Hi, I am a 18 year old girl, and I am about 20 pounds overweight for my height. Unfortunately I have a medical condition that makes it impossible for me to lose weight, trust me I have tried everything, and I work out ALOT. So my question is, since I am an overweight girl would you say that since I have never had a boyfriend, and don't get asked out on dates it's because I am overweight? (ohhh and I don't think its because I am totally hideous, I think i am atleast somewhat attractive)
Thu, 11/17/2005 - 04:54
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[QUOTE=Quote (Brandye @ Nov. 17 2005,08:27)]Oberon has a wonderful answer to this issue in the "Other Sex Topics" forum.[/QUOTE]
Thanks, Brandye. As I say... it's a pet peeve of mine.
Oh, and thanks, Canoestripper, for the link.
Hi yup,
I dare say most of us carry around more than we'd like. What other people think about your weight is not important, what IS important is how you feel about it. If you're happy with yourself, that self-confidence will show through. Being fit from working out is great, even if it doesn't remove all the extra weight. YOU know that you're an attractive, fit person, and there are plenty of other people that will agree with you. You'll find them.
Here's the link Brandye mentioned. LINK
Take care.
Oberon has a wonderful answer to this issue in the "Other Sex Topics" forum.
There are some of us out here that love women that arent the perfect 120 pounds. My wife is over weight and is still incredibly sexy. Hugging a meaty woman is so much nicer than a skinny woman.
When you get older and the boys mature, weight will not matter so much as personality and heart.
hmm wuts ur weight? 20 pounds more shouldnt be a problem, sometimes a bitt of meat is better :P. A hirl must have some boobs and a nice ass!!!
Too skiny totally suxs