I never had sex but now after 5 yrs of my relation with my gf I want her to be more close... Whenever I used to come down and try to fingerd she feel dizzy and say to stop but prior she never stops me to come down to fingered it? What I should to move further..
Sat, 04/24/2010 - 07:50
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what to do ,any suggestion...
If i understand you correctly, she allowed you to stimulate her before but now tells you that she gets very dizzy when you try?
Right , any suggestion
id talk to her about it, it could be a medical issue, but it could also be a hint, she might not be into you anymore, but don't just take my word for it, talk to her communication is the holy grail in relationships.
Talk to her. Before you move any further talk to her. Please. Talk to her. Ask her why she feels dizzy (which can be easily alleviated by having her lie down) but do not go any further.
Talk to her, let her feel and express her comfort to you first before you continue...tell her what you want to do, and if she has any problems then DO NOT FORCE HER.
Make her feel wanted, needed...and treasured.
5 years!? It's definitely time to be more closer...
No, after 5 years it is "get married or get gone". Jeez.
Try this scenario on for size: she used to permit it because she thought it might move him along the path to commitment. Now that she sees it hasn't worked, she's preparing to cut her losses and replace him so now she's taking away those priviledges she had previously granted to him.
Dude - you waited too long.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;254870]No, after 5 years it is "get married or get gone". Jeez.
Try this scenario on for size: she used to permit it because she thought it might move him along the path to commitment. Now that she sees it hasn't worked, she's preparing to cut her losses and replace him so now she's taking away those priviledges she had previously granted to him.
Dude - you waited too long.[/QUOTE]
O, I get it :)
thanx EvilEvilKitten, sometimes I'm little "slow" :)