
Personally, I like blow jobs. They feel great and it's fun for foreplay. But when it comes down to it actual sex is the best way to go.
Someone said it before, but you really won't have to worry about pleasing him. Especially because he's a virgin. Worry about yourself, and just don't be suprised if it hurts a little.
please. ppl! :]
In order...
Sex itself
Blow Jobs
An aggressive makeout session
Handjobs
Being kissed all over
thanks.
anyone have tips on how to preform them better?
My bf really likes agressive and "hard" stuff.
And he is 13 and his penis is 5 and a half inchs.
Is that normal?
Yea thats pretty normal. Thats what I had when I was in middle school. Well if you aggressive and hard stuff you may want to do cowgirl and doggy style positions because you get a lot of force and intensity with those. Just go with that you're comfortable with ans what you enjoy and just have fun
Start w/ ALL of the stickies under the New to sex forum
One Stop Shopping
He also gets very honry, when he wants it, he wants it. If you know wut i mean,
Like somtimes weel b sitting in class and he start rubbing my vagina through my pants.
should i just tell him if hes going to hard or doing to much when we have sex?
Just don't be like that one story on here of the kids having sex in class :rolleyes:
You won't know EVERYTHING when you start... you can't really make a schedule of what's first then second... you just go w/ the flow.. and see where it takes you.
Keep communication open... say what feels good and what doesn't. You'll never learn to be a good lover if you don't listen and learn from experiences.
Id never do anything liek that ibn class. Its just hes really getting egarr to to do it, and im just nervous, I need tips. and he is a virgin, but he has stuff like "make out sex" and ive givin a hj in class b4, so he knows wut he wants, and hes gunna b hard to please.
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183499]Id never do anything liek that ibn class. Its just hes really getting egarr to to do it, and im just nervous, I need tips. and he is a virgin, but he has stuff like "make out sex" and ive givin a hj in class b4, so he knows wut he wants, and hes gunna b hard to please.[/quote]
He will be easy to please, trust me.
Well Anyone have any tips just to mke it that much better for him?
Are you reading any of the threads that we are directing you too???
Under the new to sex forum... there are all the stickies.. one stop shopping
It will be good for him, worry about you. Women are harder to please. Read the one by doc. about the art of humping...I put the link up for you...that will work.
:] alrite
thanks
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183542]:] alrite
thanks[/quote]
Welcome! Also, being confident in what you are doing is a common turn on for men!
Since you're a virgin and he is too, you should understand each other's skill level pretty well. Just make sure this is the person you want to have your first time with.
if it's your first time, you might want to read the new to sex forum. some good stuff there.
personally, i like about 10-15 minutes of foreplay on average. sometimes i like to dive right in, others we really take our time to enjoy each other. then we usually do a bit of oral on each other and start having sex.
for first time, here's my advice. first, make sure you're in a place that's both comfortable and private. your room with no one else in the house works great. take foreplay long and slow. by the time you actually go to have sex, you should have put your hands on every inch of each other's bodies. when you do it, it might be uncomfortable, even painful the first few times, so take it slow and easy. if he's a virgin too, it'll be a real bonding experience, and it's the emotions you'll remember, not the physical experience, so take your time
thanks so much..the last two post helped a lot. anyone else?
and to me it sounds a bit like you are doing it for him, make sure it's for yourself as well and that you are sure you want it too
i hope your not rushing into anything mind? by the sounds of it your bothe really young, before even thinking of havong sex think of the important things like, are you both serious about each other enough to want to get dragged into a very adult relationship?, are you well protected?, and are you willing to be able to deal with the conciquenses if anything goes wrong?, i mean i cant really say much i was about your age when i lost my virginity, but you dont want to regret it like i did believe me so you really have to think about it. also you need to make sure your not being presured into anything and it is something you really want to do, it sounds to me like it might just be something he wants, also you really need to think about the maturity of your boyfriend, some guys at a young age really cant cope well with being thrown into and adult environment and if anything goes wrong they do horrible things like make things uo about you to his friends and make your life a living hell.
i think you really should think about things carefully.
[quote=lustforlove;183708]i hope your not rushing into anything mind? by the sounds of it your bothe really young, before even thinking of havong sex think of the important things like, are you both serious about each other enough to want to get dragged into a very adult relationship?,[/quote]
Yes, about 12. They began "dating" at 10, Demon & I asked this last night....emphasizing Birth Control!
Yeah here is the other thread
if anyone has more tips or can tell me wut guys like the most, reply and ill check often :)
First of all. Birth control. You absolutely need condoms and whatever else you can get your hands on. Don't and I repeat DON'T take any risks!! Especially at that age. If you guys aren't "old enough" to use contraceptives then don't have sex.
Ok, now that that's over with.
Personally, I like blow jobs. They feel great and it's fun for foreplay. But when it comes down to it actual sex is the best way to go.
Someone said it before, but you really won't have to worry about pleasing him. Especially because he's a virgin. Worry about yourself, and just don't be suprised if it hurts a little.