:confused: my girlfriend and i have been 2getha for nerly a year now and we dont have sex all the time we do it like once maby twice a month so you could imagen when it does happen i want it 2 be good for both of us its great for me i love it but she says that she doesnt get anything out of it n its not like i only last for 2 mins we have only done it standing up and in the missionary position i was thinking maby if she was on top??? can some1 tell me whats rong???
Sun, 03/26/2006 - 14:21
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what am i doing rong???
Well, standing is not a particulary relaxing position, especially for beginners. Many teen girls "get nothing out of it" because our response is not as automatic as the male's response.
There is nothing wrong, you each have some learning to do. I do recommend the woman on top to give her control and make her able to get the pressure where she needs it. She also needs to learn to orgasm. Masturbation is the best way for women to learn.
I, personally, found sex so uninteresting when I began that I stopped for a couple years. Resuming with more knowledge of myself and more experienced men solved most of the problems. Your g/g may be interested to know that one-quarter of all women never reach orgasm; half of us cannot reach orgasm through penile thrusting alone but need some other stimulation.
Evidently you have not looked around the Board or you would have found this stuff.
thanx, 1 more problem she wont touch her self either so i duno how shes gona no where her good spots are
She is probaly just young and unsure...read up on things, take it slow and
talk it out in non-threatening discussion. You may need to WAIT until she feels more at ease with herself. Maybe she had some trauma in her past that
has caused her to be uncertain about her body. Life is full of learning.
Harley.