Well, anything can be foreplay really. Foreplay is just something sexual that you do that isn't sex. I don't know how basic of an answer you want, but here are some common types of foreplay:
kissing
making out/necking (kissing + caressing)
kissing her/his neck, chest, body
sucking or nibbling his/her ears
caressing/touching each other
sucking her/his nipples
oral sex (licking, sucking, tonguing, etc.)
manual stimulation (touching, rubbing, stroking, etc. each others genitals)
rim jobs (basically oral sex on the anus)
anal play (fingering, touching, exploring the "back door")
sensual massage
There are innumerable ways to "do" foreplay, and there aren't really rights or wrongs as long as you're both having a good time. How experienced are you? Is your aim with this post to "know what to do" when you get with a partner, or are you looking for things to spice up an existing sex life? If the former is the case, don't worry. This stuff should come naturally to you.
How to be "good" at foreplay and sex is something you will learn with time and experience. It is also very important to remember that what constitutes as "good foreplay" is very personal, and the best way to figure out what a partner wants is to communicate with them and figure out what sorts of touch and stimulation they enjoy. There are no hard and fast rules to what will feel good to a person, so you will just need to experiment and find out what works for you.
Foreplay is any stimulating activity you do together in preparation for sex. There are no hard and fast rules on what is right. It can be any activity that you both find mutually enjoyable, and which serves to increase your level of arousal. Different thing work for different people. Best thing is to experiment and find out what works for you.
> Foreplay is any stimulating activity you do together in preparation for sex. There are no hard and fast rules on what is right.
I tend to disagree with both positions on this. Back in the good ol' days there were definite stages of making out. These are:
- Necking
All manner of kissisng and caressing above the shoulders
- Petting
Kissing and caressing of the other person's body excluding the erogenous zones, mainly the breasts and genitals; and, with clothes on.
- Heavy Petting
All of the above to include breast play and limited genital play through clothing or maybe with the breasts (partially) exposed.
- Foreplay
Kisses and caresses directed toward exposed breasts and genitals with the intention of peaking a person's arousal.
The art of making out should be all inclusive, meaning that we begin at "A", move on to "B", revisit "A", add "C", and so on and on. When we get to the Foreplay stage, we should continue with the above, not stop all the other stuff just because we are concentrating on a penis or clitoris and environs.
> Different thing work for different people. Best thing is to experiment and find out what works for you.
I often remind others that making love is not what we do to each other, rather, what we do with and for each other. A relationship is a partnership. Explore, learn, and discover, together. Decide what you like or not, and then incorporate these activities, keeping in mind that what you perhaps do not like this week may change next week, having gained a broader perspective on the whole matter.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;159411]>
I often remind others that making love is not what we do to each other, rather, what we do with and for each other.[/QUOTE]
I totally agree with that. In fact, its probably the single most important point. Whatever you are doing (kissing, having sex, etc.), I think the way to look at it is that you are giving something to the other person. The other person will then respond and do the same in return for you. That way you establish a sort of dialogue between you. If you can do this successfully, the experience is much more rewarding. It should never be about one person using the other just for their own gratification and disregarding the other person's needs. That would be selfish.
I learnt this principle just from kissing, even before I experienced sex. I found that a good kiss involves a lot more than lip contact. Its also about how you hold the other person, and what you do with your hands. But the most important thing is to be considerate of the other person's needs. And I must say, I've experienced some amazing, passionate kisses as a result.
Here are some things we do:
Kissing
Boob play
Mutual Masturbation with fingers and with toys
Oral sex
Kissing after oral to share juices
Sex toys
Prostate massage
We always watch porno DVD'S as part of foreplay.
Video while having sex.
Well, anything can be foreplay really. Foreplay is just something sexual that you do that isn't sex. I don't know how basic of an answer you want, but here are some common types of foreplay:
kissing
making out/necking (kissing + caressing)
kissing her/his neck, chest, body
sucking or nibbling his/her ears
caressing/touching each other
sucking her/his nipples
oral sex (licking, sucking, tonguing, etc.)
manual stimulation (touching, rubbing, stroking, etc. each others genitals)
rim jobs (basically oral sex on the anus)
anal play (fingering, touching, exploring the "back door")
sensual massage
There are innumerable ways to "do" foreplay, and there aren't really rights or wrongs as long as you're both having a good time. How experienced are you? Is your aim with this post to "know what to do" when you get with a partner, or are you looking for things to spice up an existing sex life? If the former is the case, don't worry. This stuff should come naturally to you.
How to be "good" at foreplay and sex is something you will learn with time and experience. It is also very important to remember that what constitutes as "good foreplay" is very personal, and the best way to figure out what a partner wants is to communicate with them and figure out what sorts of touch and stimulation they enjoy. There are no hard and fast rules to what will feel good to a person, so you will just need to experiment and find out what works for you.
Foreplay is any stimulating activity you do together in preparation for sex. There are no hard and fast rules on what is right. It can be any activity that you both find mutually enjoyable, and which serves to increase your level of arousal. Different thing work for different people. Best thing is to experiment and find out what works for you.
> Foreplay is any stimulating activity you do together in preparation for sex. There are no hard and fast rules on what is right.
I tend to disagree with both positions on this. Back in the good ol' days there were definite stages of making out. These are:
- Necking
All manner of kissisng and caressing above the shoulders
- Petting
Kissing and caressing of the other person's body excluding the erogenous zones, mainly the breasts and genitals; and, with clothes on.
- Heavy Petting
All of the above to include breast play and limited genital play through clothing or maybe with the breasts (partially) exposed.
- Foreplay
Kisses and caresses directed toward exposed breasts and genitals with the intention of peaking a person's arousal.
The art of making out should be all inclusive, meaning that we begin at "A", move on to "B", revisit "A", add "C", and so on and on. When we get to the Foreplay stage, we should continue with the above, not stop all the other stuff just because we are concentrating on a penis or clitoris and environs.
> Different thing work for different people. Best thing is to experiment and find out what works for you.
I often remind others that making love is not what we do to each other, rather, what we do with and for each other. A relationship is a partnership. Explore, learn, and discover, together. Decide what you like or not, and then incorporate these activities, keeping in mind that what you perhaps do not like this week may change next week, having gained a broader perspective on the whole matter.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;159411]>
I often remind others that making love is not what we do to each other, rather, what we do with and for each other.[/QUOTE]
I totally agree with that. In fact, its probably the single most important point. Whatever you are doing (kissing, having sex, etc.), I think the way to look at it is that you are giving something to the other person. The other person will then respond and do the same in return for you. That way you establish a sort of dialogue between you. If you can do this successfully, the experience is much more rewarding. It should never be about one person using the other just for their own gratification and disregarding the other person's needs. That would be selfish.
I learnt this principle just from kissing, even before I experienced sex. I found that a good kiss involves a lot more than lip contact. Its also about how you hold the other person, and what you do with your hands. But the most important thing is to be considerate of the other person's needs. And I must say, I've experienced some amazing, passionate kisses as a result.
Here are some things we do:
Kissing
Boob play
Mutual Masturbation with fingers and with toys
Oral sex
Kissing after oral to share juices
Sex toys
Prostate massage
We always watch porno DVD'S as part of foreplay.
Video while having sex.