I think I came pretty darn close to kissing a girl in grade 2. I had a huge crush on her and I once got my face awful close to her in a stupid attempt to flirt. I doubt there was any lip-to-lip contact though.

Foiled again. :(

Date: 14
Kiss (non french) : 18
Kiss (full on) : 21
Sexual contact/intercourse : 21

Yeah, it took a while, but I waited for the right woman!

you seem to have a hidden agenda for your question "i might be wrong"

But if it will help you...

I was about five, in pre school, and me and this girl used to meet up in the playground after school. We both never had a clue what we were doing but we tried everything(i hadnt even had my first erection yet, that only came when i was nine) kissed,fingered,touched "emphasis on tried"

lost my virginity at 18.

anything else you wanna ask??

I started really late myself ... was almost 23 before I did *anything* including kissing. (I could have started way earlier but I simply wasn't interested in girls in that way and didn't realize so many of them were into me back at age 16-17.) Finally I met a wonderful someone who wouldn't take no for an answer and she introduced me to the pleasures of women ... lol, I am addicted now. Things accelerated with her very quickly and we did almost every "standard" activity within the first 24 hours.

Date: Never. Woo. Go me. lol.
Kiss: *thinks* 20 technically. But it was forced really so I don't count it. I count the peckish ones when I was 22. First REAL kiss (with tongue and all) was 23.
Oral sex (giving): 22 (although I didn't swallow. First time I did that I was when I was 23.)
Oral sex (receiving): um... I'm not sure. I think I was 23 but I'm not too sure.
Sex in general: 22.

Yea, total late bloomer here. lol.

[QUOTE=thetease13]
Yea, total late bloomer here. lol.[/QUOTE]
Ha! I totally had you pegged as the opposite! :eek:

lol. I gurantee you that if he didn't come along, I'd be a 25 year old girl who had never done anything besides that forced kissed. lol.

And so I thank him very very much for coming along and letting me experience things and still being around after that. :)

Lets see...

first date: 13-14? somewhere in there.
first kiss: 13-14 some where in there.
Oral (giving and receiving): 17
sex: about a week before my 18th birthday.

first kiss-don't remember
first date-15 (almost 16)
first time giving a low job-16 (swallowed then too)
first time recieving oral-16
first time having sex....not yet, *sigh*.
first fingering-16.

That's all with the same guy, no-one else, ever.

first bf: just turned 17
vitginity : 17 (well about a week before my 18th bday)Oral: somewhere in between lol..
swallowing came after a few years of experience
anal play: about 21
anal virginity : still there lol

here's an odd question directed perhaps to moose hd or any other guy
with a more limited repertoire ... ok so ive had 3 serious bf's in my life , a few years each... but my current bf has only had one.. me... we've been dating over a year... we have talked about plans of moving in together, saving for a house, etc.... its kind of weird to say but some part of me is just like paranoid that he has never been with anybody else before....
cuz when i was 19 and had only been with the 1 bf, my mind kinda wandered and i started to wonder what it would be like to have sex with a different person... is that a curiosity that happens alot? or am i just weird... well mind u there were other problems in that relationship that may have lead to me wanted to be with someone else , but still.... i really love my bf and part of me thinks its really sweet that he waited till he found someone he really wanted to be with (well that plus he's really shy) but part of me worries he may eventually feel like he "missed out" or something for not being with other people... i kinda brought it up once to him but he was like nah thats not going to happen to me... but i mean i dunno what can u do ...

First date: 15
First kiss: 16
First time feeling a guy through pants: 16
First time being felt up..chest and lower area: 16 (same guy as the kiss and he was horrible, big mistake)
First boyfriend: 17 (not my current)
First kiss with tongue: 17
First time feeling a guy without the pants: 17
First time having sex: Yet to come.
Current age: 17 :)

[QUOTE=nursefluffykins]first bf: just turned 17
here's an odd question directed perhaps to moose hd or any other guy
with a more limited repertoire ... ok so ive had 3 serious bf's in my life , a few years each... but my current bf has only had one.. me... we've been dating over a year... we have talked about plans of moving in together, saving for a house, etc.... its kind of weird to say but some part of me is just like paranoid that he has never been with anybody else before....
cuz when i was 19 and had only been with the 1 bf, my mind kinda wandered and i started to wonder what it would be like to have sex with a different person... is that a curiosity that happens alot? or am i just weird... well mind u there were other problems in that relationship that may have lead to me wanted to be with someone else , but still.... i really love my bf and part of me thinks its really sweet that he waited till he found someone he really wanted to be with (well that plus he's really shy) but part of me worries he may eventually feel like he "missed out" or something for not being with other people... i kinda brought it up once to him but he was like nah thats not going to happen to me... but i mean i dunno what can u do ...[/QUOTE]
I think the answer is yes for this one. There's also a [URL=http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/married_and_long-term_relationships/1640... about this in the Long Term Relationships section where the woman only had 1 partner and apparently it's quite a common feeling. For me, if I married that first girlfriend (and we did discuss that at length) I think I would have felt on some level that I missed out, because no 2 people are the same, so logically I would have permenantly missed out on some sexual experiences by restricting myself to 1 person for life.

Also I think for men in particular we are genetically driven to spread our seed as "widely" as possible, so if we stick with our very first woman then we feel that we have missed out.

[QUOTE=moose_hd] I think I would have felt on some level that I missed out, because no 2 people are the same, so logically I would have permenantly missed out on some sexual experiences by restricting myself to 1 person for life.

Also I think for men in particular we are genetically driven to spread our seed as "widely" as possible, so if we stick with our very first woman then we feel that we have missed out.[/QUOTE]

Kind of scares me since I really dont want to be with anyone else other then my boyfriend. Which I dont care if people think its too early to say that, its the way I feel.

Got mad yesterday because my boyfriend and I went to go get tattooed and the artist at the end (he had been asking us questions the whole time) said something about seeing us back in a few months for touch ups. But I'd probably be with a different man and he'd probably be with a different woman since seven weeks isnt much. What the hell, he had no right to say something like that, you have to start somewhere. You cant just jump into a relationship and be like 2 years! Yes go us!
Sorry, lol I know that had nothing to do with your post.

First date: 15
First kiss: 15
First time feeling a guy through pants: 15
First time being fondled: 15
First boyfriend: 15
First kiss with tongue: 15
First time feeling a guy without the pants: 16 (big regret there)
First time having sex: 17 with my current boyfriend.
Current age: 17

Lonewolf - you're right - that thattoo artists shouldn't have said that. I'm in exactly the same emotional situation - I can't imagine losing my b/f.

First date: 18
First kiss: 19...(Im talking about a kiss that actually meant something to me)
First time feeling a girl through pants: 19
First time being fondled: 19
First girlfriend: 13?...
First kiss with tongue: 13
First time feeling a girl without the pants: Havent gotten there yet.
First time having sex: Virgin.
Current age: 19

By the way that tattoo artist is an *******...ignore him. No right saying that...I couldnt imagine myself without my girlfriend.

moose (and anyone else reading this lol) i read the post about that lady who has only been with her husband and is considering having sex with another man and has discussed it with her husband yada yada... whoa, certainly not my cup of tea... ! ... i can only hope to keep the communication (and sex!) open with my bf and not let his curiosity escalade to that point...talk about feelings and stuff along the way, which is not always easy... of course i cant predict what could happen 18 years down the line but that just seems so extreme...
its like being stuck between a rock and a hard place ; the previous sex partners ive had in my life all helped me become who i am today, but i love my bf very much and have no desire to be with anyone else ever again. Is part of my certainty in saying that because ive been with other people? Who knows. I really think if i had been with only him id feel the same way but of course its one thing to say how you would feel in a particular situation and another to live it... well over a year into it and we're both still relatively happy ; sure if i consider some of the other things ive posted about, our relationship isnt perfect lol, but i think it has lasting power...

let's see

first date: 13
first kiss: 13 (it was horrible...and also unfortunately my first french kiss, too)
second kiss(that was any good...and it was awesome): 15
first hand job(given): 15
first fingering(received): 15
first oral(given): 16
first oral(received): 16
first time having sex: 16

this was all with the same person(who I am still very proudly with)...except for the first date and first kiss...

did I miss anything?

first date: 14
first kiss: 14
first kiss with tongue: 15
first meaningful kiss: 16
first handjob given: 16
first fingering recieved: 16
first oral recieved: 16
first time having sex: 16
first blowjob: 16 (wow i did a lot at that age)
first oral done to a girl: 17
first fingering done to aother girl: 17
first boyfriend: 16
first boyfriend i want to spend the rest of my life with: now.
current age: 22

Mastrubated: 12
Date: 13
Kiss (French): 13
Made out with clothes on: 15
Made out with clothes off: 17
Sex: 21
Oral Sex (giving): 22
Fingered: 22
Oral Sex (receiving): 24

Well, pretty much my first anything was very recent.

1st boyfriend: 17
1st kiss (regular & Frenching): 17
1st time giving oral: 17
1st time receiving: 18
1st time having sex: 18

Date: 15
Kiss (passionate kiss): 18
Intercourse: 18

I grew up in a small town, waited til college before i got freaky;)

My first kiss was at twelve, my first heavy petting was at thirteen. My first boyfriend was at fifteen and he was twenty. Oh yeah that was my first sexual encounter. I was a wild child in those days, um and still am.

[QUOTE=nursefluffykins]first bf: just turned 17
vitginity : 17 (well about a week before my 18th bday)Oral: somewhere in between lol..
swallowing came after a few years of experience
anal play: about 21
anal virginity : still there lol

here's an odd question directed perhaps to moose hd or any other guy
with a more limited repertoire ... ok so ive had 3 serious bf's in my life , a few years each... but my current bf has only had one.. me... we've been dating over a year... we have talked about plans of moving in together, saving for a house, etc.... its kind of weird to say but some part of me is just like paranoid that he has never been with anybody else before....
cuz when i was 19 and had only been with the 1 bf, my mind kinda wandered and i started to wonder what it would be like to have sex with a different person... is that a curiosity that happens alot? or am i just weird... well mind u there were other problems in that relationship that may have lead to me wanted to be with someone else , but still.... i really love my bf and part of me thinks its really sweet that he waited till he found someone he really wanted to be with (well that plus he's really shy) but part of me worries he may eventually feel like he "missed out" or something for not being with other people... i kinda brought it up once to him but he was like nah thats not going to happen to me... but i mean i dunno what can u do ...[/QUOTE]

I can kinda relate to the situation. I will tell you this: the average guy - especially a shy type - will at some time be uncomfortable with the fact that other guys have had you and yet he has not experienced anyone else.

That is not to say that it will happen with him because I don't know him; everyone is wired differently. And even if he did end up feeling that way, that does not mean that he won't be able to work through it.

But you are smart to at least be aware of the fact that it may become an issue at some point in time.

umm...
date-15
kiss-15
oral(give)-16
oral(recieve)-16
sex-16
all w the same girl and i only wish she could have waited for me
i love her but i always think that i will never have that special first for her

Date - 15
Kiss - 15
Oral - 17
sex - 18

all w/ the same guy

"other guys have had me"... oh gee now , thanks UA, now i feel so used... :P
well, yah... thanks for your insight, we'll see what happens...but at least im not weird for thinking about what i mentioned earlier ... not much i can do about it reallly...

date-14 I wasn't allowed to date till I was 14.
kiss-14
oral(give)-16
oral(recieve)-14 (the next time I was 18)
sex-14
Age- 19

I was a messed up child. But I'm still best friends with my first, so I don't entrely regret it. *shrug* you live and learn.

first masturbation: 14 (But I really didnt learn how too until I was 17 or so)
first date: 15
first kiss: 15
first french kiss: 15 (I dove right in)
first handjob given: 15 (Mmm... and I admit to being scared of hurting him too, cuz I didn't have a clue)
first fingering recieved: 16 (right after I turned sixteen... and didn't do that again until age 18)
first oral recieved: 18
first time having sex: 18
first oral given: 16
first boyfriend: 15
current age: 18

Oh and I went through an expirementational phase so...
First kiss with a girl: 15
First Make-out with a girl: 16
First Date with a girl: 16
{But then I found out it didn't work for me}

[QUOTE=nursefluffykins]moose (and anyone else reading this lol) i read the post about that lady who has only been with her husband and is considering having sex with another man and has discussed it with her husband yada yada... whoa, certainly not my cup of tea... ! ... i can only hope to keep the communication (and sex!) open with my bf and not let his curiosity escalade to that point...talk about feelings and stuff along the way, which is not always easy... of course i cant predict what could happen 18 years down the line but that just seems so extreme...
its like being stuck between a rock and a hard place ; the previous sex partners ive had in my life all helped me become who i am today, but i love my bf very much and have no desire to be with anyone else ever again. Is part of my certainty in saying that because ive been with other people? Who knows. I really think if i had been with only him id feel the same way but of course its one thing to say how you would feel in a particular situation and another to live it... well over a year into it and we're both still relatively happy ; sure if i consider some of the other things ive posted about, our relationship isnt perfect lol, but i think it has lasting power...[/QUOTE]
I must have missed your post the first time around...

Not really sure exactly what you're asking here, but I sense you're insecure about your bf's ability to fully commit to a person when he hasn't experienced much and "calibrated" his senses that tell him how he feels about women. I think the desire to spend your life with only 1 person can be equally strong and developed among people who have and only 1 partner and those who have had many. I do absolutely believe that he can fully feel the need deep down to spend his life with his first lover if he believes she's The One.

Hypothetically, if he had been with other people first, his desires may have been more refined and his preferences about who he wants to spend his life with may have been altered, but the "certainty" of the desire and ability to make the commitment would be constant. If anything, being more experienced may give him a better ability to "know" what he's feeling and recognise that someone is The One.

(Side story ... five years before I met my first girlfriend, I met a girl at school. She was special and I had never felt that way about anyone. Back then I didn't know that I could actually date girls or anything like that so I let her slip by, even though she clearly liked me. My ability to "know" someone is The One wasn't properly honed at that point, and I only realised all of this after I had started dating my first gf and learned what it felt like to want someone and be wanted in return. That was me at age 18. Too cute. Now that woman in question is dating one of my childhood friends ... go figure.)

I think the best piece of advice I can give is to take your own advice... keep the lines of communication open. I think this goes for any woman who wants to hold onto her man: Be aware of how he's feeling, and if he's feeling trapped, you may need to help make him comfortable and feel somewhat in control again. A man who feels "trapped" in a relationship situation is dangerous... unstable, resentful, much more prone to cheating, etc.

As one of the less experienced guys, the only things I would want from a more experienced partner (that relate to largely different experience levels) are 1) acceptance of my inexperience and 2) willingness to take (both physical and emotional) things slow if I feel the need.

aww well thanks moose, u give me some hope that my relationship can last :P
... yah i think im understanding of his "inexperience"... i dont dwell on it but i dont avoid it either... i mostly just try to focus on us... like we were watching a show on playboy (dont ask lol) and it showed a girl riding a dude in i believe its called the "reverse cowgirl" position or something like that.. anyway so i was like "hey we've never done that before"... but what i would not want to say is "ive never done it with you specifically" lol...
oh, btw, my first boyfriend that i dated for 3 years and lost my virginity to (well him too actually)... anyway .. he has been living with my cousin for 2 years lol...

You watch porn with your guy? Awesome!!

(that sound you heard was fifty other guys growling in envy :D )

[QUOTE=nursefluffykins]aww well thanks moose, u give me some hope that my relationship can last :P
... yah i think im understanding of his "inexperience"... i dont dwell on it but i dont avoid it either... i mostly just try to focus on us... like we were watching a show on playboy (dont ask lol) and it showed a girl riding a dude in i believe its called the "reverse cowgirl" position or something like that.. anyway so i was like "hey we've never done that before"... but what i would not want to say is "ive never done it with you specifically" lol...
oh, btw, my first boyfriend that i dated for 3 years and lost my virginity to (well him too actually)... anyway .. he has been living with my cousin for 2 years lol...[/QUOTE]

I think you're catching on. I don't think it's ever a good idea to make references to what you did with previous partners. An inexperienced guy is generally not going to take that well. Even though he knows you're quite experienced, nevertheless, he doesn't want to constantly be reminded of that fact.

French Kiss: 13
Sexual "touching" by someone else: 15
Oral: 15
Lost my virginity: 16

First kiss: 20
French kiss: 20
Losing virgnity: 20
Oral (giving): 30
First time I knew that I was meant to be with the guy: 30 (and I still want to be with him now but he's not interested)
Yes I'm a late bloomer but I've only been with two guys and the time I lost my virginity and intercourse with the second guy 10 yrs as my relationship with my "first" was over three months after it started as I was posted away to another base as we both were in the military at the time.

I was switched from breast to bottle at eight months. Toiet training began at 14 months with no real success until 17 months. I tied my shoes by myself on my fourth birthday. That was also the first time I blew out all the candles without help. I wore lipstick in a school play when I was seven but was not allowed to wear it in public until I was sixteen. I sneaked it staring at twelve.

What detail do you want?

first kiss: 5
First Date:14
First Fingering: 16 (the guy had no clue and it hurt, so not again until i was 18)
First sex: 18
First receive oral:18
First Give: 19

First kiss: 13, i kissed her nose :p (then next day i kissed her in the right spot, lol)
First serious kiss (more than just a quick kiss on the lips) 14 (matter of fact, 3 days ago :))
First Date: 13
First time fingering: 14 (last week :p)
First time recieving (anything, oral, hand jobs, etc.): none.
First time having sex: im a virgin.
First phsyical contact (other than hugging, kissing, etc) : 14 (also a few days ago.)

same girl, and the good thing is, that when i fingered her, she replied that it felt great, so i did things right the first time :D

first date--around 14
first kiss--14
finering--14
first blow job//hand job--15
i have still not yet recieved oral.
first time having sex--16

I went out with this girl when i was 13
Kissed her, 13
had a hj,bj from her 13 (tonight MAYBE!)

i am the latest blomer

kiss 26 price $1000
sex 26 price $1000000k
pain of lossing my girl and skipping out on college to my illness @26 priceless....:D

did not have sex again until 30 same time i got my degree in biochem:D :D ::( lost her two years later(live an learn my own selfworth).
the world is harsh...take it with a grain of salt and laughter and it goes bye faster.

first kiss- 3rd grade with this little boy down the street
first date- around 14
first time giving a hand job- 15
first time giving head- 16
first time getting fingered/eaten out- 16
first time have sex- 16

most of them were with the same person. I'm still with them and have been for almost 2 years. I don't think it's awesome for people to go nd mess around with a bunch of people. I think it's good to remember who you lost what to and try to make things special. Well, atleast losing your virginity. I think it's totally gross if you don't remember who you lost it to and how many partners you have. But that's just me.

first kiss- end of 9th grade. I was 15
first date- around 16
first time giving a hand job- 19
first time giving head- 20
first time getting fingered/eaten out- 19/20 (my first no ex-fiance, refused to give oral)
first time have sex- 19

I was a pretty late bloomer, somewhat shy, and somewhat of a prude until a little before I joined this boards.

first kiss: 6
first kiss with tongue: 14
first date: 15
first fingering: 16
first time having sex: 16
first boyfriend: 16
first handjob given: 17
first oral given: 17
first anal sex: 21
first threesome: 28
first foursome: 39

What's next?

started masturbating at 15
never kissed a girl yet.
have only fallen truly in love with two girls. never had a girlfriend yet (the second will be soon i hope)
never done anything else.
am 23 and feel fine just been waiting the the right girl that I think has possibly arrived.
I notice that most people have started later that most say they do just goes to show what bragger s lost people are

[QUOTE=Newtolove]started masturbating at 15
never kissed a girl yet.
have only fallen truly in love with two girls. never had a girlfriend yet (the second will be soon i hope)
never done anything else.
am 23 and feel fine just been waiting the the right girl that I think has possibly arrived.
I notice that most people have started later that most say they do just goes to show what bragger s lost people are[/QUOTE]

It's time for you to start kissing! :D

Seriously, since you're 23, I would advise you to not "wait for the right girl" because she's not likely to come. I say get out there, date around, flirt a lot, and just experience being intimate to some degree with a girl.

If you do that, the "right girl" will come later.

i dissagree!

he is 23, there is enough time for him to find "the one"

although i have to agree, you gotta kiss some chick soon man..

^_^ i love kissing girls..

First date and kiss- age 18
First sexual experience (sans intercourse) - 19
First intercourse - 28

Im a guy lol and here it goes:

Kiss, 7
French, 13
Playing with each other: 14
Oral: 15
Intercourse:16 (LAST NIGHT BABY :D)

[QUOTE=ua322]It's time for you to start kissing! :D

Seriously, since you're 23, I would advise you to not "wait for the right girl" because she's not likely to come. I say get out there, date around, flirt a lot, and just experience being intimate to some degree with a girl.

If you do that, the "right girl" will come later.[/QUOTE]

am in the wrong environment hopefully will be moving out soon and getting mesa a life

move next door to france? Paris, you know? city of love or whatever....

im surprised italy doesnt offer you a proper environment. although, ive only studied Italy and never been there, so i could be wrong...

hopefully you can find a life in the UK :D ;) oh,

hey dark, congratz :D