hello , my girlfriend was once addicted to cocaine and cheated on me early on in the relationship due to this . she wanted cocaine and sex was the price . when i asked she said that she did not enjoy the sex while on cocaine and added that she barely felt anything . i do not know if she is telling me the truth or not in order to not hurt me . from what i have read it seems that men and women are hightened during intercourse and since my girlfriend is a woman i am addressing the affects on a woman and i have read in many many cases that women almost always achieve orgasm and have the best sex of thier life on cocaine . i would like to know if i am right or wrong and whether or not my girlfriend could be afraid to tell me that she came everywhere and enjoyed it more than ever . also i am interested in hearing personal stories good or bad on the subject of coacaine and sex as well as the affects . i read in the case of one woman that it made her " feel like i was a porn star " and she did " things she would normally not even consider doing" . any stories or advice would be greatly appreciated . thanks again
Mon, 11/29/2004 - 22:31
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what are the affects of cocaine on sex ?
while you may or may not experience great sex while stoned (coke, liquoror anything), in the long run it just clouds the mind. being stoned may or may not be an enjoyable thing (trying not to be judgemental or encouraging!) but it is really only something you do when you are bored. Life including sex is so much better clear headed. thant being said, a little coke rubbed on your penis goes a Loooooong way!
situation sounds a little effed up to me...i don't know why you're worrying how it felt while she was on cocaine. She may not have felt anything because she had no emotional attachment to the guy who was giving her the coke for her services, and it was like doing a job to her.
instead of worrying about how she felt while doing it, which can't be changed and doesn't much matter, i'd worry about the cocaine situation. Is it over, do you have good reason to believe she won't go back to snorting, if she'd have sex for something like that has she changed enough to be faithful now? those are all the questions i personally would address if i had this problem and still decided to stay with the girl (but in all likelihood it would have ended after the cheating for me). But i know this may not be what you're looking for, so maybe someone else actually has a cocaine induced experience to share with ya.