Ok so this past week, or well two weeks, have been very strange. I mean I used to get horny with little to no effort. I mean show me porn and Im hard, put me near my girl and Im ready. But lately it just seems to not work. I dont feel the usual urge to masturbate, in fact, I havent felt the urge at all.
I had sex last thursday, and I came pretty fast, which was very very strange, but I also started losing my erection. Same with last night. It took me less time than usual. And I was solid, even bigger than usual, but as soon as penetration started I went to a semi solid state. I just dont know what is going on. First my libido just disappears, then I cant maintain an erection. My stamina is halved and nothing seems to get me in the mood as easy as it used to.
Anyone have any ideas? I mean I cant stop stressing because I've really been off my game and it seems to be getting worse.
when you spend more time on this board rather than "doing it", you will for sure run into difficulties! It's more anxiety related...in your case you love attention for all the wrong reasons and get stroked from the regulars. Lovin' is more than being able to "phuck" at the drop of the hat and being" hardNgood" every time out! Stuff happens in life and stuff happens during a day that just might not be conducive to you being a STUD as usual:rolleyes::rolleyes: Let it roll with life!
HNG sums up reasons pretty well. Also, have you thought about the changes in your relationship, although you say you are fine with it, might be part of the cause. You also listed working additional hours, and you were looking to "invest" then had unexpected costs? Furthermore? Any medications or supplements added?
Seems to me in ways you are trying to plan for a future from what you wrote me; however, there are relationship matters which you might be avoiding addressing how you really feel? Added is family obligations you have.
In my opinion, its much to handle and perhaps is throwing you for a loop. There are times shutting a computer off and just going about your life is essential. Go ahead and ask why I don't? Due to what I am working on, reading this site is a reprieve since it gives me time to "zone" and I leave a laptop run while I walk away and go outside or go out, the last thing I want is to be glued to a Blackberry. Your age? Shut it off and get outdoors! My responses here today were in between work/financials which are due, housework and yard work. Meanwhile, the laptop is on in the middle of the kitchen (as always), cooked dinner too, had to just check for another document due for tomorrow am, and write this as I ate some Ice Cream. Even had 2 "dates" this week--now I just need some sleep.:eek: