Hi Ive been having ongoing situation with my boyfriend for the most part we have a very loving relationship on the other hand when it comes to intimacy we very much lack ive been with him for 5 years hes my first boyfriend and everytime i ask him or try to give him a blowjob he refuses everytime we have sex and i want him to stimulate my privates he dosent... im a very consious and sensitive person and i find myself lost i dont know how to make him feel differently about me at times i throw myself at him sexually and i get nothing sex is quick and lifeless and since weve been dating he made up a "game" to "help" him i have to use friends names during sex or hes not intersted and also now more so than ever hes been waking up at like 4 in the morning and having webcam sex with different girls i feel like im in a corner i dont want to lose him but i hate the way he acts what do i do??
Tue, 05/30/2006 - 02:19
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What Am I Doing Wrong
You aren't doing anything wrong, it is your bf. He apparantly doesn't have any sexual feelings for you. It is time for you to move on and find someone who will appreciate what you have to offer and is more than willing to see to your sexual needs. From what you have indicated, this relationship is very lacking sexually and that is not a good way to strenghten and move a relationship further along. Time to move on and find something better.
Why are you still there with him?
> Time to move on and find something better.
I agree with the above recommendation.
By the way, please answer not using run-on sentences. Your post was extremely difficult to read with out punctuation and capitals.
Drop him, and find someone who doesn't want to pretend you're someone else!
Good idea, gypsy
you deserve so much better than that. a relationship takes effort on both parts. i know that you feel extremely attatched to him since you've been together so long, but do you really want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you, is prone to cheating on you, and refuses to be sensitive to you?
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]Why are you still there with him?
> Time to move on and find something better.
I agree with the above recommendation.
By the way, please answer not using run-on sentences. Your post was extremely difficult to read with out punctuation and capitals.[/QUOTE]
Amen, dancingdoc2...ESPECIALLY THE LAST PART!!