I was fingering my gf a few days ago and starting to get pretty hot and heavy on her clit, she said after a while that her legs were going hot and cold. Like they would feel really really hot for a while, then feel really really cold. Her left leg often goes numb as well. She said shes never experienced the hot and cold stuff before, but shes had the numbness before. What does it mean? Is it a sign of an orgasm coming?
Sun, 01/07/2007 - 11:40
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'Weird' feeling
Although every person reacts slightly differently than the next, in my guesstimation, an orgasm is near. Just keep on keeping on........
Cool, I was hoping that was the case. Shes still never had one with anyone besides herself. I'll have to tell her not to stop me next time it starts happening.
I have a better idea. I invite the two of you to read the Skicky post: For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm? In the NEW TO SEX forum. After studying this one, read the next one: How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
> Shes still never had one with anyone besides herself. I'll have to tell her not to stop me next time
It's not so much that she not stop you, rather, that you stimulate her using the same technique that she has come to rely upon. You will understand when you read the posts.
I did read them yesterday actually, they were very good. Nice work.
Problem is when she does it to herself, she uses the palm of her hand and mine is bigger, and it feels awkward for me trying it the same way. I use my finger tips, which she says feels better.
The techiques for each woman are different - just keep experimenting until you find what works for her!