[QUOTE=stefanijerkface;217347]give him the best bj ever??
hes told me im the best and i please him enuff.
but what can i do to totally blow his mind??[/QUOTE]
Just make him feel like a god, like he is the most special man on earth, work on his mind not his body, tie him up, use blind folds, but remember to work on his mind, just DO NOT OVER ACT, most men hate a woman acting like a bad porn actress, just go with the flow and be sexy with him.
Frequently, and depending upon the nature of a poster's question, Doc recommends the person read Chapter Three, first, and Chapter One, second.
(Scroll down to read each chapter along with readers' comments)
Begin practicing what you have learned from these articles and do not be afraid of making mistakes. He has already told you that you are doing a great job -- believe him. Now, to up the ante' and do better requires teamwork. Yes; making love is a partnership, it is not what one person does to the other, it is what we do with and for each other. Explore and learn together. As part of this, providing feedback to each other on how you are responding to each other's caresses is key. Feedback can be verbal or non-verbal.
Understand that there are two pathways to Nirvana. Think of these routes as a letter "Y" in which you progress up the trunk and then have one of two branches to take. One branch (using the same stimulation that he uses when masturbating) will take him to one level of pleasure and satisfaction. The other branch that includes oral stimulation in addition usually transports a guy to a much higher level of arousal and pleasure. The route is not what he has come to rely upon to reach and then trigger an orgasm so do not expect that he will always achieve an orgasm from this "dynamic duo" of hand and oral stimulation. That said, you can always drive him wild with pleasure, desire, anticipation, expectation, and wanting more and more until he cannot stand it any more.
When this point is reached and if he has not yet climaxed, the fix is to pause, and let him slide back down his arousal curve to a point somewhat below the plateau stage and then switch to the other branch using a hand job (along with oral) that mimics his method of stroking.
To pleasure him to the hilt, try these things:
* Begin with a great make out session that includes plenty of Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting, and then Foreplay that also includes all of the former. Your intent is to arouse his ardor and bring him to the near brink of an orgasm, yet stopping short once or twice.
* Tease him using oral stimulation and later combine this with a hand job, as described, above.
* You can take him directly to the point of no return and his climax, or, you can pause a couple of times before continuing
* Good oral technique is important. Wrap your lips over your teeth and let his penis slip and slide between moist lips. NEVER permit your teeth to scrape the skin of his penis
Deftly use your tongue to lick and flick
Apply pressure by sucking
* Learn to mimic how he strokes his penis by asking him to show you how he masturbates, and then to take your hand and guide your movements over the course of several sessions until you learn his method. This is where giving you feedback is critically important. When a person masturbates, s/he benefits from internal feedback that lets us modulate rhythm, pressure, and, stroking. This is missing when we turn the reins over to our partner
* Learn where his hot spots are. Typically one or more are randomly distributed around the Corona Rim. The A#1 hot spot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft). Incorporate these in the mix of what you do and take your cues for what to do next from his reactions
* Ask him what he likes and would like more of and when.
* Do not rush your pleasuring unless your intent is to give him a Quickie. Take your time and draw out your play until he begs for a conclusion
* If you want to conclude with intercourse, do not begin unless and until he is on the ragged edge of maintaining control. If your intent is to let him climax from your oral and hand jobs, then don't let him know when the end is about to happen. Surprise him; although, do not drag the teasing out too long or he will likely become frustrated and mad. Do not go over the line.
After putting all these things into play, please get back to us and tell us how it went. Enjoy.
there's a thread on this:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-him/10856-blow-job-techniques-101-a.html
have you checked the index?
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/index-sexinfo101-board-topics/22777-begin-here-w-partial-index-sex-info-101-sex-ed-topics.html
:rolleyes:
[QUOTE=stefanijerkface;217347]give him the best bj ever??
hes told me im the best and i please him enuff.
but what can i do to totally blow his mind??[/QUOTE]
Just make him feel like a god, like he is the most special man on earth, work on his mind not his body, tie him up, use blind folds, but remember to work on his mind, just DO NOT OVER ACT, most men hate a woman acting like a bad porn actress, just go with the flow and be sexy with him.
This is a very good question. Please begin by reading the following articles:
The Program
Your guide to wild rampant skin-on-skin full-body-contact sex.
Body Worship How-To by EEK
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
Chapter Three:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Making Out, FIRST
Frequently, and depending upon the nature of a poster's question, Doc recommends the person read Chapter Three, first, and Chapter One, second.
(Scroll down to read each chapter along with readers' comments)
Begin practicing what you have learned from these articles and do not be afraid of making mistakes. He has already told you that you are doing a great job -- believe him. Now, to up the ante' and do better requires teamwork. Yes; making love is a partnership, it is not what one person does to the other, it is what we do with and for each other. Explore and learn together. As part of this, providing feedback to each other on how you are responding to each other's caresses is key. Feedback can be verbal or non-verbal.
Understand that there are two pathways to Nirvana. Think of these routes as a letter "Y" in which you progress up the trunk and then have one of two branches to take. One branch (using the same stimulation that he uses when masturbating) will take him to one level of pleasure and satisfaction. The other branch that includes oral stimulation in addition usually transports a guy to a much higher level of arousal and pleasure. The route is not what he has come to rely upon to reach and then trigger an orgasm so do not expect that he will always achieve an orgasm from this "dynamic duo" of hand and oral stimulation. That said, you can always drive him wild with pleasure, desire, anticipation, expectation, and wanting more and more until he cannot stand it any more.
When this point is reached and if he has not yet climaxed, the fix is to pause, and let him slide back down his arousal curve to a point somewhat below the plateau stage and then switch to the other branch using a hand job (along with oral) that mimics his method of stroking.
To pleasure him to the hilt, try these things:
* Begin with a great make out session that includes plenty of Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting, and then Foreplay that also includes all of the former. Your intent is to arouse his ardor and bring him to the near brink of an orgasm, yet stopping short once or twice.
* Tease him using oral stimulation and later combine this with a hand job, as described, above.
* You can take him directly to the point of no return and his climax, or, you can pause a couple of times before continuing
* Good oral technique is important. Wrap your lips over your teeth and let his penis slip and slide between moist lips. NEVER permit your teeth to scrape the skin of his penis
Deftly use your tongue to lick and flick
Apply pressure by sucking
* Learn to mimic how he strokes his penis by asking him to show you how he masturbates, and then to take your hand and guide your movements over the course of several sessions until you learn his method. This is where giving you feedback is critically important. When a person masturbates, s/he benefits from internal feedback that lets us modulate rhythm, pressure, and, stroking. This is missing when we turn the reins over to our partner
* Learn where his hot spots are. Typically one or more are randomly distributed around the Corona Rim. The A#1 hot spot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft). Incorporate these in the mix of what you do and take your cues for what to do next from his reactions
* Ask him what he likes and would like more of and when.
* Do not rush your pleasuring unless your intent is to give him a Quickie. Take your time and draw out your play until he begs for a conclusion
* If you want to conclude with intercourse, do not begin unless and until he is on the ragged edge of maintaining control. If your intent is to let him climax from your oral and hand jobs, then don't let him know when the end is about to happen. Surprise him; although, do not drag the teasing out too long or he will likely become frustrated and mad. Do not go over the line.
After putting all these things into play, please get back to us and tell us how it went. Enjoy.